"Avi, my sentiments and words to you are the same as when I responded to Carla.
Just the fact that you are already posting and wishing strength for someone else shows me that YOU have deep strength. I am so sorry for anyone on this journey. xo"
"Good morning, dear Carla.
I am so sorry by this tremendous loss in your life. It's not only the loss of your beautiful Mother, suddenly, but you're trying to make sense of something so senseless. It seems compounded by the fact that you…"
I am a married lady who has always struggled with depression/anxiety/ptsd, I have found life to be a continuous struggle as far back as I can remember. I have a very loving and supportive husband, father brother, sister and her family as well as multiple loving and supportive aunts, uncles, cousins and friends
About my Loss:
I lost my mother to a rare cancer at the age of 78 back in July of 2016. This was a most devastating loss as we were very close and she knew my heart, was my biggest champion and defender. She was my soft place to land, and even now, after 1 1/2 years I struggle with her loss and cry all of the time because I miss her so much
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