Patricia Chavez
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So painful without my mommy
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Hi my name is Patricia ,  I’m a new member.. I cared for my mom in my home for 15 years .. last year she started getting weak. I don’t speak to any my sisters either , they are accusing me of helping…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Robin M Bond Apr 12, 2018.

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Jayne left a comment for Patricia Chavez
"My mom passed away six years ago from Pancreatic Cancer. I have been devastated. My brother just passed away so sad. Best friends with both of them. I thought I would share my story. Jayne Jaynelr2002@yahoo.com"
Sep 15, 2018
Robin M Bond replied to Patricia Chavez's discussion So painful without my mommy
"I am sorry to hear this."
Apr 12, 2018
Patricia Chavez replied to Jennifer Nuss's discussion Also missing my Mom. in the group Lost Without My Mom
"Rhonda, thank you for your kind reply . It gives me some comfort to know my grieving for my mom is normal..  there are days I try to feel as if I’m suffocating the pain is so unbearable .  My husband and I had my mom living with us…"
Mar 3, 2018
Patricia Chavez replied to Jennifer Nuss's discussion Also missing my Mom. in the group Lost Without My Mom
"I’m sorry for your pain, but I understand how you hurt.. my mom passed on December 2017, she lived with me since 2007..we went to the mall, movies and outings with my husband .. we three were always out together.. she had Congestive heart…"
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My mom died, August 17, 2009 of an apparent heart attack from heart failure. Her doctors never told me how sick she was and so I was blown away and am heart sick and lost without her.
Mar 1, 2018
Patricia Chavez replied to Patricia Chavez's discussion So painful without my mommy
"My brother say’s it their guilty conscious .. my son’s wedding was yesterday, I was looking outside church wedding talking to my mom in heaven, at that moment a red cardinal flew up to window edge .. I knew my mom was with us .. "
Feb 25, 2018
Jesse's Mom replied to Patricia Chavez's discussion So painful without my mommy
"I am sorry Patricia for all the extra worries you have besides losing your mom. I am not sure why others feel the need to throw extra meanness at others at such a time. "
Feb 24, 2018
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So painful without my mommy

Hi my name is Patricia ,  I’m a new member.. I cared for my mom in my home for 15 years .. last year she started getting weak. I don’t speak to any my sisters either , they are accusing me of helping Hospice poison my mother with morphine .. They never helped me care for my mom, I’d have to beg them and they always caused an argument and would block themselves from phone calls to help with my mom .. They I would go as far as to call my mother and I ask my mom “why doesn’t Patricia put you in a…See More
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I’m a nurse who cared for my mother at my home for 15 years ...
About my Loss:
I lost my mom on the December 24,2017.. I feel I’m suffocating, I’m numb .. 😢
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At 9:21pm on September 15, 2018, Jayne said…
My mom passed away six years ago from Pancreatic Cancer. I have been devastated. My brother just passed away so sad. Best friends with both of them. I thought I would share my story. Jayne Jaynelr2002@yahoo.com
 
 
 

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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, I actually looked up the EquoVox. I couldn't find an English link for it. I'll keep looking. I'm just really curious how it works. And I want you to make your own decisions. I just want you to be happy."
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
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Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"No we should not, God is the only communicator Avi, you are right. We should not disturb the deceased, they are in peace, it is us who are not in peace. I still struggle everyday, I just have come to recognize that this is my new life.  "
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