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Sheila B.
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Tips to help one cope wi…
24 members
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Traumatic, Sudden Loss
943 members
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Lost Without My Mom
249 members
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I miss my Mom!
751 members
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- About my Loss:
- We lost my mother to a sudden heart attack.
Sheila B.'s Blog
Dreams
It seems my mom is always in my dreams or the ones I remember anyway. It's better because I don't wake up crying now. It's the same kind of dreams I would have when she was alive. From what I have heard it usually takes a long time for your loved one to come to you in dreams so I try to be thankful for it. It still hurts when I wake up and she's gone but at least I have that.
Posted on August 29, 2013 at 10:39pm
Mortality
Weighing heavy on my mind day and night. What a useless worry that has become my biggest fear. In an instant it became my new companion. Will it's nagging go away or only get worse? Now more than ever it is important to live for the day, for the moment.
Posted on July 11, 2013 at 1:25pm — 1 Comment
My Mother's words of wisdom
"Stay focused".
"Don't live your life with regrets".
Posted on July 10, 2013 at 12:56pm
Groups
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Multiple Losses Group
324 members
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I miss my Mom!
751 members
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Grief Counseling
140 members
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Zoom Grief Support
39 members
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Orphaned Adults
80 members
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Sole Survivors
15 members
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Losing a sibling
62 members
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Being the Other Woman/Ot…
43 members
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Compounded grief with ex…
49 members
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Sibling Loss
8 members
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Lost both parents
12 members
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You're too young to be a…
139 members
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I love my Dad.
414 members
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Years later...
47 members
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What's Next?
6 members
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"I thought celebrating my mom birthday would make it easier. It was fun to celebrate but I still feel the loss. Downs are not as bad as they use to be but I still have them around anniversaries dates."
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Hi Sheila,
I relate to what you wrote about your mother in law. My MIL is very nice, and since my mom passed, she's been trying to make more of a connection with me--calling more, writing more, etc. It's nice, but she's not mom. She never will be. And that's hard. Sending you hugs.