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Comment by James Quinn on June 6, 2015 at 8:55pm

Living In New Zealand all The medical care for my darling Wife who died of bladder cancer  did not cost me anything the hospital and staff handle my darling with such care  gave her the best there is  hospice also gave so much to ease her pain and gave comfort to my love. As for me I fell I am In hell the nine months seem like an endless day all I can think of is wanting to join my soulmate I hope its soon I feel my soul longs to be set free to be with my love 

Comment by Heath Dorian Papp on June 6, 2015 at 6:50pm

I feel that way too Kathleen.  If it weren't for my son, I don't know that I'd still be walking around this planet.

As far as bills, go... Hospitals would rather have something than nothing. IF you can handle the bankruptcy, the go in that direction.  If not, set up a "payment" plan.  My Aunt who passed from the c a little over a month ago had it for 30 years, and she sent the hospital around $200-300 a month.  I know that a lot but not compared to destroying your credit rating.  Have you thought about "Go Fund Me?"  A friend from HS just got a surprise diagnosis of giant brain tumor.  His best friend put up a Go Fund Me and it's raised 30k in about a week.  Everything helps.  That's why I always tell people not to give to Komen or The American Cancer Society.  They aren't curing anything, and there's lots of folks on the payroll before the money goes to anyone who needs it.  I learned that in hindsight after having thousands donated after my wife passed.  If you reading this, I'm so sorry.  I know that the only folks on here are just like me, devastated by this horrible disease.  Please try and take care of yourselves.  Much love and light to all.  

Comment by Heath Dorian Papp on June 6, 2015 at 6:50pm

I feel that way too Kathleen.  If it weren't for my son, I don't know that I'd still be walking around this planet.

As far as bills, go... Hospitals would rather have something than nothing. IF you can handle the bankruptcy, the go in that direction.  If not, set up a "payment" plan.  My Aunt who passed from the c a little over a month ago had it for 30 years, and she sent the hospital around $200-300 a month.  I know that a lot but not compared to destroying your credit rating.  Have you thought about "Go Fund Me?"  A friend from HS just got a surprise diagnosis of giant brain tumor.  His best friend put up a Go Fund Me and it's raised 30k in about a week.  Everything helps.  That's why I always tell people not to give to Komen or The American Cancer Society.  They aren't curing anything, and there's lots of folks on the payroll before the money goes to anyone who needs it.  I learned that in hindsight after having thousands donated after my wife passed.  If you reading this, I'm so sorry.  I know that the only folks on here are just like me, devastated by this horrible disease.  Please try and take care of yourselves.  Much love and light to all.  

Comment by dream moon JO B on June 6, 2015 at 11:36am

thnx alex

sisn my mums dgnozes ths wk its rely got 2 me it haz i can imagng wot it wz lk for evry 1 on hear 

im so sorry for yore loses 2 alex 

all i can say is i am

hrt

angry

madupset

scream

swear curse

punsh a wall

cry

say why not bad men womnen it kill it doze bad thngs 2 peple

nasty peadfile coz all peadfils is nastty thy r

jo

Comment by Alex on June 6, 2015 at 9:02am

Jo b
That is perfectly normal to vent, we have all been through it.
I lost both my parents too cancer last year, Dad was diagnosed with lung cancer in April of 13, he had some treatment and surgery in sept of 13, doctor said all was good, so dad returned too work. Mom was diagnosed with lung cancer in February of 14, she had surgery only in April, doctor said everything was successful and removed all of the cancer. Around the 20th of August mom went too the doctor and they said the cancer was throughout her whole body and they would start radiation. On the 28 of August dad was diagnosed with cancer again the doctor said he would live about a month with treatment.
Dad died on sept 25 2014, Mom had a stroke on October 21 2014 and died on November 4 2014. I lost both parents in 40 days.
So it's okay too vent we have an idea of the pain that you are going through.
I'll keep you and your mom in thoughts and prayers

Comment by dream moon JO B on June 6, 2015 at 8:02am

thnx mary m 

i neadet 2 rant i did it feals lk wong 1s get it  i supoze aw eb i supoze a web sie lk ths it lets u rant is grt

we can say hw we feal on hear coz u cud say we all feal sme we do 

hrt

mad

angry

upst

wona punsh a wall

scream 

yell

swear/crse abot

cry 

i mite cum bal latr rant a bit mre on hear i will

Comment by Mary M. on June 6, 2015 at 7:57am

Jo B - this site is fir venting or ranting - we have all experienced similar emotions at some point - some of us just verbalized more. We are imperfect people living in an imperfect world and life just isn't fair sometimes. God Bless!

Comment by dream moon JO B on June 6, 2015 at 7:41am

thnx mary m 

its so not fair all isa y why cnt killers get it it or peadafils get it not 1s lk yore hubby or evry on hear its lots s1 2 it or is tryng 2 beat it lk my mum 

sorrry if im rantng on 2 mush 

Comment by Mary M. on June 4, 2015 at 4:46pm

Job- I am sorry about your mum's diagnosis. Cancer is not dicrinatory - nobody is immune. They have made many advances though so we can have some hope for our loved ones that are diagnosed and still with us. Hugs to you - I know it doesn't help much.

Comment by dream moon JO B on June 4, 2015 at 3:38pm

i hate it mums bean dignozd wth brest c she haz thy say coer cort it erle erly thy hav but im so upst angry abot i am 

its its not slf pity its not its me bean upset abot it why her shes not hrt any 1 

im terfid of loozen her

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