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Missing my Son  or  Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.

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Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on April 27, 2014 at 12:48am
Crying has become an every day event. Who would have thought. I would give everything I own for 5 minutes with my son.
Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on April 27, 2014 at 12:44am
Jacqueline
I'm so heartbroken for you. Such a beautiful baby girl. It is so hard to lose a child. I can't imagine not knowing why or why it's taking so long to find out. My sincere prayers are with and for you. May god be rocking this baby in his arms.
Comment by Jacqueline Mckamey on April 27, 2014 at 12:26am

The Link to Global News is the news story About my daughter, Alexcia Mckamey.. I just cant handle this its horrible its like im stuck with no answers , no child, no future, she is everything I had planned for.. its so hard .. I am trying my best but no body understands or can comprehend how much this hurts.. I feel so alone and all I want is her.. I miss her .. everything about her.

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Comment by Connie K on April 26, 2014 at 1:31pm

I always feel like Daniel is there when I see these big magnificent birds. Like the bald Eagle that soared above us last year and disappeared with little white lights. Nothing but magical. I definitely feel like I had a little visit from my son. I miss him so much ....still look at his picture and say please come home. It's time to come home.

Comment by Connie K on April 26, 2014 at 1:28pm

What an awesome pic Dolly. All these beautiful creatures to show you that Spirit is everywhere and Brandon is probably taking soaring rides with these beauties! (( ))

Comment by Connie K on April 26, 2014 at 11:34am

Jaqueline I am sorry to have to welcome you to the group. What a beautiful baby girl . I am so sorry for your pain and the torture of no closure regarding how she died.

Eva - we all cry so much because we love so much. The physical seperation from a child, a part of us, is so devastating, It's like you always have a rock in your chest. With each day, I try find comfort in the fact that My Daniel's spirit is still with us. Having to accept that he is gone forever is too painful. So I really must believe that I will see him again. I have had many experiences where  I communicate with him . Many messages. My son was 17 when he passed 16 months ago. With every event that was SUPPOSED to happen to him (graduation, getting is car, just going on the fulfill his life's dreams - all vanished in a second.) As hard as I try I cannot get the image of his last seconds on earth and his head being bashed in during the car accident. But I am glad he didn't suffer. But the suddenness has left me in shock almost this whole time. I am slowly trying to emerge to see what I am still left to learn and do til i see him again. I will listen carefully, as I know he will be there to help me along. But crying is a daily thing and I never know when it will hit.

Just know that you are not alone and we all understand your devastating loss.

Dolly & Teresa I'm sorry you are having such a hard time right now. The longing and missing them is sometimes so overwhelming. How can we ever stop missing them? I still cannot even remove his clothes from his room. I don't know how I can do that. Altho I do want to have one of those quilts made from his tee shirts. I have  a hard time even doing that. I wear his tee shirts when I feel really sad just don't know how to go on  with the task of going through everything.

Sending everyone love and hugs.

Comment by Teresa D. on April 26, 2014 at 7:36am

Eva, I'm with you...I'd give anything to see Michael just for a second.  I just want to talk to him for just one quick second.  I need my baby.  Tears...are just a part of my day now.  Others don't want us to hurt without realizing this is the greatest loss any parent could feel. 

Michael's last day we talked about his future, as a mom I saw it in my mind as we talked.  Now it is all gone.  Everything is just gone. 

Jacqueline, I don't know what to say.  To lose such a beautiful baby at the hands of someone else.  My heart cries for you.

I don't have anything to really say....I'm so drained and exhausted.

Comment by Eva Van on April 26, 2014 at 1:11am

Comment by Eva Van on April 26, 2014 at 12:54am

i just want to quit crying...I want everyone around me to quit telling me to push past the pain...like I can...If these tears could bring her back I guess they'd have a purpose..but they can't...so the world sees me as weak...full of regret...but I cry because I don't want her to be gone...I cry because my heart controls them and not my head...I cry because I love her...I cry because she is a part of me that's missing....I can't stop wanting my Devan back...and my soul screams for her in the heavens...without an answer.  I physically want to hold her...stroke her hair...I want my friend back...my daughter...my little one. I cry because my heart knows it can not be so...

Comment by Jacqueline Mckamey on April 26, 2014 at 12:24am
 

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