"Hello everyone. My daughter, Jessica was run down a year ago today. It hurts just as much if not more today than it did then. The man that did this to her was in court yesterday and was granted another continuance. He still has not spent any time in…"
"Today is a hard day. It's been 9 months since Jessica was killed and I still find it hard to tell people that didn't know she was killed about it. It brings the pain back and I die a little more inside."
"I was talking to someone the other day about the fact that i miss my daughter and the person responded by asking why i'm not over that yet. and informed me that i should have already moved past that. needless to say i have no intention of ever…"
"I miss my Jessica. I struggle a little bit more everyday to understand why and how this happened. I feel guilty because my illness is progressing faster and faster since she was killed. I feel guilty because it isn't fair to her sisters,…"
"I recieved a card in the mail from a woman named Kelly. She is a wife and a mother to a young child. She was blessed enough to recieve one of Jessica's kidneys. She wrote to thank us for thinking of others during the most painful time in our…"
"My daughter died on August 7,2010 as a result of injuries from being hit by a car two days prior. According to witness reports the driver aimed his car and hit her going 45 mph. He still has not served a single day in jail and will not appear…"
"Today is a Jessica day. The heartache of losing her is just as fresh today as it was the day I lost her. The sad reality that she is never going to walk through the front door and say "mommy you'll never guess what Steven did today"…"
"I can relate. The majority of my friends and family have pushed me away because they don't know how to handle the fact that I am going through something that I will never fully recover from. At least on this site I can say honestly how I feel…"
"I know how you feel. Most days I feel like I am going through the motions on auto pilot for the most part. I am surrounded by people that for the most part mean well. Some of them attempt to understand what I'm going through and the rest…"
"My daughter is pregnant and wants to name her daughter after her sister, Jessica. There is a part of me that is touched by this and understand that she wants to honor her sisters memory by naming her daughter after her. I'm afraid that having…"
"Hi, my name is Joan. I am here because on August 5, 2010 a man aimed his car towards my daughter Jessica while she was crossing the street and hit her. He was going 45mph. She weighed 93 pounds, almost every bone in her body was broken by the…"
"Two months after my daughter was killed, my grand daughter got hurt. There was massive swelling of the brain, just like my daughter and was in a coma for two weeks ( she has made a full recovery). While my grand daughter was still in the coma a…"
I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce.Many of us have lost more than one person or event.Come share!See More
"May there be peace on earth, in the heavens and in the space. May there be peace in the waters, plants, forests and the elements. May there be peace toward all life forms. May there be peace in food and nutrients. May there be knowledge for peace to…"
"Marilyn, I stayed sick at my stomach for a long time after Gary went to Heaven. Your entire description of how you feel brings back that it's exactly how I felt for a very long time. Such agony. And trying to get myself together for any…"
"My husband died last September. We were married 36 years. We had our struggles. He was mentally ill (schizophrenia) and it was not the marriage I once imagined, but I loved him. And he loved me. I too, am having some…"
"Mary Chris, my daughter in law went through the same thing..having to deliver her first child at six months in the womb, and then it happened again with her third daughter who died at 3 months in the womb...it was horrible for her and for my son and…"
"Just thinking about having a memorial or writing something for the paper makes me feel like a heavy weight is on me and a rock is in my belly...I feel like my nerves are scraped raw inside and almost like I could throw up...I don't know why I…"
"Rough afternoon. My granddaughter told me "the story" of the day my son, Gary, died. I am a nervous, anxiety ridden wreck. I did not know all of the details. I am sick at heart for her and my daughter in law, who were told very abruptly by…"
"Marilyn - I know it is just hard to live without our children. To do anything. I understand all of your feelings. It is so tough to speak about your child when people just don't get it. It makes me feel like they are diminishing the greatest of…"
"Marilyn I understand how hard it is to go out. Those first many trips out after take a huge amount of energy because even if we do not run into anyone who wants to offer condolences, we worry ourselves sick that we will! Breathing seems…"