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Dolly I have known you for awhile now and I know your intention is to NEVER hurt anyone. Sometimes because of our emotional state we are quick to take something the wrong way.
Sharon it's okay we all have our moments of feeling overwhelmed by all of this.
Laurie I am so sorry you have to go through this. It must be very painful to have to keep re-visiting the details. HUGS!!!!!!
This past Thursday would have been my infant son's birthday. He would have been 28 -- the same age as Jesse when he transitioned.
The next day was yet another court day...we almost had the case slid out from under us.
I posted the below posts because on Thursday, I discovered some rather unpleasant conversation, very hurtful conversation, going on in the church we were attending. Just plain judgemental. On the day of my deceased infant's birthday.
I have two children to grieve for...the days are just so dark right now...
This weekend I spent the entire time printing out a accident report that our DA needed to have for the case...somehow this information got dropped and I almost lost the ability to use our accident reconstructionist as a witness.
Then today as I was driving to the Print Shop to have this complicated document printed...the mini-van in front of me does the very illegal manuever that killed my son...quickly jumping in the oncoming lane of traffic to make a left turn...a crazy driving pattern I have only seen here...it killed my son...
...it hurts just to breath somedays...
Sharing this blog from a grieving mom who is 12 years out...her most recent post:
Im Sorry Dolly I thought that because I said I like his messages I offended people ..... I had a good cry and did some thinking and realised we do have to be careful. I am glad I am back and I know that this is a safe place and there are friends on line here that are here with me walking this road we call grief.
I guess we all have times that we can be tearful over just the simplest of things ... and I think I was having one of those moments yesterday : )
Sometimes things get just too much for me, Im constantly reminded of that day because I have to care for my 28yr old now with a brain injury from the accident (he was a builder, can't drive anymore let alone ever getting married) and an ex (who was the driver) who constantly gives me grief.
I don't go to church much these days ... Not because I don't want to, I feel just so broken inside, that I feel that I don't fit in.
I go for a visit to NZ in August for my fathers 90th birthday... this is starting something in me as well, I know that this will be the last time we will see each other.
Maaaannnn I need to get a grip ....... life is tough at times
I was just trying to warn people about this because it was used against me and it threw me back into a deep depression that I was just starting to crawl out of.. it wasn't aimed at anyone... from now on I'm out of here too...
I give up
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