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Angel mommies... love that <3 met an angel mommy today and feel so satisfied that though ever after my son left I haven't been the most happiest person around there was no need to explain . I once met an old colleague who told me , " my god you used to be so cheerful whats happened to you?" I thought " really ? like it will go away just because some time passes and I will just simply 'bounce back'.... never mind ... Love to you all and wishes for peace and yes happiness in any form that it comes.
So many things I could respond to on here. Catching up since I haven't checked in for awhile. I thought it wouldn't be so rough this year, but I think I have done it to myself by allowing myself to think too much. Tomorrow will be 5 years since our son left and I still don't know how this time has passed so quickly when each day seems to drag on.
I've had a graphic saved for a couple of weeks and wanted to share it with you even though I don't call my son an angel. I can't remember who posted this on FB but might have been a grief site.
Just know you all are in my thoughts and prayers each day.
Teresa, thank you!
Dolly, Happy Birthday to you and Bo. That's nice you both share the same day!
Jane, my support is with you today.
Dolly, HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Brandon will always dance in the trees!
Ladies, HUGS
Happy Birthday Dolly and BO! My heart is with you today. Hugs
tomorrow is my 72nd birthday and my son Bo's 31st..its two years since Brandon died but the first birthday I had shortly after he died [a month plus a few days after] I couldn't sleep and was at the computer which was in the room that opened into Brandon's room.. as I was sitting there doing God knows what and feeling lost I suddenly heard one clear loud strum from a toy guitar ..it sounded out of Brandon's room just like so many times before when Brandon was in his bed playing with toy guitars.. BUT when I went into the room to find the source of the sound, that guitar was not there.. there were a few toy guitars there but none of them produced the riff I heard.. It gave me chills then and still does now that as I write about it... it was as if Brandon was wishing me a happy birthday from heaven or saying 'hi' at least.. nothing that I recognized as coming from heaven happened last year on my birthday though.. and I wonder if anything will happen this year.. BUT we are visiting my oldest son in MA and had just completed the long two-day trip up..just as we pulled off 495 and were headed for my son's' house at long last the song 'Rainbow Connection' started playing on the CD player [a CD we had made of songs the guys loved] This song has so much history connected with my mother in law and with our family trips to the beach..same beach where Brandon died... so it made me feel like Brandon was saying 'I'm here too!" and THEN just as we got to the drive that leads to the house the song "Adoption Day" came on... just so perfectly timed.. Brandon was the third child we adopted and this was another favorite song from my kid's childhood.. so I do feel as if my son is still around on some level of existence that isn't totally separate from our own earthly existence.. I don't know how it all works, but things like this happen too often to just be coincidence...
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