Losing Someone to Cancer

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Losing Someone to Cancer

This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.

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Stupid cancer commercials 6 Replies

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I Wish Someone Will Take Care of the Paperworks for Free 2 Replies

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Losing another loved one to cancer 2 Replies

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Comment by Anonymity be my name on September 16, 2017 at 4:05pm
This is my blog. I am feeling angry and lost.

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Comment by Linda Engberg on July 29, 2017 at 3:38pm

Hi Morgan,

Babe J has regained use of her paws, I prayed so hard and I think he answered my prayers. If anything happens to her it is the end of my life/

Comment by morgan on July 29, 2017 at 1:02am

Oh no, Linda, not Babie J?  I am so sorry.  It's like life just wants to  keep throwing things at us just to see our breaking point.  I am constantly watching my life just shrink down.  All I want to do is staying bed and sleep.  

Comment by Linda Engberg on July 28, 2017 at 12:58pm

Don't care if I die, I have nothing to live for since losing my Husband 5/5/13 and my dog having brain cancer. What purpose is there to life.

Comment by Donna Doucette on July 26, 2017 at 4:33pm

My daughter is in med school and is currently doing a clinical rotation in Oncology.  Cancer is a terrible disease. She said she sees all stages of cancer and how it is affecting people.  Most of the patients she sees are smokers or heavy drinkers or obese.    My husband passed from brain cancer.  He was diagnosed and passed within 20 days.  He had liver disease from alcohol, he was a very heavy smoker, but I don't care how badly someone treats their own body, no one deserves to die this way.  Since his death I have decided to take charge of my life.  I eat better, exercise and I feel I'm doing it for him.   I seem to have a different outlook on life and it helps me deal with the grief of losing him.  I find I sleep better.  There is no way to ever know if someone is going to get cancer, or just die suddenly but I know he would want me to embrace every day and that's what doing.....some of the time

Comment by Linda Engberg on July 26, 2017 at 7:58am

I agree with your Mom, cancer is the devil.

Comment by nouse on July 25, 2017 at 11:11pm

my mom said cancer was the devil... she died in 4 months.i send you all a lot of strength and more strength ive depression too so i dont see a point in living but most normal people say theres a point.

Comment by Esther on July 24, 2017 at 7:38pm
I hate seeing pictures of him... he's so thin like the people in the Holocaust pictures.
Comment by Linda Engberg on July 24, 2017 at 8:29am

Morgan,

You said it perfect, there is nothing worth living for without my Husband to share it with.

Comment by Esther on July 23, 2017 at 6:37pm

Today has been waves of numb detachment for me... I try to be positive and hopeful but sometimes we can't force it and must just tolerate the sadness

 

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A group for people who have lost loved ones with prolonged suffering. For those of us who have seen that the end is coming, and had to watch the ones we love creep toward it.
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I lost my daddy to suicide.

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