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Barb birthdays are always hard. Spend the day the way you need to.
I can say nothing or I can honestly tell you I spent the first year crawled up on my bathroom floor just crying all day until someone opened the door to check on me. When I looked up I saw 9:00pm on the clock and realized I survived it. Until that moment I literally felt like I would die that day. I gone through more birthdays with Valentines every where I look as a in my face reminder.
Barb I will also tell you this.....I did not spend the past two years on the bathroom floor and don't expect to this year either. I did spend them crying my eyes out though. But it wasn't on the bathroom floor. My anxiety is already starting and February isn't even here yet.
I expect to cry, not sure what else I'll do but I know I will do what I can so I'm not on that floor. In time I want to be able to celebrate Michael's life rather than mourning it. I'm just not there.
Here I go again, I don't want February to come. Valentine's Day is Michael's birthday. He was the best gift I ever received. He would be turning 33 this year. So I sit and wonder what his life would have been like.
Miss you Mike! Love you Michael!
Interesting web site from bereaved father Guy who lost his son Billy to an ATV accident.
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I am so sorry to welcome you here. My son died the same way a little over 3 years ago. He was a passenger with 3 boys and he was the only one killed (the others were barely injured). the driver made an arrogant, negligent move that cost my son his life. Your daughter is beautiful and I hope you can find some comfort here. Prayers to you.
Yes, I haven't been on much. I just buried myself in work and physical work for the past months since August. We quit going to therapy and Compassionate Friends. We hardly talk about my son because it is so hard, 5 year and the pain is still here. Life is cruel.
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