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Rachel, I am so sorry you have had to join us here. The death of your child is the worst pain any person will ever go through. I am glad you found the site and hopefully it will offer you support and comfort knowing you are not alone. I lost my 26 year old daughter Kyra in a car accident last August 17th, so the first anniversary of her death is fast approaching. Right after Kyra's death I wanted and prayed to die, so I could be with her. I felt like I was going crazy and I would never climb out of the deep pit. All of what you are feeling is so normal; the shock and disbelieve are so hard to grasp. Two weeks ago our family went back to Montana to where she was a farmer to celebrate her birthday. It was only then that I started to realize she was physically gone from my life. The yearning and loneliness are the worst in the beginning, I still cry everyday and pray she is safe and happy in heaven. Knowing that I will see her again when I die keeps me going. I never thought last September that I would still be here a year later.
I started grief counseling soon after Kyra died and joined a monthly group of other mother's who also lost a child. Both have helped me sort my new life out and not feel so alone. For me, when I don't let the tears or emotions out I get real anxious. I still have waves of crippling sadness but I know now they will pass. We are here for you Rachel any time you need us. Much love Lynn
Kim, on the 7th will be the 8 month mark for me, I know he was not my only child and I can't even imagine that, but I too wish Dylan would come to me in my dreams I ask him everynight PLEASE!!! and to no avail no dreams.
today is 9 months since my only child my son shawn went away, it hurts so bad, I miss him with all my heart. it feels like yesterday, god I remember that last day. worse day of my life. I pray every night to go with him, and when I wake up im still here , and so pissed. I cant take much more, it hurts like nothing you ever felt before, tears tears and more tears. I have not had a dream of anything since he went away, I ask him every night to come to my dreams, but nothing. why has he left me here why?
I've never sleep so much before in my life. i'm at the near 5 month mark of losing my only child and I think i'm now entering the depression phase....
Beautiful picture Dolly.
omh dolly, I would have to move, im so afraid of them , hell I run when I see a worm. the deer would be beautiful, hugs kim
thank you kim...it always makes me smile in my heart when something beautiful like this happens...also the deer have started to come out into the field in front of the mountain house and often look up at us when we are playing music.. they don't seem a bit afraid or disturbed by the music and come quite close.. to the bottom of the hill in front... BUT we also got a shock when we went upstairs [which we close up in winter] and found a LONG snake skin had been shed in our closet over the rod... a black snake who came in for the mice I guess... I wondered where all the mice had gone... but we aren't too worried because black snakes are territorial so I've been told, and should keep the rattlers at bay, and also I think it might be the same snake... or a relative... that twice came down the railing beside us on the back porch a year or so ago when we were playing music out there... she was docile and not the least afraid of us or threatening... so I guess we now have a WATCH SNAKE.... never thought THAT could happen...
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