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Missing my Son  or  Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.

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Comment by kim on August 12, 2014 at 7:51am

todays its raining and dark, im sitting here crying,  thinking about shawn, and asking him to wait for me, I keep telling him it wont be long. I miss him so bad, and I love shawn more then life.  dear god it hurts.

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on August 12, 2014 at 1:21am
Horrible week. Memories of the days leading up to my sons death on August 17th. Miss him so much. So so much.
Comment by Davi Burford on August 7, 2014 at 9:45pm
had a hard time tonight, my daughter is starting middle school and it made me miss Dylan so much he would have graduated high school this year and im letting my frustration and what now appears to be alot of anger get the better of me and taking it out on my other kids, they act like they hate each other and that makes me so sad that they can lose their brother and it not change how they treat each other.... they are 11 and 6 i just dont know what to do anymore
Comment by anne on August 7, 2014 at 6:09pm

A friend of mines son was killed in a car accident on Mon. He was a good friend to both of my sons. I was determined to not let it get the best of me. Try as I may It slapped me right up side my head. I feel so bad for his mother and family. Strange I have been through this twice and I haven't got one word to comfort her. His father called me the day he died and asked me where I went to identify my oldest son's body. I felt like I had been hit in the head with a shovel. I know it's never going to stop. I know that this is life, but I don't like it. I will do whatever I can to help this family. I feel that it is my duty to be there for them no matter how much it hurts. Being here has taught me so much. I'm sad there are so many of us who have to travel this road. I pray my strength holds out. I think of all of you often, and hope somehow, someway, someday we all find some sort of Peace.

Comment by Rachel on August 7, 2014 at 10:32am

Thank you all for your lovely comments.  I don't feel so alone.  I send all of you my sympathies and love as well. Everyday is a new battle and journey for us all.   

Comment by Michelle H on August 7, 2014 at 9:52am

Linda, I pray that you will have a happy outcome with your grandchildren. I hate to think that an absent father will have preference over the grandma who has been there for the children. My sincere prayers are with you.

Rachel, we are all here for you and for one another. You'll learn that we need you, too. I sent you a friend request which should show up on your page. Your grief is so new and we all understand what that feels like. The others are right: the pain never goes away, we just learn how to live with it. Knowing our children are happy keeps us going, as does the thought of being with them again. Peace to you.

Comment by Connie K on August 6, 2014 at 11:28pm
Linda my or prayers are with you. I lost my only child in a car accident also. I sent you a friend request so you can check your page.
Rachelle I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure the grief counseling will help you deal with the horror that we all face here everyday. the pain doesn't ever go away we just have to learned how to live our lives in a way that would make our kids proud.
As I read the posts here my heart goes out to everyone. I cling to the hope that I will see my son again someday and that he is at peaceful and still experiencing amazing things. I miss him so much every second. love to everyone
Comment by Linda on August 6, 2014 at 4:18pm

I still believe in the prayer system. God is good. Please pray for me tomorrow my circle of unfortunate friends.

Thank you Kim, God is with us all.

Comment by kim on August 6, 2014 at 3:33pm

linda,  GOOD LUCK  tomorrow, my heart is with you. please let us know, hugs  kim

Comment by Linda on August 6, 2014 at 3:22pm

since losing my only child 4 months ago I am now in jeopardy of losing my grandchildren forever. court is tomorrow. the father, (who has been absent their whole lives) has been battling me in court since her death, has our hearing for primary custody. there are no "grandparent rights" in Florida. I fear not only have I lost my only child but I am no losing my whole family.  Please God be with us tomorrow. 

Rachel: I fully sympathize with your feelings.  Desiree' too died in an auto accident just 4 months ago. I wish I had the magic words to tell you things will get better but I too am at a loss. Please stay strong. Remember often and never give up hope for your future. Words I try and live by although usually unsuccessfully.  But I still try. Daily.

Big hugs Rachel, reach out to us often. You'll need it.

 

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