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I know you are all hurting so bad... nothing people say to us can make it worse than it is really.. but sometimes I guess I just have to strike out at something because I can't do anything to change what happened to Brandon now.... if ever I could have.. it always torments my mind to think maybe I could have done something.. but now I can't ever do anything for him again and at times its almost more than I can bear.. I have no energy or desire to do anything and when I ever finally do try to do something it always seems to fail ... so why bother.. but I know I will never have any happiness ever again if I can't somehow wade through this awful darkness... not that I will ever really be THROUGH it though.. that's what so many people don't get.. you don't get OVER it or THROUGH it... you just learn how not to show it I guess... most of the time... I'm so sorry you are all going through this too..
Its been two years and there are times when I least expect it I find myself just overwhelmed all over again... the preacher didn't sound like he was trying to help me.. he excused himself by saying he had the prophetic anointing so he said things like that are.... in my opinion he was just judging me and using his position as an excuse so I would be afraid to call him on it... preachers like that can do alot of damage..
I am so sorry, RJ. I always wished for some thing to ease the intensity and severity for me. I had to keep myself so busy doing things just to try and keep from feeling anything, especially the pain and extreme sadness.
I have yet to 'GET OVER' the death of my daughter. And it's been a little over 5 years. It's something I manage daily. People have and will say things like that preatcher said, thinking they are helping. I just try not to think too hard or take them serious anymore.
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