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Danny commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Theresa the pain may lessen but do work on the continuing bond with the parent, talk to your Mom and then you will feel better. Friends are not the right people."
Feb 17
Danny commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Casey i remember you. I dont talk about it with many people. Do my own grief work and talk to those who have actually been through a shock etc. Be well"
Feb 17
Danny commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"2.5 years and still nervous about the road ahead"
Jul 5, 2016
Danny commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"meant pain not pan.  The raw pain makes a comeback when the weather changes so guys just remember it never goes away but we must learn to live with the grief and yet find a way"
Jul 4, 2016
Danny commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"its been 2 years and a bit but so hard to take steps forward. i have managed somehow with a lot of problems but that special bond...taking it month t month even noow so bless you all.  it never goes away but the pan had taken its own path"
Jul 4, 2016
Danny left a comment for Theresa
"theresa i had a sudden loss as well and it still hurts like hell care to chat ?"
Mar 26, 2016
Danny commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"charity wolf and others no the pain does not go away ever ever. i have bee in touch with martha since 2 years and waht she says is  one way to look at it ie we may need to conduct ourselves and take the steps until God calls. The first few…"
Jan 27, 2016
Danny replied to Nicole's discussion How long until you feel normal? in the group I miss my Mom!
"Ya its been two years for me and the pain is very much there and i am so nervous as i try and avoid big decisions until i feel ready to take them as i did everything after taking a perspective from my parent.  Have had to make one big one but…"
Nov 23, 2015
Danny commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"good to see martha here after a while.  As for the grief it is going to be there and i am trying to live with it. i have done some things to keep myself sane but l tell you its been two years now and regularly engage in a dialogue as i know we…"
Nov 22, 2015
Danny replied to Jill 's discussion I just need a hug
"great support here"
Nov 22, 2015
Danny commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"shraddha just take it day to day and seek urgent help from the hospital if you feel dizzy best danny"
Nov 22, 2015
Danny commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"2 yrs ince the sudden loss for me an each day has been tough but my main support is still looking after me.. sudden is the worst"
Nov 22, 2015
Danny commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"me am quite alone so nervous and worried about my health too."
Nov 16, 2015
Danny commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"two years now for me and although i am able to get a few things done i break down regularly"
Nov 15, 2015
Danny commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"yes nothing will ever be the same..just hard finding a purpose but that's ok. At your own pace...am still looking for answers"
Oct 28, 2015
Danny commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"yes megan.  Acute grief may not be as intense however we live with the grief basically but just try to function and keep it in a way so that we dont break down or cry all the time"
Oct 28, 2015

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A seasoned professional looking to regain his mojo after a tough time.
About my Loss:
Have lost my anchor and unconditional support. Looking to survive and at some point, learn how to live with this.

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At 8:55am on November 16, 2016, Theresa said…

have to leave for work maybe in the evening?

At 3:05pm on July 3, 2015, Nancy Dynes said…
Hi Danny,
Are you a math major? I noticed a couple comments with math references (infinite numbers between zero and one, and another regarding your math prof).
The reason I ask is that my son is a math major (along with computer engineering). Math is his one true love. He will be a senior at university this year then going on to his phd in mathematics. His focus will be a very specific area of number theory.
You don't run in to high level mathematicians every day, so I thought I'd ask.
I hope you are getting through the day okay today. Losing my mother has been devastating for both me and my son. My son deals with it by throwing himself into his research. I just take it day by day.
Sincerely,
Nancy
At 9:44am on May 9, 2015, Amy said…
Hi Danny I'm new to this site so Im not sure if this is the private area you spoke of.
At 2:00pm on March 4, 2015, pushpa said…

Hi,Danny ,sorry about your loss.It was my mom's 1st death anniversary on 2nd March.You are right, there will be no history of the month in the previous year.It shatters me to realize this.What do I do now?

At 10:29am on December 28, 2014, Angela Y said…
Thanks for the encouraging words. We have to find the blessings in the heartache. It's tough sometimes but they are there if we just pause and allow ourselves to love again
At 10:14am on November 18, 2014, Lynn Boyd said…

Thank you for your comment and concern Danny.  Yes, it has been very difficult to digest this loss, but moving back to the old neighborhood?  I have more friends now Here than I ever did back in the "old neighborhood".  I have more support, I now have a church family, the grief support group family, and I've bonded with many of my neighbors here more so than before.  It's been a year of firsts....first time his birthday passed without him in April, first time my birthday passed without him, all the activities we used to do yearly like going to fairs and festivals and theme parks and the beach trips.  Dreading the holidays, but that's what my new group is helping with.  New Year's Eve will be the worst, because that was our Anniversary.  So far I've learned to make my own new traditions, my sister is treating me to a Carnival Cruise Thanksgiving week (next week!), and will be with me for 3 weeks during Christmas and New Year's.  2 years ago he gave me an exclusive oil portrait of Princess Merida...he said it was to "make me Brave".  I had no idea how Brave I would have to be. God is telling me he wants me to be happy and live my life.  It's not easy, certainly not pleasant, but I'm getting through it.  Nothing worthwhile is easy, and none of us is promised a Tomorrow.  Live for today.  That was my beloved's motto.  I have to move on to honor his memory.  There was even more sadness this September....I had to have our beloved 14-year-old dog Daisy put to sleep.  Besides her illness, I truly believe she was dying of a broken heart because Daddy never came home again (and she was a Daddy's girl.)  I just hope 2015 is a better year.  For all of us in this grief community....I wish everyone Peace in your heart.

At 1:21am on November 9, 2014, Casey said…
My bf doesn't help. Grief is an extremely lonely feeling
I missed being my moms child, all of that is now dead and gone
At 6:36pm on September 17, 2014, Wendy (Boabie) said…

Thanks for the gift Danny. You are right, I should not refer to myself as an orphan. Although I feel like one sometimes. Hope you are well!

At 3:23am on September 17, 2014, Madeleine said…
Thanks Danny for adding me as a friend. You are right the cycle of good and bad days will probably continue. Think the trick is learning to maximize output during the good days and minimize collateral damage during the bad ones.
At 8:48am on August 22, 2014, Rachel said…

Danny, Thank you. I'm so sorry for your loss.  That anchor and unconditional support is alot to lose.  How is it possible for us to recover from all this?  My heart aches to know how many out there hurt as much as I do.  And I would never wish this kind of pain on anyone.  I'm so fortunate to have stumbled upon this site.  Otherwise, I don't know what I would have done by now.  I send you tight hugs from across the world. 

 
 
 

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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, our moms wanted all kinds of things for us. They wanted us to always eat our vegetables, to never get mixed up with bad influences, etc. Don't beat yourself up because you are grieving. You wouldn't be human if you didn't…"
49 minutes ago
Nancy replied to Richard Rivera's discussion FINALLY LOSING IT
"Richard. I didn't know your wife nor do I know you but I'm quite sure she is mortified watching you self destruct. She would not want you to give up and hurt her by hurting yourself. She is still with you and you need to respect the love…"
1 hour ago
Karen Wilson posted a blog post

Lost my Son -only child in March of this year

Hello -My name is Karen.  I lost my only son at 22 years of age in a car accident in March of this year. I am doing "okay" considering.  I have strong bouts of intense grief on and off and of course I miss and long for him daily. It really just SUCKS! I have surrounded my self with a support group and a Psychotherapist.  I have also started to explore my Spirituality and looking for unanswered to questions to my existence and purpose.  I welcome anyone that would like to share their experience…See More
1 hour ago
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Really rough morning. I pray for some relief. This is not what my Mom would have wanted for me.  Bluebell"
2 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Theresa, it's horrible that someone would say, "It's not the end of the world" to you. That is cold. I am so sorry. Your mother in law... again, I am so sorry. You deserve better than that. We all do."
2 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I hate to use the word resentment because I have enough on my plate right now. It takes energy to resent people. Negative energy. There is already too much of that in my life. The really hard part is that I got so much unconditional love from my…"
2 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett yes it can ruin relationships, I wont say who, but I was mentioning that I thought it was odd that a friend did not even call or send me a card when my mom passed, the person I was talking to said "its not the end of the world", this…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Love is an amazing thing. There are times when I think that my mom has all the love that I have to offer, but there is always room for one more person. Even hundreds more.   people. "
13 hours ago
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"My heart is also with each one of you. Hugs and love to you all Bluebell"
14 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"One of the things that makes me feel very guilty (here) is that I do not want to discourage anyone who is making progress. I don't want to bring them down into the pit with me. I realize that there are people who may have recently come to this…"
14 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell and Brett we are all different we all grieve in different Ways some people grieve for shorter periods of time some people for longer I remember after my mother passed away I went to church they had a special mass with several priest from…"
14 hours ago
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I am becoming more of a functioning mess. I am able to see patient's now. I sleep a lot better. I try to exercise and socialize on a regular basis. But I have days when the sense of loss and sorrow is so overwhelming, that all I can do is cry…"
15 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Janie, of course you love your mom, and my mom certainly would not want for me to grieve the way that I do. I would not have wanted my mom to grieve my death this way. But I have to be honest about my feelings and my grief. Most of all I have to be…"
17 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Bluebird, I always say we too. It is not just I because he lives in Heaven."
18 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Jackie Cook It's been 4 years since I lost my Husband, it will always be us not me. "
18 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"John T. I am surprised that I am still alive after losing my Husband 4 Years ago, I just go day to day hoping one day won't wake up."
18 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
18 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
18 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Jennifer, Don't feel bad about not standing happy couples and family, It has been 4 years and I still feel that way. I just can't get over losing my kind, wonderful, Husband."
18 hours ago

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