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I love my Dad.

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Comment by Gilda on Saturday

Michael, I'm so sorry for what you had to go through with your dad at the hospital.  I also feel like the medications killed my dad and that the hospital stopped caring, because he was old (86). I found some comfort at the following site:

http://whatsyourgrief.com/guilt-and-grief-2/

At least, it helps to know that we are not alone.  Many others are also haunted with the same painful feelings and memories at the hospital.  Wishing you and everyone here comfort and healing from the heartache of losing our beloved dads.

Comment by Michael on April 15, 2017 at 10:25pm

Lost my dad 1-2-17 from dementia and malignant tumor.  Grieving never started till weeks later when my world crashed.  Everyday, memories of woulda, coulda and shoulda haunt me.  Too many what if's.  Never want to wake up.  Caring for him after hospital meds destroyed his mind.  Modern science and doctors are pathetic and I voiced my anger to the medical staff who were unable to give me a logical response!!!  A living hell for my dad and I.  I would endure his agony again and again.

Comment by JO B on March 28, 2017 at 4:40pm

mrch seams so hrd for me i no coz my dad died 3.3 .1212 he did his sush a big miss hewz 1 it kpt evry thgn ok he did  i wish 2012 nvr haodn dnt no if sons mad or nt fr me wz1 yr wish ic ud of stayd in 20122 2011 i cud of 

Comment by JO B on March 15, 2017 at 7:02pm

so sorry davia i am loss my dad wn i wz 37 im 42 nw i need him so msuh 2 be hear i do coz he w rok sol of famly u cud say 

Comment by Davida m johnsoon on March 8, 2017 at 12:38am

It's been 4 months since I turned 39 and list my daddy the same day also it feels like forever I miss hi  so much I always made sure he was done right n this to e I couldn't save my daddy breaks  y heart

Comment by JO B on February 21, 2017 at 6:04pm

dad miss u so mush u lcuy lucy i do ivlos so msuh in 1 go nw u 2 my moms bra 2 dem/al im lozon 2 i cnte vn st ths 1 i cnt 

Comment by JO B on January 7, 2017 at 6:03pm
Comment by JO B on January 3, 2017 at 2:51pm

so sorry gilda thes anversy seam 2 get hrder hardr not esy thy dnt i agrea try rebr rht the grt tims we had evn embrasin tims we had funny thg is emrasin tims we had maks me smil a bit evn tho i miss him so mush i no my dad my cat lucy r up in sky 2 gethr thy r my dad wz only 1 it gott me u cud say 

Comment by Gilda on December 27, 2016 at 5:30am

Today is the second anniversary of the passing of my beloved father.  He was my best friend and the hero of my life.  I am grateful for the time we had together, but remembering the happy times with him still makes me sad, because I probably will never meet anyone as special as he was, and even if I did, I doubt that anyone could love me or understand me as well as he did.  There just isn't enough time left to develop that close a relationship with another human being.  I will miss him for the rest of my life. 

Comment by JO B on December 26, 2016 at 4:28pm

happy bday dad wish u wera still hear 

 

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