January 2011 Blog Posts (26)

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Hurting Heart

I never realized that there were so many people that are going through what I am. Over the past couple of years I have lost my grandmother who I loved very much, and my soulmate. The holidays get extremely hard, but I think it just reminds me of how things used to be. A better time in my life where I felt that nothing could go wrong. My soulmate's name is Jerry, and we did everything together. He showed me the world and how it could be, live each day to the fullest. I don't do that anymore, I… Continue

Added by Caitlin Wolfe on January 4, 2011 at 7:17pm — 2 Comments

Lost my mom - Lost my-self

It's been 3 years and I'm still not sure how to find the way back to my-self.  I'm just lost with her.
 
My mom passed away on December 7, 2007 after being diagnosed on Thanksgiving day with pancreatic cancer.  She had been having problems for a few months prior, but it seemed like they only diagnosed each symptom, but never the whole person.  I was at the hospital everyday and did everything I could think to do. I made sure her false teeth were kept clean, rode rough…
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Added by Andy Dearing on January 4, 2011 at 1:26am — 1 Comment

Lost 2 children before I got to know them...

I'm new to this site and am hoping to find some people who are grieving just like me.

Last year on December 17th I was taken to the hospital in horrific pain.. I realized that I had a condition that caused me to lose my baby boy when I was just 19 weeks pregnant.  I was in a bad state as well and was an hour away from losing my life. No-one…

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Added by Tracy on January 3, 2011 at 5:33pm — 3 Comments

The Holiday had come and gone.

The holiday has come and gone and it took no prisoners this year and I am grateful for that.The decorations are down and put in their boxes,The boughs of holly are saftly nestled in their containers. The tree is back to sleep for another year and the lights are done twinling for another year.The stockings are all rolled up and put into stacks to be stowed away nicely while they take their long winters nap. The candy canes were old so I put them in a box and off to the trash they went so they… Continue

Added by anne on January 3, 2011 at 12:34am — No Comments

The first adventure Denise and I had was a trip to the Ritz Carlton Hotel in Pasadena.  Being travel agents we could stay at nice hotels at discounted rates.  Denise loved the water and we spent a lo…

The first adventure Denise and I had was a trip to the Ritz Carlton Hotel in Pasadena.  Being travel agents we could stay at nice hotels at discounted rates.  Denise loved the water and we spent a lot of time in the jacuzzi and the pool.  We went for a drive which we loved to do, and found a park where we could hike.  We hiked for a mile or so, had a great time on the trail, then headed back to the hotel for dinner.  Denise was about 200 pounds over weight and was anxious to lose the weight…

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Added by michael sandoval on January 1, 2011 at 1:26pm — No Comments

The first day of the new year

It's the first day of the new year, and now we begin a new. I did'nt say we start over because I don't want to start over. I want to begin a new.A new way of thinking, a new way of believing, and a new way of living my life. I have been on a very long and painful journey. I'm thinking it's time to do things different. This year I am going to try and spend more days laughing than crying, smiling, instead of frowning, and grateful instead of being selfish. I have realized that I can't change… Continue

Added by anne on January 1, 2011 at 5:01am — 2 Comments

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