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I AM STILL MARRIED AND AM REFUSE TO BE A WIDOW.
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Permalink Reply by Oleta Cato on
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I'm sure most of us feel this way. It's a horrible club WE belong too. "The Widow's Club". I think I'd die if my husband were not waiting for me. The thought keeps me going. I'll love him till I die....and even then...
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Permalink Reply by bluebird on
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I don't know if there is an afterlife or not, so I don't have the hope that some of you have. Regardless, though, my husband and I will ALWAYS be married. He will ALWAYS be my husband, and I will ALWAYS be his wife. Nothing will ever change that.
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Permalink Reply by Ruthie on
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Hazel, I lost my love in January also. This site has been a god send as grief groups did not work out for me.
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This is so weird since I was just thinking this exact thing today. I will ALWAYS be married and also wear my wedding ring. Many people have said to remove it - NEVER.
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It will be a year next month. I still wear my wedding ring. Why remove it? I am still married, in my heart.
O.
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Permalink Reply by Linda Engberg on
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Hazel,
That is beautiful. I wear Julian's ring around my neck.
Today I am having a tattoo with his signature and it will be done with his
ashes included. Nowihe will really be with me always.
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Hi Hazel,
Getting a tatoo does not hurt at all, I attached a picture of the one I just had done, I also have three more, one on each wrist and one on the back of my neck. But the one I just had has Julian's ashes in it, so he will always be close to me.
Regards, Linda
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Hi Hazel,
I can relate to the low days that you think you will lose your mind. The signature is Julian's from the last Valentine card he gave it.
Regards, Linda
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Hi Hazel,
Sunday's are rough, we both watched football together and without his is not as enjoyable. My family all live in Michigan so diner is with Babie J. Sometimes I go out to dinner with my best friend, who also lost her husband.
Enjoy Your family, Linda
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