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Hi, I'm Melissa. I am a single mother of two wonderful young men. My oldest, Chase is 14 years old as of October 31st. My youngest son, Alec is 8.
It is very difficult working full time at a busy Ophthalmology office then coming home to be on my own with my boys. I used to feel at times that my life could not get worse. I learned that I was so wrong the hard way. I lost my best friend. My sister.
About my Loss:
12/13/2009.

The boys and I spent the night at my older sister Jen's house. My sister answered the phone about 3 in the morning. A frantic call from our mother "Breanne's dead, Breanne's dead". We were told to go to the hospital asap. We thought for sure that our mother had completely overreacted and had only said that terrible, taunting word "dead" as a "figure of speech", We were shaking as we got dressed and combed our hair. I drove my sister and I to the hospital which is across the street from my sister's home. There in the ER entrance was my mothers vehicle sitting not even in a parking spot. We walked in and checked with The nurse at the desk.They called and we impatiently waited for someone to come get us to let us in. Finally a nurse came and began to walk us into the ER..... I will never ever forget this "your sister was in an accident" she said. My response was "is she ok?". The women put her head down as she shook it and said "no"!!
The next thing Remember was running down the hall until i saw my mother in a room behind a glass wall. I threw my purse and was hysterical. There was Breanne lying there in the hospital bed with a tube down her throat with blood on it. she looked like she was sleeping. She was in a car accident. That was all that we knew at that time. I remember screaming and crying and hugging and kissing her for hours before the coroner came to take her. We would not know details about the accident until later in the morning. Breanne and her best friend were going to a birthday sleepover. They had left the party late in the night to walk to the local mini market to get drinks. They ran into some fellow school mates that were getting gas. They talke and decided to go to walmart. They only made it a coupe miles down the highway until the vehicle lost control. There were too many people and not enough seat belts. Breanne sat with her best friend on her lap. The car flipped, doors flew off the vehicle and Breanne held onto her best friend as they were both ejected out of the vehicle. Breanne saved her best friends life. The girls whos Bday party they were at was ejected also and did not survive the accident. Breanne was such an amazing girl. She had such a unique sense of style, well know for her pink hair and several facial peircings. She was a very talented gir l who could have done something amazing with her life. She will never have that chance, never find love or have a family. Her life was stolen from her at the age of 15. It will soon be a year and I dont know how people learn to cope and go on with their lives each day like this. I am having a very difficult time. Going to the cemetery and knowing that my baby sister is there and I will never have the chance to talk to her or see her again.

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My Darling Breanne.

It will be exactly 1 year on December 13th since I had lost my 15 year old sister tragically. I am not looking forward to this date because I dont know I will deal with this. Plus the Holidays are soon behind. It has been almost 1 year and the trial date is not even posted. I feel like i will at least have a minimun amount of closure after the court and crimanl charges are finished. This process takes way to long.

Posted on November 30, 2010 at 9:41am

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