Ashlee Lopez-Garcia
  • Norcross, GA
  • United States
Share on Facebook MySpace

Ashlee Lopez-Garcia's Friends

  • Yetzy L. Diaz

Ashlee Lopez-Garcia's Groups

Gifts Received

Gift

Ashlee Lopez-Garcia has not received any gifts yet

Give a Gift

 

Ashlee Lopez-Garcia's Page

Profile Information

About Me:
I'm a pretty easy going person. I love to be around people. And love to make new friends. My friends tell me that I'm pretty funny, smart, and a great listener.
About my Loss:
About 7 months ago my sister Meagan died. It was sudden. I had happened to be 5 months pregnant at the time.. When the coroner called me and told me it was a horrible feeling, but the worst part was having to call everyone and tell them especially my mother..... Most people I told didn't believe me and called me a liar and hung up on me... Of course they called me back and told me sorry, but I understood.... But anyways like I said before I was 5 months pregnant so I couldn't grieve like a normal person would in fear of hurting or worse losing my baby... So once my son was born the grieving process started and in the past 3 1/2 months I have went through denial and anger pretty quickly..... And now I am afraid that I am in my depression stage and it is really hard because I have a baby that needs me, but I can't come out of this. I am just so saf all the time and that then makes me angry.... I think I am starting to scare my husband..... I try to talk to him and my friends but they just don't understand..... My friends have kinda gotten to the point where they can't stand to see my name on their Caller ID. My husband tries to help, but he just doesn't know how... I don't know what to do anymore...
Are You a Service Provider? If Yes, please tell us about your service.
No

Comment Wall (1 comment)

You need to be a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community to add comments!

Join Online Grief Support - A Social Community

At 11:33pm on May 10, 2015, Jeannette said…
I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand your pain. I lost my only sister when she was 4 years old I was 10 I'm 35 years old now and sometimes I wish she was here so bad. Almost 2 months ago I lost my dear friend due to an accidental overdose. I miss him so much. I'm also a mother. All I can say is that your baby needs you and your sister would want you to be happy and enjoy being a mother. This is a new and wonderful experience. Even though she isn't here to watch you through this new adventure she is with you. You will start to notice that she is. She would want nothing more than for you to enjoy you're new little blessing. I know that life is hard without her but remember the good things about her, her smile, her laugh, your little inside jokes and smile when you remember those things. She admired your strength and love for life. Continue to be that person for her and your new baby. Hugs and prayers to you.
 
 
 

Latest Activity

dream moon JO B commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"i miss mom so mush i do"
Apr 11
Susan E Marshall commented on Susan E Marshall's photo
Thumbnail

My husband

"Thanks, Rosie. (I have memory problems and forgot about this site. I'm just seeing this now. April 6th)"
Apr 6
Susan E Marshall and William Gardener are now friends
Apr 6
Natasha updated their profile
Apr 5
Angie Rowland joined Rita-Cecile's group
Thumbnail

LESBIAN ..GAY 2 SPIRITED loss and grief

Anyone who has lost their gay partner..soon finds that there may be a few things that are different...such as sorting through things and feeling like an intruder because it is also family stuff etcSee More
Apr 3
Speed Weasel posted a blog post

Assumptions

An assumption is an unexamined belief: what is thought to be true without ever really realizing that we think in that way. For better or worse, understanding starts with entertaining the idea that something is true.  Truly profound thoughts generally come to light from the relaxation of these (flawed) assumptions.  This is where I find myself today...Perhaps, one of the more significant drivers to pushing down the loss and grief at the time of the accident, ignoring it and mindlessly walking…See More
Mar 13
Profile IconCari Jo Converse, Jennifer and James D. Thornsberry joined Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Mar 13
Profile IconMarina Dsouza, Leah, Sandra M Aaron and 5 more joined Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Mar 5

© 2024   Created by Ninja.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service