Wendy
  • Female
  • KZN
  • South Africa
Share

Wendy's Friends

  • Christine Leakey
  • Lisa S.
  • Maryfran
  • Brenda Ann
  • Denise Murphy

Wendy's Groups

Wendy's Discussions

ANGER AND RESENTMENT
2 Replies

So much of anger and resentment today. Unbelievable thoughts and feelings. I can't stand being myself. If I could wish myself into non existence I would. I don't know what to do.Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Jo Pennington Jun 1, 2012.

Gifts Received

Gift

Wendy has not received any gifts yet

Give a Gift

 

Wendy's Page

Profile Information

About Me:
33yrs old. Married for almost 11yrs. No children.
About my Loss:
My older sister.She passed on with her little one in December 2011. She left such a huge gap in my life that I don't see a way forward without her. It feels like my life had color that I didn't even know it had and then she was gone and she took all the color with her. She knew me better than anyone else and still loved me despite my faults. She showed me that she loved me. That's something I know now is rare. People showing you that they love you. Just for you.I never knew why she loved me...but she did. I suppose that makes her rare too.

Wendy's Photos

  • Add Photos
  • View All

Wendy's Blog

I think it's my fault

It's been one and a half years since my sister and best friend left me to be in heavenly places. This coming weeking will be the second birthday of hers that I cannot celebrate.

 

There are some nights when I lie alone, I can see her so clearly. I see what she looked like when she smiled, what she looked like when she slept, and what she looked like when she was with me. We both had a content look on our faces. We were happy to be in each other's company.

 

I also…

Continue

Posted on June 3, 2013 at 1:24am — 3 Comments

I don't want you, I need you in my life

It's been so hard sis. Everyday I wait for you to knock on the door and say,"Hey baby girl. Miss me? What's for supper?". I am with you Mandy, every second of every day, even when I'm drowning in work, I'm still with you. I eat and remember how you taught me to enjoy our meals together. I sleep and I think about you in your funky pj's. I wash my hair and think about how I hate my shower because it's not as great as the one in your house. What am I going to do? Life doesn't feel livable anymore.… Continue

Posted on February 1, 2013 at 9:40am — 1 Comment

TO ENCOURAGE YOU

You bought me this at our church bookstore just over a year before you could leave me. Today I keep it with me and wonder why these words seem like you were saying goodbye to me. 

Steady your steps with faith,

set your eyes on hope,

and remember the important thing is to move.

Let your heart lead you forward 

let your dreams keep you going.

And if you get weary or discouraged

if you feel lonely, remember this:

Life is your…

Continue

Posted on April 16, 2012 at 9:38am

The following is a quotation from the words of Dr. W. B. Hinson, speaking from the pulpit a year after the commencement of the illness from which he ultimately died:  "I remember a year ago when a ma…

The following is a quotation from the words of Dr. W. B. Hinson, speaking from the pulpit a year after the commencement of the illness from which he ultimately died:  "I remember a year ago when a man in this city said, 'You have got to go to your death.'  I walked out to where I live, five miles out of this city, and I looked across at that mountain that I love, and I looked at the river in which I rejoice, and I looked at the stately trees that are always God's own poetry to my soul.  Then in… Continue

Posted on April 7, 2012 at 3:55pm

Comment Wall (1 comment)

You need to be a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community to add comments!

Join Online Grief Support - A Social Community

At 12:34pm on February 7, 2012, Lisa S. said…

i am so sorry to hear about your sister,and the baby.how horribly tragic.i also lost my sis,she was 31.it leaves a hole in your heart,and its just...well,something words can not even describe.my heart goes out to you~hugs~

 
 
 

Groups

Latest Activity

Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi Danny. Surviving is art which we all need to practice. Today I met a friend whose father is witnessing the similar illness as my mother i.e. late stage cancer. He is also going through the same emotional turmoil as I went in 2018. After this…"
14 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Danny. I hear you.  December will be 4 years "
14 hours ago
Danny replied to Carla Rose's discussion Lost my Mom a Few Days Ago in the group Lost Without My Mom
"Great reply Sandra"
15 hours ago
Danny updated their profile
15 hours ago
Danny commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Its been 5 years and here I am back on the site. Surviving and functioning but just about. "
15 hours ago
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Wonderful Avi!!!  "
16 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Amen, Avi."
20 hours ago
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Thanks all. This group is my extended family. "
20 hours ago
M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, that is so lovely to hear — best wishes to her and your family!"
yesterday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"That's wonderful, Avi. Congratulations. And I wish you another 100 years with her."
yesterday
Sue Toler commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I am so happy for you & your family.  I am glad your daughter had a great birthday!  That first birthday is always special.  Take care, "
yesterday
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi All,  Friends, my daughter's first bday celebration went great. She is now 1 year old and motivating force for my dad to live. My dad is able to laugh and enjoy life because of his grand daughter. Even I feel motivated to live so that I…"
yesterday
Stephanie Berndt is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Tuesday
Judy Pugh left a comment for Kevin's Mom
"You are still Kevin’s mom, and you always will be. NOTHING, not even death, can change that. I don’t know what your beliefs are, and I’m not trying to shove my beliefs onto you. I just want you to know that I truly believe this is…"
Aug 10
Connie K commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Teresa D. the line is "Mama  don't you cry for me, I'm sailing in eternity..." Makes me feel emotional and happy that it resonates with you and that you remember it. <3"
Aug 9
Connie K commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Kevin's mom I am so terribly sorry for your devastating loss. I lost my only child as well - Daniel - at age 17. That was 6 and a half years ago. I can't tell you how i made it through, but I have, one day at a time sometimes one minute at…"
Aug 9
Gale Brunault commented on Gale Brunault's group Loss of an Only Child
"I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your precious son. Why do bad things happen to good people? We may never find the answers.......please know that you are not alone. "
Aug 9
Holycow updated their profile
Aug 9
Kevin's Mom commented on Gale Brunault's group Loss of an Only Child
"I lost my 32 yr old son, my only child, on July 10 2019. He was killed in a motorcycle accident. My heart is shattered and my life will never be the same. This is life's most cruel event."
Aug 9
Kevin's Mom joined Gale Brunault's group
Thumbnail

Loss of an Only Child

As bereaved parents we must deal with unique issues that accompany losing an only child. See More
Aug 9

© 2019   Created by Ninja.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service