"I'm so sorry that you have lost your brother but also that you have to deal with your "guilt". Your journey is only just beginning and your emotions will be all over the place and that is normal. This is not a linear process, you will…"
Lost my older sister in 2009 to complications during childbirth. She never even got to meet her first born. A beautiful boy, who is my heartbeat. We were exceptionally close, spent loads of time together. Of course, fought like only sisters can, but friendship was always quickly restored. Miss her immensely.
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Thank you for replying to my post & for giving me hope that this intense pain will not last forever & that one day I will learn to feel joy again. I am taking each day slowly; doing normal things & crying when I have to. My sister leaves behind 2 beautiful children ( a 4 year old & a 10 year old) so I have to be strong for them. I know she wouldn't want me to feel like this forever because she loved me as I loved her so I shall try & be kind, reach out to those who have suffered loss & hopefully will learn to adapt ... I hope
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