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Comment by dream moon JO B on August 16, 2014 at 3:49pm

my dad died 2 rs ago dreama it still dont feal real it dotn my anti it did lst mont set my mum dad up 2 gethr she did now mum will nevr be her slf again lk me feals so num again after my antis death it is me mum r so num al death wev had in lst 2 yrs so 

i got my own dream grp on hear iv had a lot of dreams on/off of my dad othr loved 1s as well my dad us 2 say i had a ovr actve imagng he did evn in dreams i do as well

Comment by Dreama on August 2, 2014 at 11:41am

My dad died 9 years ago. After he did I started a group I call H.U.G.S. When he passed he told me to keep helping people so that's what I've been striving to do ever since. So, if I may here is the link to the blog. Lots of good information there I invite you to join and together we can help each other heal.

http://heartsunitedgatherstrength.blogspot.com/

Comment by dream moon JO B on July 6, 2014 at 4:13pm

dad miss u wish u wear still hear playng I MNT PRANKS ON US LK PRANK CALLS 2 US OR HIDNG THNGS FOR A JO KE OR SO ON OR SINGING 1 OF YORE SILLY SONGS WISH WZ SO FUNNY OR OYRE SILY DANSE WISH WZ SO FUNNY 

Comment by dream moon JO B on June 15, 2014 at 3:39pm

dad miss u wish u wear hear 2 day so i cud gte u a gift 2 day has bean hrd coz u r not hear i nealy u bort u r a fathrs day crd nealy bort u sweats so on not thngn u cud say

i no i can send u a mess or gifts on hear

Comment by dream moon JO B on June 6, 2014 at 3:43pm

thnx debra i feal so sad i no its bean 2 yrs but we had a daddys grl bond u cud say 

wn i wz a kid i wud follor him all over i wud never leve him alon 

tara

thrs a few tms iv went in 2 a room thrt i saw my dad siting i a seat radng his paper clear as day im almst nely tryn 2 hug him i just wish i cud

my dad wz cremated 2 he wz i saw him in funrell hme day befre jis funrell i did i kissed him gd by i did 

i speak 2 my dads foto i  do tellin him hw mush i luved him i still luv him i do

my dad luved anmils he did my cat us 2 follor him all over she did she folors  me all over she dose evn trys 2 trip me she dose my cat usd 2 clip thru stairs if he wz gogn past she did or supris jump on him 

evn stray cats or dogs folored him in st as well

i no he loved balled songs he did i no 1 song he lk wz j lennon imagin he did 

i no he us 2 lk famly get 2 gethrs he did but latly only 1s i get on y dads sde is funrelss wkes it is 

i luv it wn i dream abot my dad evn othr famly its joind him or 1s its pst bfre him evn 1a yrs ago01%20-%20Track%201.mp3

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on June 6, 2014 at 9:51am

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Jo B, you aren't ranting.   We all deal with it differently and need to share and get our emotions out.

Tara,  if you have a garden maybe you could plant some flowers in his memory.  I have concrete frogs on my porch.  I even have a statue of a frog on a motorcycle (Dad rode most of his life).  We recently lost our cat of 18 1/2 yrs.  He is buried on our property and I planted flowers and made him a headstone.  It is ok to talk to your Dad as if he is there because his spirit is.  I talk to my Dad a lot.  In the beginning I couldn't talk out loud to him but am able to do that now.  I even talk to the cat, lol.  As I said before just do what feel rights.  Take care.

Comment by Tara Johnson on June 5, 2014 at 9:44pm

I wish I could leave something at his gravesite but he was not buried. He wished to be cremated. I may have my mother do something special around his urn or something or maybe even around the heart shaped music urn that I have some of his ashes in. I just can't believe he's gone. Everytime I go to my parents house I walk in expecting to see him in his chair and I catch myself saying "hi dad" and then I start to cry. Ugh! I hate the heart break!

Comment by dream moon JO B on June 5, 2014 at 4:08pm

tara/ debbie lst 2 yrs iv let ballons offf fr my dad i no 2012 wz so hrd yr he died evn lst yr in 2013 but 2014 seams sme 

it dont get any easy it dont

1s it says its easy never lots any 1 we hav

i fnd it hrd it so hrd evry tm i sea fathers day crds in a shp or adds u can get yore dad a gift 

i wish i cud

im sorry if im rantong 2 mush

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on June 4, 2014 at 7:07pm

Tara,

Last year was my first Father's Day without my Dad and I believe the anticipation of the day was worse than the day itself.  My father's name was Kermit so he always had the nickname of Frog.  I found a mylar balloon shaped like a frog and put that on his grave along with Father's Day mylar balloons.  I keep a picture of him on a keychain in my vehicle.  I have fond memories of our past father's day and how we used to go for a motorcycle ride and stop to eat somewhere.  Dad just loved that.  I wish you the best with the upcoming holiday.  Take care.

Comment by Tara Johnson on June 4, 2014 at 5:54pm

I don't know how I am gonna get through Fathers Day. I guess I will just try and do something in his honor and focus on my husband and children.

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