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Shirley replied to Shayna's discussion Delayed Response in the group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Shayna, Want to say hello and say that was a wonderful Tribute you posted for your Dad.  I had a wonderful  childhood with my Dad. He and Mom had nine kids and I was the last one. There five brothers and four girls. My Dad was a Coal Miner…"
Mar 19, 2015
JO B replied to Shayna's discussion Lost my father to cancer in the group I love my Dad.
"thnx shayna a lot of days a lot of nead 2 rant on hear u rht post blogs son is way we can scream yeaal post on hear "
Mar 6, 2015
Shayna replied to Shayna's discussion Lost my father to cancer in the group I love my Dad.
"Never apologize. I believe these posts are so we can get our feelings out. I know it may seem like you are feeling sorry for yourself, but it just is a part of the grieving process. You will go back and think of all the times you had together and it…"
Mar 5, 2015
Shayna left a comment for Dean Latoski
"Hi Dean! I apologize for missing your message earlier. Thank you for reaching out. I really appreciate it. As of today I am doing ok. This week was really hard. I watched an episode of the series VICE that dealt with curing cancer. The information…"
Mar 5, 2015
JO B replied to Shayna's discussion Lost my father to cancer in the group I love my Dad.
"shayna  i wish i cud me again but shes gon i thng i sort of lost me 2 wn he died thn losss non stop iv not had a chncr 2 grive u cud say dads anvsry 2 moro so ifeal even mre sad i do u cud say im fealin sorry for my slf but i feal sad coz i…"
Mar 2, 2015
Shayna replied to Shayna's discussion Delayed Response in the group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Trina, Thank you so much for your kinds words and encouragement. It isn't easy but the writing helps for sure. It is something that I wish I had time for more often, but I am getting better at talking about my feelings regarding the subject…"
Mar 2, 2015
Shayna replied to Shayna's discussion Lost my father to cancer in the group I love my Dad.
"Jo, I understand the frustration you must have. I know it's easy to place the blame on god and to want to be upset with him for taking someone away that you still wanted so much time with. It is a difficult process to loose someone too soon. I…"
Mar 2, 2015
Shayna replied to Shayna's discussion Lost my father to cancer in the group I love my Dad.
"That is a really difficult process to take on. I remember when my father passed, my mother was the one who was taking care of the funeral arrangements, finances, his apartment and belongings and im sure a lot more. At the time I was in college and…"
Mar 2, 2015
Trina Mamoon replied to Shayna's discussion Delayed Response in the group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Hello Shayna, What a beautiful and moving tribute to your father! Your love and admiration for your father and his qualities all come through in your post. Also what come through is that you have a lot of courage and that you have come a long way in…"
Feb 9, 2015
JO B replied to Shayna's discussion Lost my father to cancer in the group I love my Dad.
"my dad died in 2012 postmortem we had on him wz full of bull shit wz 3 difrent reperts 3 difrent tms he died at 220am we got told by juner nurse coz me mum got thr at 230 am we did10 mins late  thn loss non stop in 2012 i spend a lot tme ar…"
Feb 9, 2015
Crystal replied to Shayna's discussion Lost my father to cancer in the group I love my Dad.
"Let's put it this way, when he got really sick & had a stroke, i coordinated his care & became his -Power of Attorney. Not a mean feat from North Carolina to Wisconsin by phone & computer i tell you! anyway, it was tough keeping…"
Feb 9, 2015
Shayna replied to Shayna's discussion Lost my father to cancer in the group I love my Dad.
"Hi Crystal, I really appreciate you sharing. I know it can be difficult to talk about situations like this so I am glad that you read my discussion and replied. I am sorry for your loss. It never gets better but I feel like the support will help.…"
Feb 9, 2015
Crystal replied to Shayna's discussion Lost my father to cancer in the group I love my Dad.
"My dad died what will be 4 years ago now. Like you, he was hard as he has good & strong. I had a rough teenage years with him too-i went to live with him my senior year of high school & long story short, it was mostly a disaster. Needless to…"
Feb 9, 2015
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Feb 9, 2015
Shayna added a discussion to the group I love my Dad.
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Lost my father to cancer

My father passed away in 2008 from multiple myeloma (cancer of the bone). It was a sudden death that happened about a year after diagnosis. I was in college at the time and in no state to deal with reality. My family and I have always had a difficult relationship and were not overly affectionate towards one another. I would say that I was definitely closer with my father than I was with my mother. I ended up going through a rebellious young adulthood. This distanced my relationship with my…See More
Feb 9, 2015
Shayna left a comment for Felicia Evans
"Hi Felicia, I just joined the group. I am so sorry for your recent loss. Losing one family member is rough and I can only imagine that 2 would be unbearable. I pray that you find strength."
Feb 9, 2015

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One down...

Having a glass of wine for my mom tonight and trying to wrap my head around the fact that she's been gone for a year. A whole year. A year without daily emails just so I'd wake up to an email every morning. A year without daily Skype chats just to catch up even though nothing much ever changed. A year without an e-card for every random holiday. A year without hearing about the dumb things my dad was or wasn't doing. A year without my best friend. A year without my mom.See More
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