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Diana Young
50, Female
Orlando
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Missing Michael Jackson
3 members
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Losing Someone to Cancer
11 members
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I love my Dad.
24 members
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Tattoo Memorial
5 members
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Caylee Marie Anthony
15 members
Diana Young's Videos
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Oh Very Young - Cat Stevens
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Caylee Marie Anthony
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Diana Young
Profile Information
- About Me:
- Since 2000, I have been the Dietitian for Cornerstone Hospice in Florida. Hospice cared for my grandfather for years, who passed away in 2001 from cancer. Currently I am working on my Masters Degree in Grief Counseling & Thanatology.
- About my Loss:
- I lost my brother James. It was very traumatic because I never met him. I was raised by my maternal grandparents and he was raised by my paternal grandparents. We did not know each other existed. He died June 2001, I found out about him on Thanksgiving Day 2001 and was told about his death that same day. Talk about a tragedy. What makes things even worse is we were so much alike according to anyone who knew James.
- Are You a Service Provider? If Yes, please tell us about your service.
- Yes,
"When a person is born we rejoice, and when they're married we jubilate, but when they die we try to pretend nothing has happened." -- Margaret Mead
View my page on Hospice Community Forum
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I added a video. The love for Michael is evident.
For those of us who are having a difficulty coping. I am very upset at this and I think I need some guidance. I never met him but it felt like I knew him.
Diana Young's Blog
After Death Communication
~ Joyous Reunions With Deceased Loved Ones ~
©1995; by Bill Guggenheim & Judy Guggenheim
co-authors of Hello From Heaven! published by Bantam Books
Have you been contacted by a loved one who has died? After-death communication (ADC) is probably as old as mankind, but ours is the first complete research study of this field. These spiritual experiences are extremely common, and in many other parts of the world they… Continue
©1995; by Bill Guggenheim & Judy Guggenheim
co-authors of Hello From Heaven! published by Bantam Books
Have you been contacted by a loved one who has died? After-death communication (ADC) is probably as old as mankind, but ours is the first complete research study of this field. These spiritual experiences are extremely common, and in many other parts of the world they… Continue
Posted on July 2, 2009 at 11:27am — 6 Comments
Jennifer Love Hewitt talks about her first thought after reading the pilot of Ghost Whisperer
I was touched by the fact that the show has changed her fears about death.
Posted on May 22, 2009 at 1:44pm —
I'm really missing my brother today
Here he is with his best friend. James C. Jarvis 8/13/62 - 6/11/01
Posted on May 21, 2009 at 4:44pm — 2 Comments
Just Breathe
2Am and I'm still awake writing this song
If i get it all down on paper it's no longer inside of me threaten' the life it belongs to.
And I feel like I'm naked in front of the crowd
Cause these words are my diary screamin' out aloud
And I know that you'll use them however you want to.
But you can't jump the track
We're like cars on a cable
And life's like an hourglass glued to the table,
No one can find the rewind button now
Sing it if you understand...yeah breath
Just breathe, oh breathe
If i get it all down on paper it's no longer inside of me threaten' the life it belongs to.
And I feel like I'm naked in front of the crowd
Cause these words are my diary screamin' out aloud
And I know that you'll use them however you want to.
But you can't jump the track
We're like cars on a cable
And life's like an hourglass glued to the table,
No one can find the rewind button now
Sing it if you understand...yeah breath
Just breathe, oh breathe
Posted on April 27, 2009 at 4:10am — 1 Comment
On Life After Death, Dr. Kübler-Ross
Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross was an internationally renowned physician, author, speaker, and expert on death and dying. She was listed as one of the 100 most important thinkers of the century by Time magazine in 1999, and received 20 honorary degrees for her achievements. She published 20 books on death and dying, and her book On Death and Dying was named one of the 100 most influential books of the century. She was included in the International Biographical Centre’s list of the foremost women of t… Continue
Posted on April 20, 2009 at 9:51pm —
Comment Wall (53 comments)
- At 4:08am on June 27, 2009,
Debbie Lindley said… - I'm sorry, I don't want you to think this is all about me. I am also sorry for your loss. It looks like you are healing by helping other people. I commend you.
- At 4:07am on June 27, 2009, Debbie Lindley said…
- My daughter is going to a therapist and psychiatrist next week to try and sort things out. She spends all of her time trying to get her boyfriend back but he's not coming around. I know the therapist is the best thing for her. Should I not meddle? I can't stand seeing her unhappy. It makes me unhappy that she is so upset. Losing three grandparents in 9 months is to much for her to bear. Her boyfriend has supported her through all of this. I don't think he understands the greiving process. He didn't let her grieve. Just fought with her when she was angry. Oh, well. I guess this to shall pass.
- At 11:57am on June 26, 2009, Lenora Antwine said…
- Thank you, Diana, for reaching out. Last night I found the site and just started venting. Didn't realize it had actually been entered online. God bless you for caring about others. Who have you lost? I hope you are finding comfort, and hugs right back to you! Nora
- At 11:30pm on June 17, 2009, Shelley Novak said…
- Thank you for your kind words. My emotions are still so raw as I lost my son only 8 weeks ago and since then have had to deal with my first Mother's Day without him as well as his 21st birthday. I look forward to the on-line support of others that are also dealing with a loss.
- At 10:17pm on June 17, 2009, Allissa said…
- I may add some pictures eventually. Thanks for the welcome.
- At 9:51am on June 5, 2009,
Lauren Bosi said… - Thanks, it's also my desktop wallpaper
- At 8:51am on June 4, 2009, Melissa L Vinson said…
- Thanks Diana. I have called around for some counseling places and I have to call them in just a little while for an appointment. I didn't think about hospice at all. They were wonderful here when my Daddy passed. Again thanks,
Melissa
- At 3:49pm on May 24, 2009,
Lou LaGrand, Ph.D. said… - Thank you Diana for the information. I want to send him some info on the workshops I do. Hope you are having a great holiday weekend. All blessings on you.
- At 11:03pm on May 23, 2009, Ted Wiard said…
- What a great service this is for all. Thank you.
- At 1:02pm on May 22, 2009, Lou LaGrand, Ph.D. said…
- Diana:
Could you tell me the name of the bereavement coordinator at Cornerstone Hospice. Thank you.
Groups
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Missing Michael Jackson
3 members
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Losing Someone to Cancer
11 members
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Missing my Son or Da...
11 members
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I love my Dad.
24 members
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Tattoo Memorial
5 members
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Caylee Marie Anthony
15 members
Latest Activity
Sometimes I think no one know the pain I feel. The tears are real, I feel so lost sometimes. Sometimes I feel like I can't rise above the pain. His photographs are placed in every room in the house. I know he is my angel, I would give anything for...
Michael's early and shocking death has touched the hearts of millions who loved him through his music. His life was tainted by so much sorrow amidst the stardom and fancy lifestyle he never had time for himself.
It saddens me to hear that there ar...
For those of us who are having a difficulty coping. I am very upset at this and I think I need some guidance. I never met him but it felt like I knew him.
I added a video. The love for Michael is evident.
I once saw my dead pet golden retriever, Sweety. I was blow drying my hair a few years ago and I saw her walk down the hallway to my brothers bedroom where she slept when she was alive. I stuck my head out the door to see our living golden retriev...
I welcome anyone touched by his passing. He truly was a brilliant artist and a humanitarian. -Rest in Peace Michael
For those of us who are having a difficulty coping. I am very upset at this and I think I need some guidance. I never met him but it felt like I knew him.
Hi Christine, My child don't saw any spirit or not talked with any spirit. If you have any story about this then please share with us.
condolences
Oh! Its really a horrible loss for you and I m so sorry for your sister. The person who killed your sister is such a bad man and you should take him to police station. I understand your feelings and I feel your pain.
You should go to grief counsel...
I lost my uncle 3 years ago and I difficult to deal with my loss. I don't understand what to do? I miss him so much and I m crying all the time. I also want a good friend which decrease my pain and share my grief.
condolences
I m very sorry for heard about your loss. I understand your feelings. I had also felt the pain of death. I lost my uncle 3 years ago and its really hurting me. I miss him very much.
I feel your pain and you should trying to deal with your pain. Yo...
Hello Stephanie, I m sorry about your father and I understand your feelings. Some peoples have different ways to cope their grief. You miss him because you loved him very much.
You should go to grief counseling community because its the best place...
I m so sorry for your loss. I know its the awful time for you and its difficult to deal with this grief. Loss of loved one is so painful to us. He loved your baby so much and I know you really miss him. Its your heart breaking. My heart totally go...
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To One In Sorrow
Let me come in where you are weeping, friend,
And let me take your hand.
I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, can understand.
Let me come in--I would be very still beside you in your grief;
I would not bid you cease your weeping, friend,
Tears bring relief. Let me come in--and hold your hand,
For I have known a sorrow such as yours, And understand.
-Grace Noll Crowell
And let me take your hand.
I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, can understand.
Let me come in--I would be very still beside you in your grief;
I would not bid you cease your weeping, friend,
Tears bring relief. Let me come in--and hold your hand,
For I have known a sorrow such as yours, And understand.
-Grace Noll Crowell
The Light Beyond
Reflecting On the Loss of a Child 7 Years Later
As the seven year anniversary of my second son’s birth approaches I look back on it with bittersweet memories. Lukas Kevin was born on June 18, 2002 and he passed away sixteen days later on July 4th. He was born perfect and healthy. During my five days at the hospital he had contracted viral meningitis but didn’t show symptoms until the day after we were released from the hospital. We rushed him to a children’s...Linda's story: the tragedy of stillbirth
hi my name is linda i am 31 yrs old i fell pregnant for the first time with a person i love dearly. all through the pregnancy everything went fine the baby was healthy good heart beat and all i was due on may 30 2009 which is not too long ago i lost a beautiful little baby boy who went by the name of nathan william smith cassidy i was at 39 weeks of...Laughter heals…Don’t Give Up!
I wanted to draw the attention of readers to Christa's excellent site www.giggleon.com. She has also written a great article about way to remember your lost loved ones: Have you lost a loved one? What action have you taken to honor their memory and their life? How do you keep the love you shared with them alive? Whether your loved one died of natural causes, disease or even by suicide, survivors, mourners and the grief...Thoughts on the five stages of grief
Once again a reminder that not everyone goes through these five stages of grief. They are responses that many people have, but there is no typical response to loss, just as there is no typical loss. Our grief is as individual as our lives. Remember that each death or major loss you experience will be different than the others. The stages of grief may be partially absent or may last longer or be shorter depending...The five stages of grief: Stage 5 - Acceptance
According to Kübler-Ross, the fifth stage of grief is acceptance. This is often confused with the notion of being alright or OK with what has happened, but this is not the case. Most people don't ever feel OK or alright about the loss of a loved one, and that is quite normal. This stage is about accepting the reality that our loved one is physically gone and recognizing that this new reality is the permanent...© 2009 Created by Diana Young
