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Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"Happy St. Patrick's Day, everyone! I remember how my dad and I used to have corned beef and cabbage every year without fail. During Lent he would bring home hot cross buns. On Easter he would buy big cookies shaped like rabbits, ducks and…"
Mar 17
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"Missing my dad as much as ever. Such a sweet man deserved so much more happiness than he got to enjoy. Life is so unfair."
Mar 6
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"Dear Jennifer, I am so sorry for your loss.  I wish you peace and comfort.  Losing a beloved parent is one of the hardest things in life, especially after losing your children's dad. A friend of mine who also lost her father was…"
Jan 18
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"I know how you feel. Seeing my dad in dreams is a great comfort to me, too."
Jan 16
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"How is everyone doing? It's been three years since my dad died. I still miss him every day. I still dream about him and wish I could turn back time. There isn't much left that I haven't said about him on this and other forums, but I…"
Jan 16
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"Thank you, JO B, for your understanding. I hope the New Year will be better than the last one for both of us."
Dec 28, 2017
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"This is the third anniversary of my dad's death. I think about him every day. I miss him so much, because he was the nicest man I ever met. Life will never be as happy without him, unless someone just as wonderful comes into my life, but I…"
Dec 27, 2017

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Former caregiver for my father.
About my Loss:
My beloved father passed away on December 27, 2014 at age 86.

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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Bluebell, it was nice to put a face to a name. I always have these pre conceived notions of what I think people will look like. With you, it's the name, I saw you as having blue hair and cat glasses. I was wrong on this one. "
47 minutes ago
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"The blond women I was hugging afterwards was my sister. Bluebell"
3 hours ago
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, I was really scared to get up there, but I am glad I did. Not everyone here has this type of Celebration of Life. But my sister's husband was very involved in the well being of his neighborhood and also loved a good get together at his…"
3 hours ago
bluebird commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Thank you, Linda. I want to be very clear -- I am in no way advocating suicide for anyone, I am just saying that if that is what I end up doing, I will not allow it to keep me from my husband."
5 hours ago
Trina Mamoon commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"On the topic of suicide, there are two reasons that I have not contemplated taking my own life. One of them is that I cannot allow myself to leave my loved ones to deal with the trauma and heartbreak if I were to commit suicide. In my opinion, it…"
5 hours ago
Trina Mamoon commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Dear Geraldine, Very sorry to hear that you are having another anxiety-filled day. Lately, I am having more of the depression attacks, with more frequency and more intensity. This living hell is just unbearable! When will this all end?  Sending…"
5 hours ago
monty thompson replied to monty thompson's discussion My wife passed 5 days before christmas in the group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi All I have noticed lately that i am having dreams with re-occuring theams. my wife leaving (though some circumstance) and having greater responsibilities to look after others.. are other experiencing dreams with constant theam's ? that…"
5 hours ago
Geraldine Brown commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Another morning waking with anxiety that feels like it is choking me. Missing my husband with an ache inside that I cannot explain. If only cancer didn't exist or there was a cure, my beloved would still be here."
5 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"AMEN!!!!!!"
9 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Bluebird, You have a very valid point, I agree with your comment."
9 hours ago
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bluebird commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I don't agree -- if there is an afterlife, I WILL be with my husband there, no matter how I die. I will tear the afterlife apart to be with him, if that is what I have to do. I don't believe in God, but if there is one, if it is a loving…"
13 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Joe, I agree with you, my Lutheran religion has taught if I take my own life I will not join My Husband in heaven. The only way I go on is that we are not widowed, still married only he is in Heaven and I am in Hell. "
14 hours ago
Trevy Thomas commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"My heart goes out to you all. Grief is the hardest pain in the world. A few things I saw in your comments made me want to share.  Vickie, grief is still new for you and the early part is impossibly hard. My husband died at 49…"
16 hours ago
Geraldine Brown commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Oh Vickie lemoigne ecklund my heart breaks for you. There are no words that can take away the pain. "
19 hours ago
Vickie lemoigne ecklund commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I lost my husband 7 moths ago and he was my soul mate my everything. I am so lost without out him. I don't know what to do. All I do is cry. How long will I just want to die cuz I'm without out him. His b day is today he would have been 53…"
20 hours ago
Vickie lemoigne ecklund joined Jon-Paul Ackerman's group
20 hours ago
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett, amazing words. It helped me a lot. Bluebell, saw your video and felt amazing. It is great that you have such celebration of life. It is not very common in India. "
20 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"That is so hard to do. My mom would tell me that she wanted me to be happy after she was gone. I would say, "Mom, how happy would you be if I were the one who was dying?" She couldn't answer that question. Who knows? Maybe if I had…"
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Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"If we each go every detail of our lives with our mothers, each one of us will find ample reason to feel guilty. But what would be the point? None of us would be on this site if we didn't love and miss our mom's with all of our…"
yesterday

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