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Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"dream moon JO B, are you saying that your dad told one of his dirty jokes through the medium at the spiritualist church?   That's amazing!  I have  five different friends who have gone to a spiritualist church to try to hear…"
May 12
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"Yes, it would be so nice to have them back just the way they used to be.  Today I had a good cry, because my roommate was mean to me and when I defended myself, then he blamed me for raising his blood sugar.  My dad had diabetes, too, but…"
May 8
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"I feel the same way about my dad's favorite movies. I can't watch them without missing him.  There's a huge part of my life that I lost because I can't enjoy a lot of things anymore because he's not here with me. When I…"
May 6
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"dream moon JO B, your messages touched my heart.  I feel the same way about my dad.  We also were soul mates.  Once you've known such happiness with another person it's hard to live without it.  We watched Kukla,…"
May 6
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"I know what you mean, dream moon JO B.  People want us to be happy so they don't have to feel sad with us.  It's all about their feelings, not ours.  If they haven't lost anyone, then they don't know how it feels,…"
May 3
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"Thank you, dream moon JO B.  Yes, it's just not the same without our loved ones.  Even if I were to meet someone I think is wonderful, there's no guarantee he or she would stay in my life, but the love of a good parent only dies…"
May 2
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"I just had another birthday without my dad.  I had a fairly nice birthday with lots of people sending me their good wishes, mostly on Facebook, but I still miss my dad.  It was so wonderful to have someone in my life who understood me, who…"
May 2
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"I'm still missing my dad, too, dream moon JO B.  It's been four years since he died, and I still wish we could talk, and enjoy movies and music together as we did for many years.  But the years went by too quickly.  Even the…"
Feb 27
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"Happy St. Patrick's Day, everyone! I remember how my dad and I used to have corned beef and cabbage every year without fail. During Lent he would bring home hot cross buns. On Easter he would buy big cookies shaped like rabbits, ducks and…"
Mar 17, 2018
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"Missing my dad as much as ever. Such a sweet man deserved so much more happiness than he got to enjoy. Life is so unfair."
Mar 6, 2018
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"Dear Jennifer, I am so sorry for your loss.  I wish you peace and comfort.  Losing a beloved parent is one of the hardest things in life, especially after losing your children's dad. A friend of mine who also lost her father was…"
Jan 18, 2018
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"I know how you feel. Seeing my dad in dreams is a great comfort to me, too."
Jan 16, 2018
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"How is everyone doing? It's been three years since my dad died. I still miss him every day. I still dream about him and wish I could turn back time. There isn't much left that I haven't said about him on this and other forums, but I…"
Jan 16, 2018
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"Thank you, JO B, for your understanding. I hope the New Year will be better than the last one for both of us."
Dec 28, 2017
Gilda commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"This is the third anniversary of my dad's death. I think about him every day. I miss him so much, because he was the nicest man I ever met. Life will never be as happy without him, unless someone just as wonderful comes into my life, but I…"
Dec 27, 2017

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Former caregiver for my father.
About my Loss:
My beloved father passed away on December 27, 2014 at age 86.

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Billy Jo Colt commented on Kelli Auerbach's blog post New York Times essay I wrote about orphanhood
"Thank you Kelly for a genuine and bright yet deep insight into how berievement has affected you. Children are resourcefull and it isn't till in later life that the death of a loved one creates a new reality. I've written a song about the…"
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New York Times essay I wrote about orphanhood

Hi everyone, I am new to the group, but not to loss. Thanks for adding me.I wanted to share an essay I wrote, "Welcome to the Freak Show: Becoming an Orphan in My 20s", that is in the New York Times today. Even though all of our experiences with grief are unique, I hope it resonates in some way.Best, KelliSee More
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Elynn m commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Everyone sounds a little down today.   And that's OK.   I do the same thing.   I am learning how to move on with life.  I know that there will never be another Joe.  He was my life, my love.  I miss…"
Thursday
Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Over the last couple of days, I've had some real negative thoughts, scary to say the least.  I know I'll never see her here with me again, which I know but can't accept, but today I questioned is she here with me in spirit? …"
Thursday
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Marita, not that I am glad to  hear you suffer from anxiety and fear but thank you for at least sharing that you too are overwhelmed with living.  At times I want to scream that the way I feel is not some cry for sympathy but more I am…"
Thursday
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Bluebird, You were the original poster who made it real for me that telling the truth about our pain was ok.  That it was how this grief was going to be no mater how I might be told otherwise.  And to know that your truth is that pretty…"
Wednesday
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Linda, yes, I too have the recurring thoughts my brain sends me that my husband is dead.  It's not possible for me to accept it either.  I know it as fact just as I know the sun shines, but when it appears in my brain I simply cannot…"
Wednesday
Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"As much as we all suffer, some may have an additional burden of having to go out into the real world and deal with people in business to survive.  The impact of that makes it all that much more unbearable.  While I'm not in that…"
Wednesday
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Nobody really understands except for the members on this website. It was a life saver for me. Thanks to all of you who share your posts and the support we give each other."
Wednesday
Joe Kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Morgan, yes.  Linda, yes.  Marita, yes.  Bulebird, Yes.  I'm becoming paralyzed to the point of petrification.  NOTHING MATTERS except what we all know what it is.  We can't go back and we can't accept…"
Wednesday
bluebird commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Same here, Marita. Things I would have been able to deal with before (either before I met my husband, or while he was here with me), I cannot handle at all now. Any tiny problem is insurmountable. Everything is. Morgan, I am truly sorry you are…"
Wednesday
Marita commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Morgan, i live with constant fear and anxiety. Every time I am confronted with a new problem I break down because my husband is not here to support me, to comfort me, to love me and it is a reminder of my loss.  When things become so…"
Wednesday
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Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Morgan, My whole problem with myself is I just can't accept my Husband's death and there is a not a thing I can do about it. I want things back the way things were. So to avoid all my breakdowns I try to numb myself with beer. I don't…"
Wednesday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, I felt something very similar. After a year the pain and shock of mom's death had eased somewhat, but the guilt increased. I learned that grief is a process that has many different facets. I am really amazed by the folks who seem to…"
Wednesday
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Terrible,horrible, crippling breakdown tonight.  I know what triggered it and it is something I have struggled with all these years and the closer I get to trying to solve it the worse the breakdowns are becoming. Problem is I am still unable…"
Wednesday
M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, these anniversaries are so hard and confusing.  My husband’s birthday was this Saturday, and Mother’s Day, the first since my dear mother died, was on the next day, Sunday.  A hard weekend to get through.  I want to…"
Wednesday

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