Stehanie Loughmiller
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  • Tallahassee, FL
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Stehanie Loughmiller commented on cin po's blog post Talking to people about my loss & grief helps me
"I am so sorry for your loss, I cant imagine loosing my partner. Loosing my dad was hard enough, my wife was my pillar of strength when he became ill...I probably would have killed myself If not for her. If there is anything I can do please feel free…"
Mar 15, 2017
Stehanie Loughmiller replied to annjulie's discussion 2 tragic deaths 5 days apart.. in the group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"I lost my father on 12-23-2013. we hadn't spoke in 8 months, he caught pneumonia and quickly slipped into a coma, liquid filled up in his lungs and he never recovered. He was the sticky glue that held my family together...since his death my…"
Dec 7, 2016
Stehanie Loughmiller replied to annjulie's discussion 2 tragic deaths 5 days apart.. in the group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"I am so very sorry for you loss. I cant imagine what your going through right now :( (((((hugs)))))"
Dec 7, 2016
Stehanie Loughmiller commented on Julie Dolsey-Weiss's group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"There is never a day that goes by that I don't think about my father, it has almost been 4 years and I still feel broken. It's hard to talk about the pain that I feel inside, because if you haven't experienced the loss of a parent YOU…"
Dec 5, 2016
Stehanie Loughmiller replied to Brittany's discussion Loss of boyfriend due to motorcycle in the group Traumatic, Sudden Loss
"Hey Brittany, I read your story and I have to say......it's pretty heartbreaking. I can't even imagine what your going through right now, but I can say that in time things will get better eventually. You will have your good days, you will…"
Dec 2, 2016
Stehanie Loughmiller commented on Jarvis's group I love my Dad.
"There is never a day that goes by that I don't think about my father, it has almost been 4 years and I still feel broken. It's hard to talk about the pain that I feel inside, because if you haven't experienced the loss of a parent YOU…"
Dec 2, 2016
Stehanie Loughmiller posted a status
"Coming up on the 4th year anniversary of my fathers death......"
Dec 2, 2016
Sarah replied to Stehanie Loughmiller's discussion Life after your Father Dies....My story of Survival in the group I love my Dad.
"I know that this post is kind of old but I saw it today and felt the need to add a comment. Stephanie,you are stronger than you give yourself credit for! It can be very hard working paycheck to paycheck,and trying to get in school on top of that.…"
Mar 3, 2015
Stehanie Loughmiller and Monica Griñe are now friends
Jan 13, 2015
Stehanie Loughmiller replied to Monica Griñe's discussion I've lost my dad, and I miss him terribly.... in the group I love my Dad.
"I can postively 100% understand how you feEl because i lost my father at a young age last year december 23rd. Our Stories Are similar with a few differences... but i can tell you time heals all. You'll have good days... youll have bad days. But…"
Jan 12, 2015
Stehanie Loughmiller replied to Stehanie Loughmiller's discussion Life after your Father Dies....My story of Survival in the group I love my Dad.
"Thank you guys for your kind words, as well as advice about seeking some type of therapy at low cost. It's really difficult when you live paycheck to paycheck...as i'm sure most of you understand. There are days like today I just start…"
Aug 11, 2014
gramaokie replied to Stehanie Loughmiller's discussion Life after your Father Dies....My story of Survival in the group I love my Dad.
"Stephanie:  It seems that you have a great strength of character.  After all you've lived through, you keep trying to better yourself.  It's sad that you didn't get the assistance for school.  Perhaps another…"
Aug 11, 2014
Crystal replied to Stehanie Loughmiller's discussion Life after your Father Dies....My story of Survival in the group I love my Dad.
"Stephanie, I can only imagine what you must be feeling.  I lost my dad in 2011, and though it hurts LESS, it still hurts. I wish you lived near me, because I'd find you help.  I do know that many therapists--specifically county or…"
Aug 11, 2014
Stehanie Loughmiller added a discussion to the group I love my Dad.
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Life after your Father Dies....My story of Survival

My name is Stephanie and I am 25 years old. My father passed away December 23, 2013 and I can tell you that my life has not been the same since. I had it pretty rough my whole life, my parent's divorced when I was 8 years old. I've never had a relationship with my mother. She was either incarcerated, or just not around. My dad remarried when I was 9...how was I suppose to know that she was going to verbally and physically abuse me the majority of my childhood? It was hell on earth...I was a…See More
Aug 11, 2014
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Aug 11, 2014
dream moon JO B replied to Stehanie Loughmiller's discussion Yesterday was 2 months since My Father Passed Away..... in the group I love my Dad.
"me 2 miss my dad fr me its 2 yrs nxt wk so i feal a bit weid i feal wors thn 1st yr belbe it or not i do i dnt no ifs its coz iv lost so mny aftr him or no grif suprt wear i liv i no im not only 1 it as no grief suprt  i no my dad woz not…"
Feb 24, 2014

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About Me:
My name is Stephanie. I'm 24 years old and currently Reside in North Florida with my girlfriend of 8 months. I was born in Munster, Indiana but lived in North Carolina and Georgia for almost 20 years of my life. Was raised southern baptist and have been in the church pews my whole life. I've been in and out of Rehab but not because I had a serious drug problem but because my parents were pastors and did not approve of my "Homosexual" lifestyle. My step mom and dad were married 17 years before my father passed away. My biological mother was incarcerated at the age of 7 and I went 12 years without seeing or before she got locked up. I was a very troubled teenager (like most) and suffered from physical and verbal abuse from my step-mother since age 9. I was kicked out at age 18 and been doing it on my own pretty much ever since.
About my Loss:
My father died from pneumonia 2 days before Christmas. On the 23rd of this month it will be a month since he passed away. My father and me did not have a good relationship and were not good terms when he passed away. I did not attend the funeral because I felt like nobody wanted me there. I have not been able to afford to go visit his grave....it's only 4 hours away but i have no transportation. I don't know how to get closure, and am very sad and depressed. It's taking a toll on me and my girlfriend's relationship...as I have become a very angry person. If there is anybody out there...a support group...other gay ppl that have religious backgrounds please feel free to reach out to me. You are not alone. We can help each other get through this.

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Aimee Hall Fuszard joined Karen's group
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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
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morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Thank you Joe for your posts. In a weird way it gives me a lift.  How?  Because I know that I am not making up how hard this suffering is.   My closest friend and sibling also know how I feel about dying and I know I would not have to…"
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Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"joe that is incredible. thanks for the time and energy sharing. i think ill look at some of your suggestions and see what will work for me. for me this week has been hard. 1 week until first anniversary of her death, i don't know what to…"
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joe kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Read second post first Morgan. Had to break it up into two parts and did it backwards."
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joe kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
""As the years are passing I feel the need more and more." When I read some of you guys suffering so long, it gives me great fear that despite my health neglect, and legal preparations, I don't know when it will actually come to…"
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joe kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Joe, "I read your words and it brings me to my knees."  I keep asking God to let me go many times a day.  I tell Him/Her/It that I will never relent until my prayer is answered.  I ask my love to keep asking too and have…"
8 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Thanks Bluebird for nice comment about my Julian. He was so caring and was my rock. Being with him for 24/7 for 13 years of our retirement was bliss, I thank God for this time together.  Morgan & Joe I keep believing there is eternal love…"
12 hours ago
morgan commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Joe, I read your words and it brings me to my knees.  I so want to join my husband.  As the years are passing I feel the need more and more.  I am not sure I understand totally how your OBE has given you more faith that somehow we…"
13 hours ago
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Pamela, you are grieving for your mother. You may not be able to see it but I can. My father was horrible. I did not grieve his death. I barely gave it a second thought. You are grieving your mom, and you are grieving the way things were. The advice…"
13 hours ago
bluebird commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Linda, Your Julian looks like such a nice man in that photo; what a lovely smile! Joe, Thank you so much for your kind words. I hope you are right."
16 hours ago
Pamela philipp commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I lost my mother on 9-6-15 eight days before I lost my husband on 9-14-15 and I feel horrible because I am struggling with how I am grieving for my mother because we had a very strained relationship because my mother was an alcoholic all her life…"
16 hours ago
joe kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Dear Bluebird, It is impossible for us to know for absolutely sure what exactly happens when we die.  Oh, how I would love her to appear before me and tell me she's here and waiting for me, but I also know that she can't do that…"
18 hours ago
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Hi Bluebird, I am so glad that the folks on this forum feel the same way I do. Society is always trying to label people, if we don't agree with them they think we are weird or crazy. My sweet Husband Julian taught me to ignore what other people…"
20 hours ago
bluebird commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Sorry, I meant Linda and Monty and Joe."
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bluebird commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"I fully agree with you both, Linda and Monty. My deep and abiding grief is the only response I could possibly have to my husband's death. My soulmate was torn from me, and I don't know if his wonderful soul still exists, or if I will ever…"
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Daylight commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi Avi, it would be nice to have a friend. The time gap is big but we can agree on a time to talk. Keeping busy also functions for me. Anyways, as soon as I have free time the thoughts and feelings came back and grief hits so hard. I wish you have a…"
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Daylight commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"M Adams , I hope this feeling of desolation lessens in time. It is an extremely hard process. Unbearable at times. I hope you are doing well."
yesterday
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi Daylight India is 8.30 hours ahead of Argentina. We can talk at your early morning whenever you want.  Feeling of desolation still exists for me but I try to be strong and do things (work, travel, eating etc) with sincerity. "
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M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Agreed, Daylight.  I often think about how appalled my mom and my husband would be by my current state.  But I would say that the feeling of total desolation will change, based on my experience with my husband’s death, thirty months…"
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