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Miss my dad so much

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Comment by Gilda on May 3, 2019 at 2:08pm

I know what you mean, dream moon JO B.  People want us to be happy so they don't have to feel sad with us.  It's all about their feelings, not ours.  If they haven't lost anyone, then they don't know how it feels, and if they did lose someone close, then maybe they didn't love that person as much or feel as close or have as much fun as we did with our dads, so they will never know the pain of such a loss.  But it's also kind of sad for them, that missed out on a wonderful relationship for whatever reason.  They just add to our pain by making us feel guilty for being sad and making them uncomfortable.  All I can say is their time to grieve will come soon enough, if they care about anybody in this world.  Maybe it will be over an animal instead of a human being, and then they will know how it feels.   Then someone will tell them to snap out of it.  

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 2, 2019 at 4:52pm

yes i get it i do

it leastt anmilss dont tell u how we shud feal o grieff thy do not

thy dont say get ovrit or foget abot yore dad r fogett u had a dad coz im not bean fair ther to fealins wish mask me feal bad for bean bad to ther fealinss i ct do wot thy wnt i can notwish can mak  me f feal look bad not thm 

why is it 1s notlossno 1 mak u feal bad for loss we had  

Comment by Gilda on May 2, 2019 at 4:14pm

Thank you, dream moon JO B.  Yes, it's just not the same without our loved ones.  Even if I were to meet someone I think is wonderful, there's no guarantee he or she would stay in my life, but the love of a good parent only dies when they do.  Dogs are pretty faithful but they can't talk.    

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 2, 2019 at 4:05pm

happy bday giilda i no bdays dont feal way we usd to be wen lovd 1s wear stillhear

Comment by Gilda on May 2, 2019 at 3:51pm

I just had another birthday without my dad.  I had a fairly nice birthday with lots of people sending me their good wishes, mostly on Facebook, but I still miss my dad.  It was so wonderful to have someone in my life who understood me, who would never leave me and who was the only person I could ever trust completely.  I couldn't even trust my own mother because she abandoned me when I was only three years old.  

Comment by dream moon JO B on February 27, 2019 at 3:39pm

thnx gilda anvers on 3.3.12it is

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Comment by Gilda on February 27, 2019 at 5:47am

I'm still missing my dad, too, dream moon JO B.  It's been four years since he died, and I still wish we could talk, and enjoy movies and music together as we did for many years.  But the years went by too quickly.  Even the happy memories still make me sad, because I am alone.  I have a roommate, but it's not the same as living with someone who knew me and loved me since the day I was born, and vice versa.  It's hard to meet people who are kind and genuine.  My dad was the kindest and most genuine person I ever knew.  

Comment by dream moon JO B on February 26, 2019 at 5:44pm

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Comment by dream moon JO B on August 22, 2018 at 6:18pm

u wellcom iv bean hear sinsees 2012

i no sinses dad died his a big miss he is

Comment by Amanda Stout on August 22, 2018 at 6:16pm

Thank You Dream Moon JO B

I truly appreciate your comment...

 

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