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I love my Dad.

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Started by Lori Brandt. Last reply by dream moon JO B Jul 24.

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Loss of my dad and my pet companion

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Comment by dream moon JO B on May 12, 2019 at 5:00pm

my dad cu trhu it spookss churchh he did tellin 1 of his dirtyy kokess he did 

but mrdim cud not sayit coz he wud get ong

all i no gilda no 1 gets a losss till thy get it 

Comment by Gilda on May 8, 2019 at 7:43pm

Yes, it would be so nice to have them back just the way they used to be.  Today I had a good cry, because my roommate was mean to me and when I defended myself, then he blamed me for raising his blood sugar.  My dad had diabetes, too, but I helped him get his sugars down to normal, and I helped cure gangrene on his toes from peripheral arterial disease, but this roommate of mine won't let me help him.  I hate to see people destroying themselves and then try to take me down with them.  My dad was such a saint compared to most people.  If only he had watched his diet more carefully years ago, but he didn't want to listen.  He had a sweet tooth and loved refined carbos and processed meats.  And the trouble is I enjoyed these unhealthy foods right along with him, until he started to be ill, and then I felt so sorry that he couldn't enjoy tasty food anymore.  When you have congestive heart failure even a bologna sandwich can send you to the hospital on account of too much salt.  Life is so cruel sometimes, but I thank God that he enjoyed good health for most of his life.  He was a boxer in the army during the Korean War, and he used to walk a lot up these steep hills. In fact, he was so fit, we didn't know he had advanced heart disease until he was in his 80's.  

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 6, 2019 at 3:56pm

yeo

thn bits of mesayin mayb putin dads pic sid me lk we watchin it togerr but im still lk no coz his not hear on personn lk i wsih he wz 

Comment by Gilda on May 6, 2019 at 1:14pm

I feel the same way about my dad's favorite movies. I can't watch them without missing him.  There's a huge part of my life that I lost because I can't enjoy a lot of things anymore because he's not here with me. When I see videos of old films or songs on YouTube that I think he would have enjoyed, it just kills me.  And it hurts even more when I see the video was uploaded while he was still alive.  How did I ever miss it before!  It makes me feel guilty that I didn't look hard enough before.  

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 6, 2019 at 3:15am

me dad luvd harrry pottr moviess we did we wear goin 2 watchh ;lastt 1 p1 thn we wear goin to get p2 of lastt 1 but nevr got rond to doin it i saw p2 of lst 1 in stowee

put cud not get round to byin in it i cud not

not evn watchd lastt 1 p1 yett

bit me feals shud but ojhr bit of me fealss lk no

Comment by Gilda on May 6, 2019 at 12:48am

dream moon JO B, your messages touched my heart.  I feel the same way about my dad.  We also were soul mates.  Once you've known such happiness with another person it's hard to live without it.  We watched Kukla, Fran and Ollie on tv together when I was a girl.   It was so much fun going to the movies together but that pretty much stopped after we got a vcr in 1982.  Then we watched thousands of movies together on videos and dvd's.  My dad's brothers shared his love for the old films and music, but they're gone, too.  It was so much fun when we'd all get together to watch an old western or a musical.  A family favorite was Buck Jones.  I'd love to find a new movie companion.  My current roommate is too grumpy to be much fun.  

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 5, 2019 at 6:13pm

it tims evry 1 can mad me for griefing thy do coz thy not had a loss

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my dAD SID ME

or my dad pushin me on swingss wen i wz a kid

or cathcin me on slid 

ino ppeeple thng im bean silly missin theses thngss

but me dad wear lksoul matss my dd evn d saed use furell ho so i wud findluv frm ther im still watin i am 

but my dad wz bit pyciss he is 

well wz i am bit nyt need 2 workk on it on my slf 

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 4, 2019 at 4:18pm

1 day 1s its had a loss will nopain we goint hru thy will

its painn i wish on no 1

i wz a daddys girll i wz 

if i evr meet a man he will hav to be lk my dad in wayss i mean

i evn speek to his fottoss i do

stardd goin 2 a spirtslt churhh lst yr wish i findd comftin 

coz peppplee ther hav had a loss its lk a supportt groupp it is

wear we all get comft wen lovd 1s cum trhu we do

iv had famly iv not met cum trhu but foto stroyssi herd  wz spott on my fav anits cum trhu 

Comment by Gilda on May 3, 2019 at 2:08pm

I know what you mean, dream moon JO B.  People want us to be happy so they don't have to feel sad with us.  It's all about their feelings, not ours.  If they haven't lost anyone, then they don't know how it feels, and if they did lose someone close, then maybe they didn't love that person as much or feel as close or have as much fun as we did with our dads, so they will never know the pain of such a loss.  But it's also kind of sad for them, that missed out on a wonderful relationship for whatever reason.  They just add to our pain by making us feel guilty for being sad and making them uncomfortable.  All I can say is their time to grieve will come soon enough, if they care about anybody in this world.  Maybe it will be over an animal instead of a human being, and then they will know how it feels.   Then someone will tell them to snap out of it.  

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 2, 2019 at 4:52pm

yes i get it i do

it leastt anmilss dont tell u how we shud feal o grieff thy do not

thy dont say get ovrit or foget abot yore dad r fogett u had a dad coz im not bean fair ther to fealins wish mask me feal bad for bean bad to ther fealinss i ct do wot thy wnt i can notwish can mak  me f feal look bad not thm 

why is it 1s notlossno 1 mak u feal bad for loss we had  

 

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