I had no idea he used. He was 28 and had just gotten his PhD. It took 5 months to get the toxicology report and learn just exactly what he had done. The condition of his heart revealed that he had…Continue
Today marks a year and 7 months since losing my brother .. today a year and seven months ago I had to start a new life called "hell" and go on the best I could and find some way to be "normal" again…Continue
"Kim, I do identify with so much of what you wrote. I find myself staggering through the days...it is a hard journey.
From CS Lewis - A Grief Observed
"Grief is like a long valley, a winding valley where any bend may reveal a totally new…"
I'm so sorry for your loss, and I wish I had words that could comfort you in your grief right now.
I can tell you if you have faith, Christ will carry you through this horrible time, heal your heart and restore your love.
"thank you my friends , for careing and being here for me, I just want so bad to be with shawn. this is way to hard to live without my baby. and I really don't want to live without him. no one should have this hurt , this unbearable…"
"Two days ago marked 11 months since my sister was taken from us. It is so hard to believe that it has almost been a year since I have talked to her or heard her laugh. I cannot help but think about where she would have been now had she not…"
I met Lacy at a cookout at my best friend house on a sunny breezy day. I was standing with the guys having a beer and i looked up and saw the most beautiful women I ever saw she was wearing this sun dress and her hair was lit up by the sun and it was so bright. ALL I could do was stare at her all day. Josh came up to me and asked me if i wanted him to introduce me to her of curse I said yes. He warned me that she was not to high on firefighters but i said i did not care i had to meet her and of…See More
"Sorry Kim--it took me along time to respond. I am at the Microsoft Store learning more about computers. Just wanted to let you know that 11/5/13 was a bad day for me too! That is when my boyfriend had his 1st stroke.Strange--isn't it!"
"Kim, I'm so sad for your unimaginable pain. I have learned on this journey that family and friends don't comprehend our pain...and they can't and won't. Please lean on us, because we DO know the nightmare you're living.…"
"Thank you for your thoughts i do take care of the basics i gues what has to be done but I don't do anything above or beyond that. I don't know how to deal with this i use to be the one that helped people when they needed help you called…"
"thank you linda, but nothing seems to help anymore. I cant see a light at the end of this very dark hole im in. im so sorry for your loss to, being our only child I just want to go to. this pain will never go away, the loneliness, emptiness…"
"when I fear i'm forgetting my Desiree's voice I focus on only one expression unique to her and remember when she said it. that helps me to recall her voice, her smile, or maybe even her anger. no matter what it is it is her. I know you…"
"I say that every day Anthony. "I'm lost". I am reading a book I got from amazon about surviving the first year of widowhood. The author suggests making a list of 7 things to accomplish each week. I've tried that this week and it…"
"I ask why everyday, why he took my son and not me. I don't want to live anymore, im to empty in side to lonely. to take the only child I have and to leave me in such pain is so very wrong. I need to see shawns smile im finding it…"
Hello everyone!My name is Genevieve and almost two years ago my dad died. He drowned saving two boys struggling in Lake Michigan. Once he put them on a boat to safety, he was caught in a riptide.I searched so hard for a good resource for teens. I'm fifteen now, but at that time I couldn't find a good online resource for people specifically my age, and people in a similar situation (i.e. lost a parent). Since then, I’ve been trying to start up this website called SLAP’D, which stands for…See More
This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.See More
I don't even know how to start my day anymore I wake up and I just lay here I look outside and think it a nice day I should get moving but why the love of my life is gone and not here to share it with what the use it's just a waist of time to try or to fake that I'm enjoying it. So I just lay here. I use to have a purpose and a road to go down now it's gone my life has stopped on that day. I'm lost without her i don't know which way to go or how to do it without her. I'm just lost....
"Yesterday was difficult for me. I still have moments of disbelief that Kyra is gone from this earth. It still seems so hard to grasp. I get through each day but I can't fathom the rest of my life here without her. My other daughter took all of…"