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My Ex had passed of an overdose, and I'm just finding out
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Thank you for taking the time to read. My name is Danielle and at 22 years old I had thought I met the man of my dreams. Sure he had a past run in with drugs but he was going through a divorce, had…Continue
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Danielle commented on Laura Rozier's group Losing Someone to Drug Overdose"Thank you for taking the time to read. My name is Danielle and at 22 years old I had thought I met the man of my dreams. Sure he had a past run in with drugs but he was going through a divorce, had a daughter and I excepted him for the person he…"
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Danielle posted a discussionMy Ex had passed of an overdose, and I'm just finding out
Thank you for taking the time to read. My name is Danielle and at 22 years old I had thought I met the man of my dreams. Sure he had a past run in with drugs but he was going through a divorce, had a daughter and I excepted him for the person he was. Long story short, things did not work out as I had hoped. I was in a cycle of a mentaly abusive relationship, he would tell me what he wanted me to be, dress like, look like and ended up cheating on me. The pattern went on for years of coming and…See More
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- I'm trying to grieve after finding out my ex had passed of an Overdose.
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- I had just found out he had been gone for over a year.. I have so much guilt about our last text that I feel at fault
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bluebird replied to bluebird's discussion My husband died, and I will never want to live without him."Joe,
Thank you for your response, and for providing the link to your post about your NDE as well as describing it in more detail here. Although it's terrible that you were in that accident, in a way it was a blessing for you, in that it allows…"
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Lia, your post made me cry because I also feel similar.
I wish you all strength "
Bern commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter"2012 September 30th. This fight is real. My only son was shot in the head. The girl and her brother were in the house when it happened. The told police that they were playing with the gun. Well a sister and brother will die and go to hell or heaven…"
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter"Judy sometimes I feel the same way...why do some who don't deserve to live get to while our kids didn't. And sometimes when I hear others use that word, "miracle" it upsets me too."
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter"Connie forgive me if I screw this up but the line, "Don't cry for me, cause I live in eternity" runs through me head all the time."
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter"Connie what a beautiful gift!!!!! That was Daniel, letting you know he's there. "
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter"Ginger I left all my sons pictures right where they were I need to see them. "
Teresa D. commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter"It's been a while since I've checked in. I'm actually melting down right now. Don't know what brought it on but can't seem to stop. I miss everyone and think of all of you all the time.
Michael's…"
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Lia, a few lost minutes cannot compete with a lifetime of love that you shared with your mom."
Lia Lynch commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Hi there. Brett, you were (are) totally right -- I was and think I still am in shock. There was so much to do, and with my kid to take care of, I wasn't processing. At all.
Still not. I didn't get to say goodbye. She was in a…"
M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"As Brett suggests, you sure can be griefstricken without feelings of guilt -- for me guilt doesn't seem relevant to my deep sadness about losing my mother. It's more a combination of loneliness, shock, emptiness, disappointment…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Seems like we all have our regrets and sadness that we live with every day. But I have noticed for myself that though I still have them, they have softened over time.
Bluebell
On a different subject I want to celebrate this morning of being able to…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Brett, me too, the only guilt I have is if I did not stop at her house for three minutes, I would have been there, but I was not.
I say it everyday why did I do that..."
Virginia G posted a blog postNo reason to live
No happiness. Nothing to look forward to. Constant pain. Memories everywhere and longing to be able to make more or even talk about them. Scared, needing answers, anxious, lost, angry, devastated, guilt ridden. how could life be so cruel? It’s just not possible.See More
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Avi, what is what’s app? I don’t have a smart phone."
Virginia G commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"The pain seems to get worse everyday. I guess the numbness is starting to wear off. I need God to listen to me. I can’t live like this."
M Adams posted a blog postIn black and white
Today I had to respond to several emails and repeatedly write down that my mother is dead. Finding it very hard to keep writing the words, so hard that it took several days of tearful effort to complete the three most pressing responses. Finally got them done. I just miss my mother so much. I hate picking up the phone now because some part of me still expects her voice at the other end of the line. I feel wounded by family and friends who are grieving so differently from me, who are keen to…See More
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