"It sounds as though you did love him, and maybe he loved you in his way, but he did not treat you as a loving partner should, and in my opinion you did the right thing by protecting yourself and not staying with him. I think you should view that…"
Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Don't grieve alone; 14,000 members and growing
-
Danielle
- Female
- Torrington, CT
- United States
- Blog Posts
- Discussions (1)
- Groups (1)
- Photos
- Photo Albums
- Videos
Danielle's Discussions
My Ex had passed of an overdose, and I'm just finding out
2 Replies
Thank you for taking the time to read. My name is Danielle and at 22 years old I had thought I met the man of my dreams. Sure he had a past run in with drugs but he was going through a divorce, had…Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by bluebird on Friday.
Gifts Received
Danielle has not received any gifts yet
Danielle's Page
Latest Activity
AnneJ. replied to Danielle's discussion My Ex had passed of an overdose, and I'm just finding out"One major thing I learned over all these years is that the heart has a mind of its own. You can't just tell your heart what to do. It doesn't work. But Time works wonderfully. :) You two never bonded and became a single unit of love…"
Danielle commented on Laura Rozier's group Losing Someone to Drug Overdose"Thank you for taking the time to read. My name is Danielle and at 22 years old I had thought I met the man of my dreams. Sure he had a past run in with drugs but he was going through a divorce, had a daughter and I excepted him for the person he…"
Danielle joined Laura Rozier's group
Losing Someone to Drug Overdose
If you've lost someone you loved due to them overdosing on drugs, let's talk about it here.See More
Danielle posted a discussionMy Ex had passed of an overdose, and I'm just finding out
Thank you for taking the time to read. My name is Danielle and at 22 years old I had thought I met the man of my dreams. Sure he had a past run in with drugs but he was going through a divorce, had a daughter and I excepted him for the person he was. Long story short, things did not work out as I had hoped. I was in a cycle of a mentaly abusive relationship, he would tell me what he wanted me to be, dress like, look like and ended up cheating on me. The pattern went on for years of coming and…See More
Profile Information
- About Me:
- I'm trying to grieve after finding out my ex had passed of an Overdose.
- About my Loss:
- I had just found out he had been gone for over a year.. I have so much guilt about our last text that I feel at fault
Groups
-
I miss my Mom!
721 members
-
Being the Other Woman/Ot…
21 members
-
Losing a spouse and dati…
17 members
-
Lost My Spouse...
359 members
-
Losing a sibling
53 members
Latest Activity
Avi commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Hi All Guys
I was away for few days as I am blessed with a baby girl on 10 Aug 18. Both mother and baby doing fine.
I planned my baby only as my mother wanted to see her grand child but destiny had other plans. But I hope she has still blessed…"
Rain commented on Cathy Richardson's group Being the Other Woman/Other Man"It's been almost two years for me. It doesn't hurt any less. Some days I push it away but then all of a sudden every bit of it hits like a ton of bricks. I did tell a few of my best friends and I mostly regret it. Now I feel it's just…"
Frances Koonce replied to dream moon JO B's discussion mad at god"Awww- I’m sorry about that! It must make you feel really terrible that you can’t just take her home.
The same thing happened with my mom after her heart attack. She couldn’t just live by herself anymore. We had to empty her…"
Losing a spouse and dating again
I lost my spouse 16 months ago. Have gotten into a new relationship but he lets me grieve openly. I have a2 year old daughter. Also I am 26See More
dream moon JO B replied to dream moon JO B's discussion mad at god"iv bean to day to sea her iv hadto liee to her wish i feal bad
wen can i go homee wen drs says so
wear isdr
on holday
why am hear coz dr says so i anserd it for abot 40 mins i did
evry tim i leabee i feal dranedd i do
th 5 mons latr she…"
Jeff Tice commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Thank you bluebird. My kids have been a huge comfort for me. Making me laugh even when I don't want to and giving me someone to occupy my time and energy with. I am working my way through this slowly and they help…"
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Hi Jeff,
So sorry for your loss."
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"Anxiety/panic is awful, I had it so bad after my mom passed I was walking with my legs shaking, it was awful I though I this how I have to live the rest of my life in a state anxiety/panic?
Just awful I understand what you are going through."
Crystal K commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"The indifference is hard. I hate it when people ask me how Zim doing or how lifw is... I just want to scream at them “how do you think it is!” My boss constantly asks me and everytime I just respond with a “fine” or…"
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I walk over to my moms picture every single night and say mom I love you I hope you know that."
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I wish that I could have handled the loss of my mother better than I have but I do believe that what I am experiencing is a testament to how much I loved my mom. To have gotten through this without scars would have been awkward as well. I would have…"
Monty replied to Cristal's discussion Rejoining the rest of the world in the group Lost My Spouse..."Hi Crystal
I found going back to work (due to needing to support my family) possibly saved me a little from falling to much into my grief.
It was also very good for me to be around normal adults, as i don't have much family near by, and…"
Monty commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Hi Jeff
sorry to hear about your wife passing. i can only imaging and guess at what your going though.
After my wife passing last year, i had family and friends helping out
with me and the boys.
i feel that lots of men tend to bury/push…"
bluebird commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Just to be clear -- I only meant that it's good that your children are with you, and that therefore your wife is too, in a way."
bluebird commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Jeff,
I'm sorry, it must be so difficult with the children. At the same time, they are also part of her, so in that way it's good. My husband died shortly before his 42nd birthday; I was 44. My life ended the moment his did.
Of…"
BLUEBELL commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!"I understand how you feel Virginia when you say nothing makes sense anymore. It is like a puzzle that once fit together. But now pieces are either missing or have changed shape.
Bluebell"
Jeff Tice commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse..."Thank you Nancy for the kind words. I'm sorry 06to hear about your husband. My wife's grandfather passed away 17 years ago due to cancer that progressed quickly too and I watched her struggle with the grief. I know that your experience is…"
© 2018 Created by Ninja.
Powered by
