Bonnie Jacobs
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My 29 year old daughter is about to be taken of life support with Hospice being involved. I am already in the mourning process and need the help of grief counciling. Sara was without oxygen for over ten minutes and is basically a vegetable. She is in pain and non responsive. This death is going to happen very soon and I don't know how I am going to get by.

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Thank you for the hugs and prayers. I don't know how to message you back. It says you have blocked it.

Posted on May 30, 2013 at 11:56am

Depression

I have been depressed all through this process since my daughter, Sara, first was in a coma.  Now that she has passed I haven't been feeling much of anything. I am starting to go into a deep depression and wanting to get out.  I feel darkness looming all of the time.  This just started a few day ago.  Her memorial isn't for another week but I feel I shouldn't feel this depressed as I have gone through all of the stages of mourning in the past 4 months since the coma insued. I thought I was…

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Posted on May 10, 2013 at 12:22pm — 7 Comments

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At 7:37pm on August 18, 2013, Bonnie Jacobs said…

I am writing just to let everyone know that I am still out there. I have been having a very bad time of it lately, today being the worse day since she passed. I don't really feel like talking at this time as all I have been doing is sobbing and I have finally stopped and don't want to start again. Love to all.

 

At 11:38am on August 13, 2013, Michelle H said…

Bonnie, just checking in with you again. Haven't seen you here for awhile and have been thinking about you. I'm sending you love and prayers.

At 11:16am on August 13, 2013, Vasanthi S said…

Bonnie, 

we haven't seen you for a while on here .. so do share-- we are with you-- god will give u all the strength required and our prayers are with you.I am thinking of you. Do be in touch and let us know how u r doing..love, hugsss.

At 4:15pm on June 16, 2013, Willa Morehead said…

Bonnie, your comment about being a lot stronger while she was dying than you are now is normal.  I felt the same way standing by my dying daughter the months that she was living, but now after she is gone, I feel like I am falling to pieces.  This morning at 3 a.m. laying in my bed I had a total "meltdown" and cried for over an hour.  I know it is post traumatic syndrome that has happened as in any crucial situation where our adrenal keeps us going and we are strong when wehave to be and, now, that is has happened we have time to really relive all of it.  Just know my dear that you are not alone in your feelings and we will get through by the "grace of God" and sweet support friends as I see here.  I am new on the site.  God Bless and know I am your friend and am going through the same feelings and pain as you are.

At 8:56pm on June 15, 2013, Alice said…
Your daughter is okay she is with Gid and she has no pain now and she want you to get better and she will always be with you in spirit.Please try to stay positive.I am always here if you need to talk.Mat God continue to bless you and your family.
At 3:54pm on June 15, 2013, Alice said…
Hey Bonnie,It will get easier you are gonna have good days and bad days but continue to ask God for healing and trust me it will get better.I will continue to pray for you.Remember you are not alone in your grief.Grief has no timetable so do what you need to do to get better.
At 8:38am on June 6, 2013, Alice said…
I am getting through this by the grace of God.Having someone going through the pain with you is also helpful.Hope my kind words be of some help to you.
At 10:33pm on June 5, 2013, Alice said…
Hey Bonnie,just remember nothing dies it only transform.May God continue to bless you in your time of grief.
At 8:02pm on June 4, 2013, Alice said…
You will be okay as long as you trust in god that we all have an appointment with him but we don't know when our appointment is.I am so sorry for what u are going through,I will pray for you and your family that you will get through this and know it will take time.My loss was sudden and I am having a bad time and when I do I have family and friends who are there for me when I need them.If you need someone to talk to I am here for you anytime.May god be with you and your family in your time of grief.
At 9:11am on May 30, 2013, Ammy said…

Hello Bonnie, 

Just here to let you know I am thinking of you and keeping you in prayer.  Hugs.

 
 
 

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