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Constance L. Freundt

Lost My Daddy June 29, 2010 2 Replies

Started by Constance L. Freundt. Last reply by gramaokie 5 hours ago.

Jennifer Butler

I lost my Daddy Saturday May 1st 2 Replies

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Janet Stephens

I lost my Dad June 12th 1 Reply

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Courtney Adams Comment by Courtney Adams on July 26, 2010 at 9:13am
@Mel, I am sooo blessed to have such a knowledgeable friend such as you...I am blessed to have all that I have now...Last night for the first time in a very long time I prayed....I prayed that god would give me the strength that I needed to take care of me and my mother thru the tough times....I still have my moments and I still feel him every once in while to me thats how I know he is here....I thank god for the feeling because it gives me peace and I may cry like a baby or smile but no matter what I know that he is looking at me holding me and telling me everything is going to be alright!!!...Now more than ever I am starting to believe it!!!...So thank you Mel for always giving me your words of wisdom!!!...I am truely blessed for a friend like you!!!
Mel Joyce Comment by Mel Joyce on July 23, 2010 at 4:10am
You will raise up from the ashes of grief and find each day a bit of sadness and pain has burnt away from your heart. Lean on the Lord for strength and love. Lately my sister and i are turning to each other, and becoming closer too. I know its because of my dad, his spirit, his blood, his blood runs through us and its up to us to keep him alive. Just as our ancestors give us our heritage, our parents leave us their legacy. So draw on the strength of all the teachings, instructions, and love your dad bestowed upon you. You are who you are because he decided to be a loving father that invested himself in you. Again, HOPE for better days is what will carry you thru the tough ones, as well as the Grace of our LORD! Love & God bless ya!
Courtney Adams Comment by Courtney Adams on July 22, 2010 at 11:03am
@Mel things are great here...My sister adn I have never been close but lately I am greatful...We have been talking alot more, she is going thru a rough time and now more than ever she has been nice to me...I thank god for it...I know deep inside that dad did this and that he is helping us to become close and I thankgod for it and I thank my dad!!!....I hope everyone else is as good as I am!!!
Mel Joyce Comment by Mel Joyce on July 21, 2010 at 2:48am
Hey all, hope things are okay with you. Been kinda of rough lately for me and my sister. REally missing our dad. Been a struggle the past week or two, but i realized that i will come thru this. REally leaning on the Lord for strength and comfort. So i hope you all are doing good, and just wanted to share, whatever you may be going thru, you will come thru it, May God give you strength and carry you in your times of need. God bless you all.
Courtney Adams Comment by Courtney Adams on July 12, 2010 at 9:01am
@Mel Thank you so much for that. I love it and when you think about it its true ....I thank god everyday for you guys here because I dont know where I would really be....@Pat I understand my birthday is the 16th of this month...It will be the first birthday without him since he has been in my life...I dont know what I am going to with out him....I broke down the other night and I havent done that in forever....I dont know what was going on and I dont understand why he had to go so soon!!!...My house feels gloomy and lonely and quiet...I dont hear him yelling for my mom and me...I just empty sometimes and I just wish that I could have had more time with him!!!...I hope you all are doing well...Keep praying for you guys!!...Courtney
Patricia Melton Comment by Patricia Melton on July 8, 2010 at 9:28pm
July 9 would have been Dad's 75 birthday. It has been a tough week trying to remember the good times and missing him so much. I love you Dad. Please God tell him for me. I do appreciate all the time I had with him. Please pray for me that I will be able to deal with this tomorrow. I am going to try and stay busy. Thanks yall for letting me once again vent. I pray that you all are ok.
Mel Joyce Comment by Mel Joyce on July 6, 2010 at 3:31pm
just wanted to post this, "I will turn mourning into gladness, I will give them comfort and joy instead of sorrow. - Jeremiah 31:13 From laughter to tears, a cycle that repeats itself constantly, i have been battling with just moving along. 'Moving along', that's what i call it. Not that i need to get over losing my dad, but just moving, versus, staying in bed, not wanting to do nothing for myself or my family. So i tell myself to keep 'moving along'. I have received lots encouraging scriptures that joy will return, so my hope is in the Lord to fulfill His promise. So if this scripture helps you, which i hope it does, then have hope in JOY and LAUGHTER returning again. Love & God bless you all.
Courtney Adams Comment by Courtney Adams on June 28, 2010 at 10:59am
@Rhonda, I understand when I first wrote here I cried...I know if it wasnt for Mel, and Pat here I would have lost my mind....@Pat I am glad your doing ok...I have kept you in my prayers the last few weeks....@Mel I am glad to see your ok, I worry when I dont hear from you!!!....@Gab YOur rigth it helps trying to not think about those memories and I know its hard but it will Help you...@Dan You have alot of people here to help you if you every need anyone!!...Just let us know...I hope to hear from you all soon!!...Keeping you all in my prayers!!!
Gabriel J. Griggs Comment by Gabriel J. Griggs on June 28, 2010 at 7:32am
@Dan, One thing that helped me with the whole process was learning to express myself. In my case, singing allowed me to really feel and break free from the numbness. I imagine that poetry or painting or carpentry or whatever your way may be might have a similar effect.
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Mel Joyce Comment by Mel Joyce on June 26, 2010 at 2:21pm
@ Dan, you must feel like you are quietly going crazy. Concentrating or not concentrating on nothing in particular. you are reliving flashes of memories, thousands of thoughts running thru your head. Your emotions in disarray. I lost my dad four months ago this past thursday and i am still in denial and disbelief. It has been hard but just take it moment by moment my friend. I am sorry for you loss.
 

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