June 2009 Blog Posts (7)

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I have had a terrible year!!

Last October a week after I had major surgery my mother died of cancer. It was a relief at first because she was so sick. I seemed to handle it O.K. then my father died of heart failure 7 weeks later. It was such a shock. I got to the hospital and my husband just looked at me and shook his head and I just fell to the floor. We were just geting over that and my 90 year old grandmother fell and broke her hip and passed away in May. Everytime we try to move forward, we go backwards. I have two… Continue

Added by Debbie Lindley on June 26, 2009 at 6:40am — 3 Comments

I am new here.. My Introduction!

Hi everyone... my name is Jack... aka Minister RMB. I am new here and am looking forward to connecting and building with some authentic people. I am trying to figure this site out, so any help is welcomed. :)



Anyways, I am an artist/evangelist based out of Northern California...my music style is a blend of urban praise/hip-hop/r&b.



I am currently uploading photos, music, and even my new music video "Carry On" which I haven't even officially released yet...but thought I… Continue

Added by Minister RMB on June 18, 2009 at 5:00pm — 1 Comment

Is it normal for us to create memories we "think" we had?

Hi, all.

I'm writing this because I'm sure at one point that I promised Chris I'd learn "Blackbird", to teach it to her- I've searched through our conversations, and can't find that sentence. Is it normal to have those moments where we think we said or did something that we didn't actually do, and realise them years later, for a fresh kick in the guts, if you'll forgive the phrase?

Thanks,

Shady

Added by Shady Wilbury on June 8, 2009 at 7:30am — No Comments

Angel Date

Nine years ago the clock stopped. The sun quit shining. The world stopped turning. How could it be nine years ago when it seems like yesterday? I can still see her lying on the ground, people so many people working on her. Then nothing. They said she was gone. Gone where I thought. I held her in my arms, screaming “my baby, my baby” over and over in my mind, in the air. God how could you take her? She wasn’t done. She had so much more work to do here. I need her. We need her. Am I having a… Continue

Added by Katherine Ellis on June 8, 2009 at 1:42am — No Comments

i need someone smarter than me

i wanted to start a program in her memory that eliminates the need for foster care,child support,deadbeat parents,and eventually poverty.

ok first put people that owe child support in school. once they have a degree a good job get your money.no more deadbeats.... and no more child support problems very soon.

start completing educations at degree levels.... given the better jobs, better living standards would rise. eventually terminating all social care systems necesity.

am i… Continue

Added by fred upton on June 6, 2009 at 12:44pm — 1 Comment

Finally Beginning to Grieve

My husband died May 14, 2008. My son-in-law announced to my daughter October 5 that their marriage was over and moved out of the house November 7. I started seeing a counselor after my daughter got divorced (it was final March 2009). I felt I needed to know how best to help her and her children cope. The counselor pointed out that I was depressed and that I hadn't yet grieved the passing of my husband. I didn't want to believe him, but he assured me that I was in denial. Go figure.



I… Continue

Added by Eve on June 5, 2009 at 6:57pm — 4 Comments

the time to deal with things

after tommorows date im taking a much needed break from our society. mayby mexico on my bike. pay some vato a few hundred dollar bills to get my agression therapy. or pop up to canada and let some frenchy look down his nose at me. lol... ...whatever tomorow brings ill probably need it. ill probably have to wait until the ledger posts the outcome. but if i gased up now i could get there easily on time. deciscions deciscions. na i'd try 4 him . i wouldnt introduce myself to anyone. just go sit in… Continue

Added by fred upton on June 2, 2009 at 3:05am — 2 Comments

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