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Comment by Lori J. on March 28, 2014 at 5:30pm

Not really sure how this works, but I do know what it's like to lose multiple loved ones.  I've lost my mom, dad, brother, grandparents, uncle and aunt.  I'm all that's left of our family.  I never knew what it meant to truly be alone.  It's scary.  My brother and I were very close and I miss him more than I can say.  Still, I've found a way to put one foot in front of the other and keep moving forward, but it took a very long time to figure out who I am without my family.

Comment by dream moon JO B on March 20, 2014 at 4:24pm

sorry fr yore lossws thereeas i no funrell thng aftr my dad died evn befre but after i dnt thng i cud go 2 so mny funrells after him frm famly 2 frinds 2 nbouz 

its wn peple say stupt stuff 2 us can u not get over im lk no

or thy bully us 2 get over wish is so wong

1ts funrelli wnt 2 wz my nanna/gran kate wish i wz only a tean still dnt undtsand wot wz gong on 

gramackie 

ptsd i thng we all get ths over death we had i had a monmt yday wish i cudnt control it all coz of a ambulns its blus wz on ot sde my hose i had 2 go look 2 sea wot wz gogn on bt it wnt in 2 nxt st

it juts brot it all bk wn my dad got admitd n tht horbel wrd nasty nurse ean rasest gosping juts bean nasty 

sorry if im sayng wong thngs

Comment by gramaokie on March 19, 2014 at 9:40pm

Theresa:  It definitely sounds like you've been traumatized over and over during the past 6 years.  Wow.  Losing 18 loved ones in an average lifetime would be hard.  I'm guessing you are young to have experienced so much loss.  I also suffer with PTSD as a result of events that took place over a 2 year period almost 20 years ago.  That trauma exacerbated the major depression that existed my entire adult life.  My salvation has been a wonderful psychiatrist, therapist, and medication.  The multiple losses I've suffered in the past few years worsened the depression and PTSD.  I hope your doctor can help you find ways to deal with the PTSD.  Unfortunately, there's no "cure".  What you describe being fine one day and lost the next is familiar.  There have been times where I feel like a wave of pain just hits out of no where.  I'm so sorry for what you are going through.  

Comment by King on February 26, 2014 at 4:54pm

I just joined today so I'm not sure how to start on 1996 on mother day I had twins and they were premys and I had to pull plug.
Never really dealt with it just brushed it aside and moved on.
So on septet 30 2012 when I loses my 17 year old I losses it
Tryed to be strong and do the samething but my family's drifting apart! My hubby's in denial

Comment by dream moon JO B on January 30, 2014 at 3:40pm

i am so sorrry tammy my heart brakes for u it dose i no lifee can be so cruel 2 us but wot u hav bean thru is so cruel it is

on hear feal free 2 vent  on grps or blog on hear or discus forum on hear 

i cnt thnk diana enuf for creatng ths web site i don t no wear a lot of us wud hav bean wit outt ths site 

Comment by gramaokie on January 30, 2014 at 12:41am

Dear Tammy:  I can't begin to comprehend the extent of the pain you must feel at the loss of your son, daughter-in-law, and precious grandchildren so suddenly.  The only thing I could tell you is to be gentle to yourself and give yourself permission to do or not do whatever helps you the most. If you need to vent, feel free to share with us.  (((HUGS))) 

Comment by Judith Brandl on January 29, 2014 at 11:32pm

Hi to everyone, my heart breaks for every person here. Tammy, I don't know what to say. I think that losing a child or a grandchild is too much to bear. They are your heart and a piece of your heart goes with them when they pass. I'm sure that you feel like the tears will never end and maybe they won't. I'm glad that you can express it on this site. I will keep your broken heart lifted up before God when I pray. Jo thank you for your kind words also. Peace and comfort to everyone

Comment by Connie K on January 28, 2014 at 7:32pm

Tammy - what a horrific experience you have had.  My heart is with you and I am sending you lots of prayers and hugs. Tonight I will light a candle for your family when I light one for my son and all of my friends an family who have passed.

I hope everyone has a peaceful evening

Comment by Tammy on January 28, 2014 at 6:20pm

Today makes 3 months since the house fire. Two of my granddaughters passed away immediately. The fire started out on the porch, a corner far from the main part of the house. The fire went up through the walls to the second floor coming through the wall in the bedroom shared by the twins and 4 year old. There were smoke detectors in the house but there were no batteries in them. ATF and the fire marshal said the way the smoke and fire came into the house the detector would not have saved them. This just seems like a nightmare still. Tomorrow it would be three months that my son and 2 more granddaughters passed. Today has been a day of tears to sobs. How do you accept this. My daughter-in-law lived 15 days after the fire before she passed

Comment by dream moon JO B on January 28, 2014 at 3:49pm

me 2 judith im plesed i fond ths website i dot get wong fr getng upset vr my dads death i dont get told 2 het over it evn othr loss i ha efre him or aftr him wish  dtn thng i cud lose so many after he died

i dnt get wong on hear fr peple getng termly ill wish iv bean tdl sm brutl hom truths i no wn wen peple tell hme truths thy go 2 far thy csn i dnt get wong fr peple getng big c on hear i no i feal bad abot it i do 

sory 4 evry 1s loss on hear

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