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Growing past pain

This group is for those who have suffered several traumatizing events in their past and who have no idea how to move passed it. We are here to discuss anything from losing a loved one to abusive relationships any and all are invited to speak their hearts and minds without judgement all races,religions and sexual orientations are welcome. I hope we are able to help you move past your pain and grow.

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When everything starts to build up...

My father was a jerk to put it nicely. He abused my brother and I, my brother got the brunt of the pain. I suffered from one abusive relationship after the next until I met my now ex-fiance. Though…Continue

Started by Cortney Todd Apr 27, 2014.

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Comment by Zorriah on September 13, 2016 at 7:51pm
2016 Sept posts??
Comment by dream moon JO B on December 15, 2015 at 3:48pm

wish evry  1 wz still hear thn non of wud be in hell hol or so on

Comment by dream moon JO B on December 15, 2015 at 3:48pm

i miss my dad evry day he wz grt wen he died evry thng gon bad 2 bad bad its not slf pity so mush loss in 2012 thn 2013 2014 2015 

nw mums ilness mum wz so sweet lovin thn i dnt no wish way 2 say it but f~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~kin demsana shes got bw screm yelin at us i no its not her falt its bldyy illnes it trns pele ib 2 monstrs sorry if im bean nasty so on sorryy

Comment by sandra on December 3, 2015 at 2:26am

My mother was a self centered *&#$@** she allowed me to be sexually and emotionally abused from the time i was 2 (as far back as i can remember, could have been longer) I think she did it for her own cause. (she sold me to get what she wanted) I too went through a few abusive relationships as i got older. i ended up with three children. I raised them alone. I still cry when i think of all the years we went without electricity, heat and food. but i got them all to university :) through all of this i met my best friend, soul mate, partner in crime :) he died in October. now i feel so very lost again. i feel so very broken. i find myself wanting to just go too. rationally i get this isnt right but i dont believe in god and i dont know what else to feel or do  

 

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