I created this group for people who may be grieving one or both parents. I lost my Mom and Dad within one year of each other. Dad passed away from Lung Cancer and Mom passed less than one year later from Pick's Disease.See More
This group is for those who have suffered several traumatizing events in their past and who have no idea how to move passed it. We are here to discuss anything from losing a loved one to abusive relationships any and all are invited to speak their hearts and minds without judgement all races,religions and sexual orientations are welcome. I hope we are able to help you move past your pain and grow.See More
I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce.Many of us have lost more than one person or event.Come share!See More
i know you said you don’t like meds, but maybe one of the natural supplements for anxiety could lessen the meltdowns? Just a suggestion. I’m the opposite, don’t know why I’m not having constant breakdowns,…"
thanks for the comment on my blog. I read a few of your posts and I have the same desire to get out of here as soon as possible. I’m only 47 and there’s no way I can wait until I’m old. I’m afraid if…"
"Virginia, while I don't know you, I don know this... your mom knew that you loved/love her. And there is a cold reality in all of this. No matter how hard I tried, my mom still died. There was no stopping it. It was like trying to hold back a…"
As I read your blog, I cried and cried. It’s all too familiar and all too heartbreaking. My Mom and I did everything together. I always lived with both parents, but my Dad was always the quiet type that liked to do…"
"Crystal, there is no timeline. I understand all that you are saying. After moving out of my mom's house, I had to go back. My realtor called me back there frequently. I had little choice. It was hard. I did cry, but it was not the difference…"
"Virginia, We ask ourselves alot of questions when we suffer such a great loss as a loved one. All of your questions I have asked myself over and over as I have tried to live beyond the loss of my husband. I've not answered them…"
"It is so hard. My sister whose husband passed away April 9th 2018 does not want to see me right now because I remind her of Mom's passing a year ago Feb 14th. She does not do it to be mean or hurtful. She is just too full of grief for her…"
"Crystal. You have to do those things in memory of your mom should would want you to do it I truly believe that I’m not saying that I don’t cry every day because I do I get in bed at night I cry when I’m sitting home alone I…"
"In 3 months, it will be a year since my mom passed away. It feels like it was yesterday. I know I asked this before but when does it get easier to do activities that you and your mother did together? I cant bring myself to do anything that reminds…"
"Hello Virginia, I’m so sorry you are going through this hell. PTSD has been part of my grieving process too. I think that when we lose someone who is absolutely essential to us, our brains don’t have the ability to adjust to the changed…"
I am experiencing post traumatic stress disorder. Some days I cry a lot, others not much. I get upset when I don’t cry. I feel as if I should be crying all day every day because the thing I feared the most my whole life happened. How have I not had ten heart attacks by now? Some days I have bad flashbacks of the hospital. Other days I feel like I can’t process what happened. Is my mind blocking what happened to protect me from the pain? Sometimes I feel like I’m losing my mind. Am I…See More
Today is 2 months since I lost my only daughter to cancer and to me being reminded in some way of what used to be is a hard one for me. She was my best friend, we talked quite often and I visited on occasion. When friends talk about their adult daughters it brings to light the realization that I once had that and I don't anymore and the tears come. I guess when I'm not reminded,I want to still think she is here,only a phone call away. Already many things have changed, we used to talk on the…See More
While grocery shopping I noted a man sitting waiting for his wife as I surmised, my husband used to do wait patiently for me. It hit me hard that I no longer had anyone waiting for me. So alone after 36 years.......See More
"Ah, Morgan. And Bluebird and Linda and Mel and Alice and all you others who let me walk with you from cave to cave during these dreadful years of an examined life. I'm so tired I can't even write lately; our old friends, where are they...…"