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Murder Victims Families

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Do NOT do this!

I have gotten to know most of your stories and all of them are so heartbreaking. I had to take a break from this site for awhile. I thought if I didn't keep dwelling on the murder (4 years ago) maybe my grief would subside a little. That did not work. I realized it only made me become more obsessed with my brother's murder.

 I became facebook friends (under a different name) with 2 of my brothers murderers. I'm not sure why. I guess I was hoping I could find something out.....which I have. I passed on the information to the detectives involved and was more or less told give up. Unless there is a confession or a witness who talks it won't be solved.

Now I am obsessed with watching these peoples lifes on facebook. It kills me to see them happy and free. I only made things worse for myself and now I can;t quit.

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Finally! Finally! 8 Replies

Last night, I got a phone call from lead detective on my husband's murder case. My husband's killer has been arrested and is now in custody to face murder charges!. This comes 1 year, 1 month, 27…Continue

Started by Amanda Ab. Last reply by Carrie Sue Jan 27, 2016.

missing my brother 6 Replies

its been over a year since my brother was tooken from me...things dont get easier with time i was just getting over my moms death now this...its consumed my life i live every second of my life…Continue

Started by irene gomez. Last reply by Evie Molina Apr 16, 2013.

Blaming the victim 5 Replies

This past week I have experienced a very ugly side to several people. My mom was murdered by her husband several months ago. He subsequently took his own life. I hold nothing for him but anger and…Continue

Started by Amie. Last reply by irene gomez Apr 16, 2013.

So much anger along with deep sadness 11 Replies

My husband was shot and killed by a complete stranger over an argument for a parking space 2 blocks away from our home. I feel so much anger towards this person.  its because of that person, who is…Continue

Started by Amanda Ab. Last reply by Bern Jan 17, 2013.

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Comment by TNorman on January 4, 2011 at 8:38am
On April 16 2010 my brother was murdered and that is the day that my life was changed forever. The two murders have not been arrested because the cops said there was not enough evidence, no one is talking. but everyone knows what happen. He was shot dead on the streets. I am so angry, hurt, sad and lost. I miss him I miss him I miss him
Comment by Tricia on October 13, 2010 at 6:37pm
Hi Everyone. This past Sunday was the 20th anniversary of my cousins Murder. We were very close growing up and I struggle this time of year every year but for some reason, this year hit me like a brick wall. She was 23 yrs old when she was lured by an ex boyfriend to come pick up her belongings from his house. Once there he shot her multiple times, and then himself. Some say he was given his own death penalty but for me there remains so many unanswered questions. I feel like justice was taken from us.
Comment by donna on September 10, 2010 at 8:09pm
jennifer, I am sorry to hear about your son. That is awful! I'm also sorry everyone turned their back on you when you needed them most. Is the person who is responsible for his death being charged?
I hope you can find people who you can stand behind you during the hardest time of your life. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Comment by jennifer on September 9, 2010 at 10:23pm
my name is jennifer and on april 22,2009 my beautiful 2 yr old baby boy was brutally murdered,he died of blunt force trauma to the abdomen,that SOB sat there and watched my son slowly die and i belive when he saw he was gone thats when he told me someting was wrong...when we got to the hospital he was already gone and they say he was gone for a while but i know when my son was still alive,the second worst part they didnt even warn me that this sob did it and i ended up going with him that nite b/c everyone turned there back on me..
Comment by donna on September 9, 2010 at 5:57pm
I am sorry to hear what you have been through. I wish i could offer advice but after 2 years we are still waiting for justice for my brother. I am so glad the person confessed. That will save you some of the heartache of looking for the murderer. I will say this......It will be the hardest thing you ever have to hear. I hope there is someone out there who knows what you are getting ready for who can offer you some advice. I will say a prayer for you and your family.
Comment by Kandi Broussard on September 9, 2010 at 4:52pm
Kim, My mother, 67, was also brutally beaten, robbed, and stabbed to death. It happened only five weeks ago. The murderer has made a full confession and been charged with first degree murder. I have a meeting with the DA tomorrow morning which I am really nervous about. Do you know what I can expect? I HATE to have to revisit something so horrible but I have to make sure that the murderer never puts anyone else through this kind of pain. Any advice?
Comment by donna on May 21, 2010 at 11:03pm
Kim, I am sorry to hear what you and your family have gone through. What kind of monsters do that to a 59 year old woman? You are right.....no one should have to hear how their loved one suffered during death. We have not gotten justice for my brother, (he was also stabbed to death,) but I'm not sure we can live with the images that come with hearing the whole story. It is hard enough to live with the images we have now and we don't know all the details yet. I hope your mother murderers both spend the rest of their lives in prison suffering EVERYDAY.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Comment by Pastor Jenine Marie Mason on May 21, 2010 at 10:24am
Kim, I am so sorry for your loss and for what your family has endured. I pray for hope to go before you and that your pain will become more bearable.
Comment by Kim 330 on May 21, 2010 at 6:10am
On August 6, 2009 my mother was brutally and senselessly murdered in her own home by two men during an apparant robbery/burglary attempt. We sat through the preliminary hearing which were the most painful days of my life. No one should have to hear of how the woman who gave them life and loved us unconditionally left this world with 55 stab wounds, 13 blunt trauma wounds, and was strangled on top of all of that. My heart aches not only for the loss but for the act in which she was taken away, 2 weeks shy of her 59th birthday. And just weeks shy of the birth of her first GREAT Grandchild. She was so excited and oh so proud, as she was of all of her six children... and eleven grandchildren. My mother was my very Best friend who I could talk to about anything. She had a heart of gold and would give the shirt off her back to anyone in need. She will live on through all of us though, as she would have wanted it to be. For she was so proud of her children and left behind a piece of her spirit within each and every one of us which we will continue to shine brightly in her honor. Visit www.inmemoryofcindyramos.com for further information and to honor this loving woman. This is the website I have created in my mothers honor and memory. May we all somehow find the strength to somehow make it through life as our loved one would want us too...with this pain which we all now unfortunately know to be so real. It is the support of others and forums like this that truly can help in getting each other through our tragedies. Peace be with you all
Comment by donna on May 18, 2010 at 10:26am
I wish I knew how to see past post on this site. I think it could help some of the new members. Does anyone know how to do that?
 

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