Kerry Whitley
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About Me:
I have been married for 14 years and have 3 boys ages 8, 11 and 13...My husband, Charlie and I raised my youngest brother which he is now 26 years old...
About my Loss:
My mom (my profile pic is her) was murdered 17 years ago by my ex-stepsister (Dana)...Dana shot her 3 times and my mom survivived 13 days in ICU, but passed away due to complications at the age of 37 (she celebrated her last birthday in ICU). My two brothers, Kirk (16 at the time, now 34) and Matthew (9 years old at the time, now 26) are the ones who found her at our home and took her to the hospital. Long story...but that is why i am here it is hitting harder this year.

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At 6:00pm on October 15, 2011, Amanda Ab said…
Hi Kerry, Thank you for your reply. And so sorry for the loss of your mother... It must be so hard on you and your family... I try to be strong and go on a day at a time.. I try to put a fake smile, for my son, and play with him.. But at the end of the day, I feel so empty, lonely, and realize that I am being strong for my son, but where do I stand too?. I need my husband here to be strong for me... It is so hard..,,
At 9:40pm on May 26, 2011, marilynne j said…
Hi Kerry I am so sorry to hear about your MOM they are very important people in our lives ...now yours and mine are with our creater and one day will meet again Marilynne
At 5:34pm on March 9, 2011, charlene aragon said…

Hi Kerry

Thanx for the comment, alot of people can't relate unless they have been there.  your mom was so young, I' so sorry, that must have been horrible., It killed me to let my husband go, but I knew he would.nt want to b that way, and its too hard on us, the family.  .. thank you..

 
 
 

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dream moon JO B posted a blog post

i miss the family its no longer here

i miss the family so much its no longer here mom dad uncle sister  aunites pets frineds its like family i miss them all im woried im going to have no body soon i am iv being on this forum since 2012 dont get on much thease days i dont iv saed a lot of goodbyes from people from my church im a spirtalest  but its still hard saying goodbye See More
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Walter Craig posted a discussion

...both parents

I lost my mama to cancer after her 10 month battle with Vulvar Cancer and I had to witness some very horrific days. She suffered so much and I tried to be there with her as much as I could but she did not survive this monster and passed away.my dad was also battening lung disease and he passed away 7 weeks later. I am 32 and no siblings and no family of my own.some days I feel lost and I don't know if I can carry on...See More
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The Wheels on (My Grief) Bus Go Round and Round...

New Year - 2025!At the start of the year I returned to Thailand for another medical mission.  This was my fourth trip for this and I was somewhat ready/prepared for the heightened emotions.  Not sure why...no real connection to Jen or her accident, but in the past these trips offer some extended alone time, away from others, away from people that speak the same language and as such seem to bring the thoughts back to the forefront.  Strangely, the same levels of emotionality were not there.  Not…See More
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Speed Weasel commented on Dottie's status
"Dottie, do you find the anniversary dates to still be as emotionally difficult as the first couple times?  I find that some years, it is very fresh and raw, others almost (almost) slip by without fanfare."
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Speed Weasel replied to Mabel Murphy's discussion My husband passed away
"So sorry for you with his passing. That is rough, that there has been so much time between the initial diagnosis and the final moments.  On top of the 'normal' grief, you may also start to feel relief, which is likely to add to the…"
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