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About Me:: I have been married for 14 years and have 3 boys ages 8, 11 and 13...My husband, Charlie and I raised my youngest brother which he is now 26 years old...

About my Loss:: My mom (my profile pic is her) was murdered 17 years ago by my ex-stepsister (Dana)...Dana shot her 3 times and my mom survivived 13 days in ICU, but passed away due to complications at the age of 37 (she celebrated her last birthday in ICU). My two brothers, Kirk (16 at the time, now 34) and Matthew (9 years old at the time, now 26) are the ones who found her at our home and took her to the hospital. Long story...but that is why i am here it is hitting harder this year.

At 6:00pm on October 15, 2011, Amanda Ab said…: Hi Kerry, Thank you for your reply. And so sorry for the loss of your mother... It must be so hard on you and your family... I try to be strong and go on a day at a time.. I try to put a fake smile, for my son, and play with him.. But at the end of the day, I feel so empty, lonely, and realize that I am being strong for my son, but where do I stand too?. I need my husband here to be strong for me... It is so hard..,,

At 9:40pm on May 26, 2011, marilynne j said…: Hi Kerry I am so sorry to hear about your MOM they are very important people in our lives ...now yours and mine are with our creater and one day will meet again Marilynne

At 5:34pm on March 9, 2011, charlene aragon said…: Hi Kerry

Thanx for the comment, alot of people can't relate unless they have been there. your mom was so young, I' so sorry, that must have been horrible., It killed me to let my husband go, but I knew he would.nt want to b that way, and its too hard on us, the family. .. thank you..