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Comment by Kathy Perry on March 25, 2011 at 12:03pm

My grandma passed away Feb. 22, 2011 a month ago this Tuesday. I miss her terribly and it hurts so bad. We found out two days before Christmas last year that she had Stage 4 colon or ovarian cancer. They let her come home with in home Hospice care and we all spent our last bittersweet holiday with her. We thought she had a bit longer as she was doing good for awhile. I visited her several times a week and went to church every Sunday minus one week with her and my mom and sis. We had plans to make her dinner on St. Patrick's day and have a birthday celebration on March 6th for me at her house. None of that happened. Instead the day after my 35th birthday we celebrated her life with a memorial service at her church. The following Sunday we went to her church for the first time without her. It was really sad! I am really sad. I have been doing fairly well on/off but today is the worst day since that day a month ago. Yesterday I received my copy of her Last Will and Testament. I couldn't stay at work more than an hour today so that's why I am on here today. Peace and blessings to all going through this journey.

Comment by nancy on February 13, 2011 at 7:59pm

I really miss my gran this month is also very hard for me as she passed on feb.28. I still cry everyday on top of that i found out my husband is cheating on me after 20 years of marriage. Its just a double whammy on me. I wish i could see my gran i am so hurt and exposed . I was asked by my dr. to in one word describe how i feel. I said i felt broken

Comment by Carmen on February 13, 2011 at 6:40pm

BS,

 

I will never believe that time makes the hurt go away...i think about her everyday and have to stop myself from calling her,This is a hard month for me .this week is my b-day week and her b-day is coming up in a couple of weeks .I have to hope that she is still around me guiding along the way until we meet again..I miss her so much:(

Comment by nancy on December 22, 2010 at 12:41am

Oh god i miss my gran so much

Comment by Carmen on November 15, 2010 at 10:15am

Tina,
I am so sorry .I have been in counseling since grandma died. I made a bracelet of different beads representing things about my grandma so when things get hard or the pain of losing her gets bad i can look at it and remember the lil things that at the time i cant. Sometimes it makes me smile and other times it dont help at all but i have to believe that someday i will see her again and never to be parted. If you need to talk just yell and i will be here for you.

Comment by Tina Vardal on November 15, 2010 at 9:43am

My Granny died on November 9, 2010. She and I were so close and I miss her dearly. Something that helped a little was my husband bought me a Grandma locket at Walmart and now I can keep Granny and her photos close to my heart. It feels extremely painful but I am hoping that this will help.

Comment by steacy del valle on November 11, 2010 at 3:02pm

my grandma died 3 years ago i use to cry alot be cause i thought of her more like my mom then my grandma. we still dont know what exactly she died of but it was really hard because she lived in puerto rico and we lived in miami and also i was in my senior year in high school so my mom didnt want me to go over there and so my mom went on that monday and my grandmother died that wednesday i was really heartbroken because i couldnt even go to her funeral. she was an amazing woman and i admire he alot and in more than one way. but the really hard part was knowing that my grampa would stay alone and having some1 around for over 40 something years and to lose ur soulmate especially after the doctors told them that she was getting out the hopital the next day but she didnt even make it til the and it was right before my18th birthday and right before my graduation and we were going to go visit her that summer after i graduated

Comment by Carmen on August 13, 2010 at 7:44am

2 years ago yesterday i lost my grandma .i cant believe it has been that long when it feels like yesterday.I walked around yesterday in a haze just going through the motions of the day to try and get through it.Not sure i did very well but here i am missing her more today than yesterday. Lost in my world with no one to understand it

Comment by daniel hallingshead on August 10, 2010 at 2:29pm

my name is danny and i lost my grandma on march 13th....my grandma was like my mom i loved her and she was also like a father to me she took me fighing every weekend and we went to church well now that shes gone im just like lost i miss her so much and i just feel drained

Comment by Carmen on August 7, 2010 at 11:39pm

yes i hear it alot...time to let her go and move on she wouldnt want you this away.Grandma and I were so close .I CANT LET HER GO

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