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why people that are selfish take away the people we care about the most?

i lost my mom on may 14, 2010. it was a murder suicide. the guy that killed her was her ex that was with her for about 9 years. he cheated on her and so she decided to leave him and move on with her…Continue

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im 21 i have a 1 year old son. i work alot i have a boyfriend ive been with him for the last 4 years.
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my mom was killed going on 6 months she was shot 4 times in her apartment. she was killed by her ex boyfriend they were together for 9 years and he cheated on her and when my mom finally decided to leave him and she found someone else and that treated her like she deserve to be treated he got depressed and all of a sudden wanted her back and when he didn't get his was he killed her and shot himself

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its been3 yrs since my mom passed away and for some reason my relationship with myhusband has gone down hill. it feels like im walking in my mothers foot steps because now im going threw almost the exact thing that endedup killing her. now im the one in an abusive relationship the only difference is that im trying for dear like to get away from. and im scared i wont be able to in time before the same thing happenes to me  

Posted on October 17, 2013 at 9:24am — 2 Comments

baby coming soon

 i feel so depressed in about 2 weeks and 2 days i will be having my second child and my mom wont be with me. my mom was there for the birth of my first  and i was so happy to have her there. now its just gonna be me and my husband there and half the time we are arguing. im so ready to have this baby but not looking forward to not having my mom there. im naming my baby after the two most important women in my life my grandmother and mom that both passed away. its so hard not having anyone to…

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Posted on July 21, 2012 at 3:45pm — 2 Comments

just so angry

honestly this website dont work for me on this case but atleast i get to write even if no one ever writes back. i feel so alone at times that i just feel likemy heart is so swollen becaause all the pain thats in it. i dont really have much comunication with my family its like they moved on so quick from what happened to my mom the last time i went to p.r. just to see her grave no one wanted to take me to the cementary and i havent been able to earn enough money to go back to see her and its… Continue

Posted on June 16, 2011 at 9:02am — 3 Comments

in so much pain

i just feel like crying its like no one cares about how i feel i just feel so depressed. not even my bf understands all the things i think about  all the pain i still hold with me after all this time. i feel like im never going to be right. all iwant is to be happy and it just seems like its a fairytale im starting to thing that there is no such thing. i just want my boyfriend to give me attention to make me feel like i mean something to him i wish that myjob didnt take so much advantage of me… Continue

Posted on January 17, 2011 at 1:46pm — 4 Comments

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At 11:47pm on July 11, 2011, Dylan Ishmael said…
Thanks for your comments, Steacy.  I really appreciate it.  I will keep you in my thoughts.  Only the best to you! D
At 9:17pm on January 20, 2011, michael sandoval said…
Dear Steacy. My condolences. My heartfelt feelings go out to you.
At 10:19am on November 20, 2010, Tina Miller said…
you are absolutely right how can anyone be the same after being a witness to what your loveone has been through, and my sisters are the like you said noone wants to talk about it ,for the out of sight of mind .I think the biggest thing with my siblings happens to be guilt,because they weren't with her as much as they could have been i know they have families , but that family needed to be around an know their grandmother.and they never really forgive her for the time we spent in foster care ,but that wasn't all her fault my dad was beating on her,and she did the best she could with five kids . and they have been a far cry from perfect with their own.i wasn't with mine , you do the best you can and pray for god to be with them,but my son knew his grandmother and was living with her at the time of her he was at work. he would stay 3 days and i would stay three days to take care of her and her house house work and cooking .but i believe guilt with the girls, but the boys just don't care.they didnt come around her the one took he home and everything she had , and we didnt see him till her funeral, the other started coming around 1 day a week for the last month she lived for money he could get from her for his drug habit, and to put her down but i told him off , but you know he had a lawyer at the hospital like a viper while my mama was dying , i hate him i really do.and you don't even want to know the b.s. he is trying to pull know , but my lawyer says don't worry about it, but i can't help it none knows the murderous crap he done for and with his dealers.i know my ptsd is having a field day and no amount of pills stop it i don't know what to do.you and the people here are more my family now than mine. i thank God for you !! take care hun
At 5:32pm on November 14, 2010, Tina Miller said…
I know how you feel , I am so angry ,not just the girl who ran over mama ,but the officers who blamed her for her own death,and the people in authority who make the laws and the roads and walk ways everyone involved that day,and the pain does seem to get worse not better ,i can't stand to go past the place where it happened but i have to everyday when i leave or come back home, and it haunts me why! it eats away at me especially at night when the world is sleeping and i can;t for thinking about what she endured an what all our mothers endured at the hands of others, i am so sorry for your loss and what you are going thru hun and i can only pray and hope that one day we all will get accountablity from these cruel people and that God will give us that peace that passes all understanding ! hugs !!
At 4:30pm on November 12, 2010, Kandi Broussard said…
I know what you mean about people not caring. It seems like just a handful of people REALLY cared. I just don't think people really get it unless they have gone through it.
At 4:13pm on November 12, 2010, Kandi Broussard said…
There are soooo many emotions and unresolved feelings---- right? I know exactly what you mean. It's like it is just too much for one person. I have to go to my mom's house( the scene of the crime) tomorrow and start getting some of her personal belongings out. I am not going to be able to make the payments on her house because I STILL have not received the death certificates. They will foreclose on it soon and there is nothing I can do about it. The only help I have is my husband because my sister has been committed to a psychiatric hospital because of my mom's murder. To top it all off--- the killer has a court date Monday morning. My best friend and I are going because I want him to see my face everytime he walks in to that court. You can't even get justice, in your case, because the guy shot himself--- right?? What a loser!
At 1:25pm on November 12, 2010, Kandi Broussard said…
I know!!! It is crazy!! The guy that killed my mom was on parole for assault with a deadly weapon!! They are treating him with the utmost respect and treating my dead mom like she is the criminal!! It pisses me off!! She is gone and cannot defend herself so they can just say whatever they want.
At 3:50pm on November 11, 2010, Kandi Broussard said…
Dear Steacy, I know that you are looking for someone who understands the way you feel. I probably do. My mom was brutally robbed, beaten, and stabbed 19 times 3 months ago. All of the emotions that you feel are perfectly normal. I am on a roller coaster of emotions every single day. Don't suppress the feelings you have, after all, you cannot help the way you feel. I miss my mom so much, not only for me, but for my 5 year old daughter. They were very close. It is the hardest thing that I have ever been through and it hurts today just like it did that horrible day.
 
 
 

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