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It’s not a quick read, but grief takes time. I wrote it for those of us who will miss someone this holiday season. Happy Holidays! Peace & Blessings, Sofia
http://www.sofiawellman.com/grief-is-a-beast/…
Added by Sofia A. Wellman on December 21, 2014 at 5:30pm — 2 Comments
A note fell out onto the carpet today, and it was left behind by my mother, it reads, “when we focus all our time on grief, we lost out on our present and our future; instead of dwelling on what we are losing, focus on what we still have” I felt like I was receiving a sign from my mother that I should not dwell in my grief at all times. It makes sense my mother wrote it, because she lived her life fully till the end.
Being diagnosed with stage four cancer did not subvert my…
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My identity is intertwined with being a good daughter to my mother because she sacrificed everything to me and her selflessness is what motivated to go on living. My mother was an immigrant who left her family and her role as a housewife to come to Canada and provide a better future for her children. After the divorce, she worked harder than anyone else I know in order to provide a life for myself and my brother. She had no choice but to be strong and determined without a husband…
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On January 31, 2014 my partner of eight years had an argument because she had been cheating on me and I was DONE. During the night she was restless and kept waking me up wanting to know where my phone was or where the charger was. Then she said "You're gonna learn." She was alive when I left Saturday morning. She had written a note but my anger and hurt from her betrayal blinded me to the contents of the letter. I wrote her a letter back telling her to go be happy. I assumed she would be…
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The strangest thing happened to me a few days ago. I went out for a walk on my own, a rare occurrence as I usually have my two little people with me. But this day I was alone. I strode off out of my gate and along the waterfront where I live. A moment or two passed when I realised how tall I seemed. I felt like I was walking on a cloud. Somehow I felt elevated. I wondered if it was simply because I wasn't pushing the buggy and looking down at the…
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When Lily died I missed her with all my heart and soul; but I wasn't lonely. I still had my husband. Our conversations filled in some of the gaps in my life that being without Lily left behind.
Recently, however, I have been without my husband. I still have Summer and Riley to play with…
ContinueAdded by Erica Farrimond on December 20, 2013 at 2:18am — 2 Comments
I am having a challenging time with a specific person in my life right now. Amidst all my preparation for Christmas I need to deal with this person who it feels wants to drag me down as low as he is feeling! I have been trying to focus on all the amazing support and love I have been receiving from my special friends here on this page (thank you again). I have been trying to not take it personally, to just feel sorry for him and the pain he is feeling but today it got the better of me and…
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It has not even been a week since her passing and today being a holiday to spend with family and loved ones giving thanks for ones blessings... As I sit in my home alone reflecting on my life and my many losses I can cry a river of tears and easily feel the need to retreat to a dark place . I am not gonna let myself do that ... My mother , all my grandparents, brother, aunts, uncle ,cousins, friends and beloved pets who have passed on would not want that for me.
Sure I let myself…
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Beginning with Completion presents:
The Possibility of Grief without Suffering: A roundtable discussion before a live audience on alleviating emotional pain while coping with loss.
A panel of experts practicing a spectrum of emotional, spiritual and artistic healing techniques will address the big question: By clearing away chronic complaints, grudges and past injuries – how can we make room for forgiveness, reconciliation…
ContinueAdded by Nancy Gershman on September 6, 2012 at 12:30pm — No Comments
Today just take 5 minutes at a time.
Today remember to breath.
Change is an adjustment.
Allow yourself time to process.
Write your feelings it helps.
Remember good memories, that make you smile.
Drink sleepy time teas to help you sleep.
Drink water to replace the tears you have cried.
Listen to nature, she can give you answers.
With love to you, Coach Louise …
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We all want to be happy! Mad can sound harsh, but in actuality, feeling upset, in a bad mood, or depression all have roots in being mad. It is nothing to be ashamed of because actually it is normal, as we all have felt mad at one time or another.
Most of us will experience a crisis or loss in our lifetime, and how we learn to deal with it, will determine our future happiness and success.
Grief - loss has so many…
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Lets face it grief, as we know it is no fun. However if we change the meaning of grief, maybe we could change the feeling.
G- Stands for being grateful for our life and the time we have with our love ones living and the time we had with our love ones who have…
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Added by cate marie on August 7, 2010 at 7:33pm — 1 Comment
Life is getting easier, now that I've come to terms with the fact that I've still got one. My kids are coping, and I'm coping. We've started picking up the pieces by just bending over and doing it!
I've got school and employment in the pipeline, I've started repairing my credit so we can someday buy a house. I've started reinstating my authority with my children and acting as head of household. We have our bills paid, we have food in the kitchen, and we have lots of time in…
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