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Monica G.
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This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.
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- About Me:
- Well what can I say...I am a very open-minded down to earth person. I have a very big heart and love my family and friends. I enjoy gardening, antiques, movies and much more. If you want to know anything further just let me know.
- About my Loss:
- I just lost my mom Aug. 1st from cancer. My mom was my best friend and right now Im feeling so many things. My mom had breast cancer a few years back did all her treatments and then became cancer free for a couple of years. We then found out that the breast cancer had come back but this time in her bones she once again started her treatments and seemed to be doing good. Her last scan resuts which she got on July 28th showed the cancer has spread into her liver and the doctor only gave her weeks to live. On Wend she was admitted into Hospice and I was there. Her eyes looked yellow and her stomach was bloated. I could see so many changes...it was so hard. Thurs morning when I entered her room she was having issues talking due to stuff in her throat I looked my mom in her eyes and said "I love you Mom" and she looked me right back and said "I love you to". Those were the last words I heard from her. She layed in her bed in a sleep state until Sat afternoon I held my moms hand as she took her last breath. I had just taken my mom on a trip to New Orleans in June she hadnt been on a vacation since i was a kid and Im 33 yrs old. I drove us the entire way there. We had a wonderful time and I knew in my heart this would be the last trip my mom would make with me but pushed it to the back of my mind. I wish I could go back to that trip and freeze time...she felt so good while we were there and she was so happy. Im glad I could give her this gift. I just miss my mom and I don't feel like I will ever be the same person again. I feel alone even though Im not. I just hope that one day I will see her again.
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I love my Dad.
79 members
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Losing Someone to Cancer
56 members
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Traumatic, Sudden Loss
54 members
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I miss my Mom!
48 members
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Missing my Son or Daug…
47 members
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Multiple Losses Group
29 members
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I Miss My Parent(s)
21 members
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Tattoo Memorial
18 members
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Caylee Marie Anthony
18 members
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mY sOuLmAtE, mY bEsTfRiE…
15 members
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Lost Without My Mom
15 members
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Orphaned Adults
9 members
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for loved ones who have…
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Missing Michael Jackson
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Losing a Sister
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I lost my mother on February 9, 2010 to a cardiac arrest. She was my best friend. I was blessed to be born on Mother's Day. This year is going to be the hardest birthday. It falls on mothers day this year so i made plans to go on a vacation with my…
My mom died, August 17, 2009 of an apparent heart attack from heart failure. Her doctors never told me how sick she was and so I was blown away and am heart sick and lost without her.
I lost my mom a month ago. She was my best friend she passed away unexpectedly to a cardiac arrest.my grandmother my moms mother found her at 6am. I was blessed to have been born on Mother's Day which unfortunately for me this year my birthday falls…
If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
This weekend will be one year since my dad died, i haven't been on here in a while. I've been getting really down alot recently, and also angry. I can feel myself taking my anger out on my mum, and i know i shouldn't. I want to stop myself but i can…
Rachel, I have had two suicides, the first was in 2006 my youngest son shot himself, Then in Feb of 2010 my Grandson Hung himself. So this very fresh in my mind. To answer your question. To support your friend Just be there for her and Listen but do…
if you have lost someone by suicide post your thoughts here.
Jennifer - please don't feel guilty that you were taken in by your ex. So often the people we think we know turn out to be complete strangers and worse. I'm certain that you would have protected him had you any idea of what was going on. I'm so sorr…
I never in a million years thought I would be sitting here writing about the murder of my 2 yr old son.As Im sitting here my heart is broken because we are supposed to be gone before our kids.I dont even know how to put into words the pain I am feel…
My 2 yr old was brutally murdered on April 22,2009 by my ex-boyfriend.A person who me and my kids love and trusted.He used that to kill my son and sometimes I feel so guilty beccause I didnt protect my son.I told him no one would ever hurt him and n…
For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.
He was 38 years old. Not overweight really, but an everyday smoker. Never saw that coming. Him, me, none of us. You just dont think its possible to die of a heart attack at 38. Just a little clot in a coronary artery, thats all it takes. Its so unre…
After losing my father after a very lengthy illness i too lost my dog. Your writing is beautiful and inspirational. I am sorry that you feel such pain. My father left us piece by piece and I understand the numbness that goes along with loss. Did you…
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To One In Sorrow
Let me come in where you are weeping, friend,
And let me take your hand.
I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, can understand.
Let me come in--I would be very still beside you in your grief;
I would not bid you cease your weeping, friend,
Tears bring relief. Let me come in--and hold your hand,
For I have known a sorrow such as yours, And understand.
-Grace Noll Crowell
And let me take your hand.
I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, can understand.
Let me come in--I would be very still beside you in your grief;
I would not bid you cease your weeping, friend,
Tears bring relief. Let me come in--and hold your hand,
For I have known a sorrow such as yours, And understand.
-Grace Noll Crowell
The Light Beyond
Bereavement Overload - Coping With Multiple Losses
9VCNMPFYEMUA How can anyone cope with the death of more than one family member when those deaths occur in a short period of time? What happens to the person who is grieving the death of a loved one, then loses a job, and has to move from their home or apartment because of financial conditions? Multiple losses occur more frequently than most people realize and they can complicate the mourning process. To begin with, it...7 powerful ways to deal with grief
An interesting article just came in from the singer and songwriter Barbara Lewis, and I though it was so helpful to those coping with the loss of a loved one that I am reproducing it here: As a long-time performer - singer/songwriter - many events from my private life have appeared in songs. When my brother took his own life, and many years later, when my beloved husband of thirty years suddenly died, I brought...How to find the perfect funeral poem
Reading poems at a funeral can provide comfort to those who are suffering from the the loss of a loved one. Poets have the gift of being able to use words to give expression to the most sublime sentiments of the heart, and many of the most famous poets in history have used their talents to write about death and dying. Some poems about death can be dark, with emphasis on the misery of the...Losing my wife during child birth and looking after my 4 young children
My name is Steve Carter and I live in Glengormley Northern Ireland. I am writing to you today to tell you my story about my lovely wife and my fantastic children. I find writing this helps me through the heart ache and pain that I have suffered over the last 10 months. This is my story... I met my wife Denise while we were both travelling around the world. I was on my sixth year...Grief recovery course in Surrey, UK
February 15-19 LIVING WITH LOSS A gentle, nurturing week-long course for anyone who has lost a loved one, not necessarily by death. We will look at ways to cope with grief and explore the paradox of letting go while staying connected and forging continuing bonds. Facilitators are Frances Crampton and Elizabeth Brown, both trained counsellors and healers and members of Quaker Retreat Group. We work in Claridge House at Lingfield in Surrey, a Quaker healing...Badge
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I'm so sorry about your mom. I'm still having difficulties accepting that my dad is gone. We were best friends and spent all our time together. It just doesn't seem possible that such a huge part of my life could be gone.
If you ever need to talk about anything, please don't hesitate to post or email. I've found that it really helps me. I'll also pray for you and your mom.
-Cat
Sincerely,
Laura