"Nora,
Our group is run through Kaiser and we meet every week. It helps. I am actually thinking about individual counseling as well. Today was a really rough day. I do know I have to come to work. Working from home I just want to…"
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in honor of my loving husband and best friend
Started by leslie-ann smith May 3, 2015.
Tattoos for my son 1 Reply
Started by Michelle Hill. Last reply by Michelle Hill Apr 8, 2015.
My memorial tattoo for my mom and brother
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Comment by Linda Engberg on December 11, 2015 at 6:48am -
Beautiful Tatoo
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Comment by Davi Burford on December 11, 2015 at 12:41am -
Monday marked the 2 year anniversary of the night my forever 16 yr old son gained his angel wings..... I went and got his skateboard turned into an awesome piece of art
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Comment by Rosie G on November 26, 2015 at 1:08pm -
I had this tattoo done in loving memory of my daughter Monica. I designed it myself, a panda with a pink bow and a heart shaped nose, with a pink flower and the letter M.
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Comment by Lauri Richards on November 23, 2015 at 9:23am -
I had this done for my soul mate, my lover and my best friend. :-(
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Comment by Tildyc on November 21, 2015 at 11:26pm -
Is this a closed group? I have some ink I would love to share. But can't seem down load my pictures of my tatts on here, perhaps I'm doing it wrong??? Any advise or response would be appreciated. Thnx!
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Comment by Sara Schwartztrauber on November 21, 2015 at 4:42am -
In the 38 years we were together, my husband would usually just sign all of the cards he got me "love Jim". When I lost him, I was reading all of the cards again, and one anniversary card was a little different, it said "I love you, Jim" so I took that card to the tat shop and had Andy, our amazing artist, copy it. Now, my husband telling me he loves me, will be with me always.
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Comment by Linda Engberg on November 16, 2015 at 6:01am
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Comment by Cherilyn Bertges on June 25, 2015 at 12:23pm -
Just got this for Dad. (excuse the shiny salve) His name was Leland and he taught me my first guitar cords, gave me his guitar to learn on, and spent hours recording my music. :*(
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Comment by Tildyc on June 13, 2015 at 11:20pm
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Damn didn't work. Could somebody please tell me how to post pictures off my iPhone onto here?
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Comment by Tildyc on June 13, 2015 at 8:44pm
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He was a commercial fisherman and this was my nick name for him.
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Lost with out him replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."Hi Nora:
I have been thinking about you and getting a job. How is that going? I think I remember you saying that you had to leave your job because they did not give you enough time off when your husband died? Of course I do not want to over step…"
Nora replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."Kim,
How often do you have meetings?
I found a group but they only meet eery 3 weeks. I am not sure yet.
Thank you for sharing your daughter's experience. Steve's daughter was really grieving at the beginning but now she only…"
KIM Montgomery replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."Yes, that is exactly how I feel."
KIM Montgomery replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."Went to the 2nd session of support group. Grief is grief and hurts no matter what the loss. It hurts, you feel alone. I have learned one thing from group is we are not alone. There are 2 different groups those that are…"
Jean replied to Darlene's discussion My grief has made me feel numb from the neck down, has anyone else felt this?"I had that feeling when my nephew called me and told me his brother had killed himself one year after my brother (their father) died. It was a weird sensation I have never felt before. From the top of my head all the way to my feet just a rush of ?…"
Nora replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."Kim, ladies,
I just found some thought that actually explains how I feel now:
Sounds familiar? Grieving and trying to be nice, crying and smiling to look nice next minute...
It is a great movie anyway - watch when you can."
Nora replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."Thank you, Jackie.
Those horrible panic attacks just visit us often. Suddenly the whole world is turning black and no oxygen anymore.
Jackie, I accept you as acting Steve - I hope he does not mind - and I really appreciate your support - I know you…"
AnneJ replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."Hi, Kim. Please don't feel sorry about discussing different topics; it's how our minds work and your words are a comfort to so many. Just knowing someone feels the same, hurts the same, has the same inner voice... the empty bed, the…"
KIM Montgomery replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."I try not come on here in the early morning as I start work early so I can go home early. That was my routine. We would get up in the morning, have a cup of coffee and I would go off to work. I looked forward to going home a little…"
Jackie cooke replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."Nora, you are a beautiful women with a beautiful heart. Steve loved you very much but remember you were a success before you met him and not because of him. We need to give ourselves time to grieve it's only been 3 months, who knows if we will…"
Nora posted a status"Hi, Pumpkin! 3 months without you today. Started looking for a job. I know you are proud of me now. But it is so hard without you. Love""
Nora replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."Ladies, I just had one more pain caused by simple actions that I even did not pay attention to before.
Well, I sat to start looking for a job. It was already hard as I have a "meeting people & leaving the house" anxiety. Also, it…"
Lost with out him replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."I too feel exactly as everyone here has discribed it. Four months in.. Lost the love of my life. I feeling like the walking dead.. I function because I am expected to. I go to work because I haven't any choice. I have to sell my house.( for…"
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Having a glass of wine for my mom tonight and trying to wrap my head around the fact that she's been gone for a year. A whole year. A year without daily emails just so I'd wake up to an email every morning. A year without daily Skype chats just to catch up even though nothing much ever changed. A year without an e-card for every random holiday. A year without hearing about the dumb things my dad was or wasn't doing. A year without my best friend. A year without my mom.See More
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I am the producer of a nationally televised crime docu-series. I am currently developing a new series focusing on unsolved cold cases, where the perpetrator is known but remains uncharged, many times because they are already in prison for life for another crime. That should not deter anyone else from getting justice. We will bring in outside, independent cold case detectives to rework cases to see if we can help. The series will underscore the hope, strength and tenacity of the families and…See More
morgan replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."I really hate to reply to this thread as I am four years and almost five months into the loss of the love of my life and I can hardly stand the roller coaster I am on. I am careening off the tracks "again" and I come here to reassure…"
KIM Montgomery replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."Thank you all for the kind support here. It does help. I too feel lost at time. This morning I was up at 3:30 watching TV; my alarm goes off at 4:45, no sense in trying to go back to sleep. Like some one else said on here, my…"
Jackie cooke replied to KIM Montgomery's discussion Missing my Best Friend in the group Lost My Spouse..."Hi Kim, your not alone, as Nora's says every word you say matches how I feel. I have lost my best friend, soul mate, partner, my lover. Now I'm alone with my dog and cat. OVer 70 people and the funeral but none of them ring or call. People…"
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