"Well, the finality of it all has set in;recieved my hunni's ashes and death cert finally from Alaska.He's been gone 9 weeks. Im no longer angry,im moving towards finding a happy medium, didnt have the luxery of laying around in defeat,have…"
"They are as lost as we are. They don't know what to do or say. They mean well but don't realize the are being offensive. You can't move on until YOU are ready. I don't think the hurt or lose ever leaves us but it eases off as the…"
I never thought that I would be a widow in my forties. My friends can't relate and feel the need to comment on everything, even if they have no experience with grief. I know they mean well but only we know what we are going though.See More
"Hello everyone,I'm new to the group,am so sorry for everyone's loss. I am finding we all deal with things the best we can, there isn't a right or wrong way to grieve,it's all very personal. I lost my hunni 8 weeks ago tommorrow…"
I'm 42.raising a 3yo moving thru stages of this sudden loss,am doing fairly well all things considered, am a very strong person with a zest for life,I didn't curl into a ball of emotion,I picked myself up and am doing the best I can with moving forward
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My fiance lost his life due to suicide nearly 8 weeks ago.He apologized,said he loved me, grabbed the shotgun and ended everything in front of me and our toddler
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They are as lost as we are. They don't know what to do or say. They mean well but don't realize the are being offensive. You can't move on until YOU are ready. I don't think the hurt or lose ever leaves us but it eases off as the years go. You can't not let yourself be happy with the life you have left and your child needs someone in there life also.
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My mother had a stroke in October of 2015. She changed over night due to the aphasia and brain damage. She was a new person, half of who she once was. I began grieving my mother in October. I turned of all emotion and detached myself during the caregiving. It was just way too hard for me to deal with her conditions and my father's emotions. My family are gifted with abilities, mine was empathy and third sight. Most may not believe in that stuff, but it is more than real to me due to years of…See More
"Jamie - I am so so sorry for your losses. Some of my multiple losses have included sudden, unexpected deaths too & they can be the most difficult ones sometimes. I found journaling to be of comfort. I was able to write my…"
Hello everyone. I'm new to this site.I lost my grandfather in June of 2017. A few weeks later, my grandmother passed away. My grandmother and I were very close. She was more of a mother to me than a grandmother. It was very hard on me. Only three months after the death of my grandma, on December 18th of 2017, my father passed away very suddenly and unexpectedly. I never got to say goodbye. I lost the three most important people in my life within a few short months and I am having a very hard…See More
I am creating this site for the many of us who have suffered several losses. I lost my mom, dad, grandma(2nd mom), grandpa, my beloved dog and divorce.Many of us have lost more than one person or event.Come share!See More
"My mom died on February 25, 2017. She had a stroke a year and half that rendered her paralyzed and she had aphasia. I was her caregiver. It was extremely impossible to stomach seeing my mother constantly in pain. My nerves and mental state was gone…"
"Not sure why I didn't get a notice about your post. I always try to respond promptly. As it is, I got a notification for a post I can't find, so.... In a little less than 4 months it will 2 yrs since I had my soul shredded. I'm…"
"Can't imagine what your feeling ..I just lost my mother 12-1- 17..please talk to someone that can help you..maybe even a pastor..go to church. .if you don't go at least pray..pray for strength and comfort..give yourself time to feel…"
Tomorrow, it'll be one year since Shelby died. No matter how things seem at any given time, the darkness has set in. i just can't shake it. i've continued having physical issues going on, and haven't been able to get in to see the doctor, yet--my appointment is for Monday. i'm tired of trying to keep going. i still haven't even begun to work on the planning of Shelby's going away party, yet, either. *sigh At this point, my hope is that once i can get straightened out, or at least find out…See More