ALEXIS
  • Farmington, IL
  • United States
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ALEXIS is now friends with Brenda Ann and Michael Thompson
yesterday
ALEXIS commented on Katherine Ellis's group Losing Someone to Cancer
"Hi Michael, I can definitely relate to feeling lost. It has been a little over 2 months since I lost my husband to complications from treatment for acute myeloid leukemia. I mostly feel numb and like a part of me is missing. I go to work, have…"
Oct 29, 2018
ALEXIS commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Linda and Bluebird I have been feeling the same way.  At work I am getting in all sorts of holiday items and it is hard for me to look at it or think of the holidays.  This will be my first without my husband.  I'm not quite sure…"
Oct 18, 2018
ALEXIS replied to Becky Meche's discussion feeling all alone
"Becky, I cannot know what you are feeling right now. I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know how I would function if I lost my daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Alexis"
Oct 5, 2018
Corinne C. Rico left a comment for ALEXIS
"Alexis I am so sorry for your loss, I thought I was a young widow until I read your profile.  There seems to be quite a few passings related to unforeseen complications.  It makes me very upset and scared for other people.  My…"
Oct 4, 2018
ALEXIS commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Linda, I am currently reading that book and am finding it to be helpful. I feel like I can identify with the author and appreciate the fact that she acknowledges that this sucks. Alexis"
Sep 27, 2018
ALEXIS joined Jon-Paul Ackerman's group
Sep 25, 2018
ALEXIS joined Katherine Ellis's group
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Losing Someone to Cancer

This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.See More
Sep 25, 2018
ALEXIS replied to Jim Horvath's discussion How do people find something positive every day after the loss of their spouse?
"Jim, I am also new to this group and to this experience. I lost my husband of 20 years a little over a month ago. I too worry about how to be there four our 19 yr old daughter. As far as how to find something positive each day, that is challenging.…"
Sep 25, 2018
ALEXIS is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Sep 25, 2018

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About Me:
I am 42 years old. I have a 19 year old daughter.
About my Loss:
My husband passed away a month ago from complications related to treatment from acute myeloud leukemia. We had been married for just over 20 years but had been together for almost 25 years. His death was a bit of a shock because his cancer was in remission and he had been doing good up until a couple months before he died.
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At 12:44pm on October 4, 2018, Corinne C. Rico said…

Alexis I am so sorry for your loss, I thought I was a young widow until I read your profile.  There seems to be quite a few passings related to unforeseen complications.  It makes me very upset and scared for other people.  My husbands infection would not respond to antibiotics, who even knew that this was a possibility in this day and age?  And your husband being in remission and doing well prior must have left you speechless.  I am having a hard time getting through a day, I decided to just strive for an hour at a time.  Our daughter is 14 and she is just...angry, all the time.  She thinks I should have stopped crying by now.  I hope your daughter since she is a bit older is offering you the support you need.  God bless and be well.

 

 
 
 

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ALEXIS is now friends with Brenda Ann and Michael Thompson
yesterday
Karolien joined Karen's group
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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
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Karolien updated their profile
yesterday
Lynn Williams commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Thinking of everyone here with love"
yesterday
Connie K commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"It's been so long since I've been here. Somehow I don't get notifications anymore. And from November til after y sin' birthday March 31 I just want to run away and disengage with the world. But I think of you all and send you…"
yesterday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"I envy people also Brett that have a loving support system to help them through what we are going through. God is love and he wants us to be compassionate and kind, and he will always be by our side. I believe that"
yesterday
Holly Baldwin joined Jon-Paul Ackerman's group
yesterday
Holly Baldwin is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Monday
joe kelly replied to Jade Rogers's discussion Hi!
"Dear Jade, I wish I had some advice for you because when I sign in, I notice that you often sign in I guess to check if anything new has been posted.  Being lonely after losing your Love after so many years together is a major part of all who…"
Monday
Dennis C. and Virginia G are now friends
Monday
Virginia G replied to Pamela philipp's discussion Defeated
"I feel the same.  The website doesn’t help because we aren’t talking and around people in person.  That isn’t even enough when people are willing to talk and most don’t have time for me."
Monday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"You are right. I became conditioned with my mom. Every health crisis that my mom would have was traumatic for me. And then there would be that ray of light. I would have mom safe at home once again. I developed some false hope. But as time passed…"
Monday
M Adams commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Baby steps is such a good metaphor — I think when we’ve been traumatized by terrible loss, many of us lose our resilience, and basically have to baby ourselves, setting very tiny goals and challenges, slowly working our way forward.…"
Sunday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Theresa, it's hard for me to be positive about anything. I always feel like something bad is right around the corner. That's because every time I thought mom was safe and had cleared another hurdle, something else would go wrong. It's…"
Saturday
joe kelly commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"It's been a little bit since I shared but it seems like I'm just stuck, out of sync with everything included myself in a way.  It's been like one long endless day.  I don't know how to explain it even.  I'm…"
Saturday
Linda Engberg commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"Monty, For some of us, we will always remain out of sync with the rest of world. We, like myself. live in our own universe."
Saturday
Theresa commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Brett you are right that is the "dark" side, it scares me too That is so great about the phone call from the directors at the center, that must have made you feel like a million bucks.   You are making a positive impact, I know…"
Saturday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Avi, I actually looked up the EquoVox. I couldn't find an English link for it. I'll keep looking. I'm just really curious how it works. And I want you to make your own decisions. I just want you to be happy."
Saturday
Brett Bowman commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"M, I'm half Catholic, and Theresa is 100% Catholic. This is a huge part of Catholicism. Ouiji boards just scare the crap out of me. I listened to a lecture series from a Vatican exorcists. There was a question and answer period. Someone asked…"
Saturday

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