Connie,
I was thinking about you today and just wanted to say hi and I hope your doing ok,,,,, it has now been two years this week and it still doesn't seen true or right.... The other boy still hasn't contacted me to even say sorry for what he has done to me or my family...how horrible to not man up to such a bad mistake...I miss my son more every day ... Just to hear or see him again... He was great.... I did see a few of his friends on the date and they are kinda moving forward but I see their pain also...I hope you are well..
Hugs, Michelle
Our children are a part of us and it hurts to know others are being reckless and a total disregard for another persons precious life. The driver is here and alive. As the girl my son was with is still here and yes she was reckless too. It often makes us angry, and here that don't sound selfish...just human
What a remarkable person you are. And, how tuned in to the spiritual. You are an inspiration. Please join us in the evenings on Chat, there is a member there going thru the very same loss, and it would be helpful to both of you to share.
Connie.. I lost my son in a car accident in Dec 2011..I can understand ur pain as I also just want my sweetheart to walk in a grin n say howdy ... he was in dubai where he was working in gulf petrochem-- imagine 6 of then were getting back from luunch , the car was being driven by his friend-- all were friends, it skidded and his friend pressed the accelerator instead of the brake and the car turned turtle 3, 4 times and i lost my baby on the spot -- another senior colleague also dies and the other 4 were unhurt... god's way ... he took the bestest boy a mom could have-- leater i read somewhere -- god did not take ... he received them-- so send him love all the time and i feel connected to him every single minute-- you take care and love to u and ur family..
Connie i feel your pain,i to lost a son to cancer i didn't even know he had he was gone in 2 weeks i read his autopsy report and cried the cancer was rare cure rate was 37% not good odds he was a wonderful beautiful boy or should i say man but mentally he was 15.i too miss him so it never goes away it don't get easier but i too believe god had a plan for my son i to am in end stages of my sickness and worried alot about who would care for him,i believe god help in my decision,i would of done any thing to take his place cause i was sicker i thought but Connie just know the love you shared will always be there no one can take that away god be with you in your time of need
It will be 6 months soon.....Nothing changed..My son still will not come home..Everyone moving on without him. They forgot his part-time jobs. They meaning people forgot what color truck he drove. They forgot how nice he was and helpful. Now...Everyone forgot but me and his Daddy...sisters, immediate family member...He was not famous to anyone but US,,,,,,My only son..sometimes I am angry that he left the house that day.
Connie, My only child died at the age 23 on January 22 2013, I miss him so much and the pain is indescribable. I feel like I can't go on anymore and people just don't understand. I am so sorry for your loss as I know what you are going thru.
Connie I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my only son, Zach, Sept. 3rd, 2011 in a tragic accident, he fell from a waterfall. My main advice to you is just take things one day at a time, one second at a time. I can't think about tomorrow but I can do this minute. One thing that helped me is knowing that there were so many people out there praying for me and my family, and who continue to pray for us.I really don't think I would have been able to go on without those prayers. I continue to ask God for help, for I know that I can't do this alone. I am here for you any time. You are in my prayers. Hugs. Robin
Hi Connie. I just want to check in on you and lift you up in love and comfort. Let us know how you're doing. I'm hanging in here... still in shock. But I'm still here.
Connie, first of all what a beautiful young man.....I am so sorry to hear about your loss .... To me it is so unreal and painful to say loss it's just a horrible word... My son also loved to make music within weeks of the accident , my son and his friends had finally named their band and had taken pictures which I saw after the fact,,, he was so pure a week before he had taken a friend to a pawn shop to ask him to help pick out a good bass guitar to get ( he didn't really play bass) but he played everything he had four guitars drums keyboards and violin anyways they found a really nice one and later that night he bought it and gave it to that friend for his birthday ...he took all his paycheck and then some...he loved sports he was also on the basketball team four all of his years in high school... He did tutoring after school in fact he and his friends started the program....he was in the gifted programs since first grade ... He was my angel....now it is extremely hard to talk about him , I miss him so much..,,I am so sorry to hear of your loss because I do understand..,,it has been a year it feels like yesterday,,,text me anytime if you just need an ear .....Michelle
I am so sorry for loss as words cannot really help with your pain and suffer. But do know this, many of us have been on the dark side of a loss and most us have made it through the suffering. I can only offer you words of sympathy.
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I was thinking about you today and just wanted to say hi and I hope your doing ok,,,,, it has now been two years this week and it still doesn't seen true or right.... The other boy still hasn't contacted me to even say sorry for what he has done to me or my family...how horrible to not man up to such a bad mistake...I miss my son more every day ... Just to hear or see him again... He was great.... I did see a few of his friends on the date and they are kinda moving forward but I see their pain also...I hope you are well..
Hugs, Michelle
Connie will light a candle for Daniel from Theodore, Alabama 36582. We are Central Time here. Currently it is 10:48 pm
Thank you for becoming a friend I appreciate it very much. Judy Edwards
Our children are a part of us and it hurts to know others are being reckless and a total disregard for another persons precious life. The driver is here and alive. As the girl my son was with is still here and yes she was reckless too. It often makes us angry, and here that don't sound selfish...just human
Thank you for the song. I enjoyed it Connie. Sure we shared the hard tears as we listen and missed our son's.
Dear Connie:
What a remarkable person you are. And, how tuned in to the spiritual. You are an inspiration. Please join us in the evenings on Chat, there is a member there going thru the very same loss, and it would be helpful to both of you to share.
May God give you strength today,
Martha
Thank You Connie, I just dont know what to do, I dont think I can get though this.. :(
Connie.. I lost my son in a car accident in Dec 2011..I can understand ur pain as I also just want my sweetheart to walk in a grin n say howdy ... he was in dubai where he was working in gulf petrochem-- imagine 6 of then were getting back from luunch , the car was being driven by his friend-- all were friends, it skidded and his friend pressed the accelerator instead of the brake and the car turned turtle 3, 4 times and i lost my baby on the spot -- another senior colleague also dies and the other 4 were unhurt... god's way ... he took the bestest boy a mom could have-- leater i read somewhere -- god did not take ... he received them-- so send him love all the time and i feel connected to him every single minute-- you take care and love to u and ur family..
Connie i feel your pain,i to lost a son to cancer i didn't even know he had he was gone in 2 weeks i read his autopsy report and cried the cancer was rare cure rate was 37% not good odds he was a wonderful beautiful boy or should i say man but mentally he was 15.i too miss him so it never goes away it don't get easier but i too believe god had a plan for my son i to am in end stages of my sickness and worried alot about who would care for him,i believe god help in my decision,i would of done any thing to take his place cause i was sicker i thought but Connie just know the love you shared will always be there no one can take that away god be with you in your time of need
It will be 6 months soon.....Nothing changed..My son still will not come home..Everyone moving on without him. They forgot his part-time jobs. They meaning people forgot what color truck he drove. They forgot how nice he was and helpful. Now...Everyone forgot but me and his Daddy...sisters, immediate family member...He was not famous to anyone but US,,,,,,My only son..sometimes I am angry that he left the house that day.
Connie, My only child died at the age 23 on January 22 2013, I miss him so much and the pain is indescribable. I feel like I can't go on anymore and people just don't understand. I am so sorry for your loss as I know what you are going thru.
Connie,
I am so sorry about your son. I believe God has a plan for every one of us. Your son taught you what while he was here? Sue
Connie I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my only son, Zach, Sept. 3rd, 2011 in a tragic accident, he fell from a waterfall. My main advice to you is just take things one day at a time, one second at a time. I can't think about tomorrow but I can do this minute. One thing that helped me is knowing that there were so many people out there praying for me and my family, and who continue to pray for us.I really don't think I would have been able to go on without those prayers. I continue to ask God for help, for I know that I can't do this alone. I am here for you any time. You are in my prayers. Hugs. Robin
Hi Connie. I just want to check in on you and lift you up in love and comfort. Let us know how you're doing. I'm hanging in here... still in shock. But I'm still here.
Connie,
I am so sorry for loss as words cannot really help with your pain and suffer. But do know this, many of us have been on the dark side of a loss and most us have made it through the suffering. I can only offer you words of sympathy.
Take care,
David
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