hi i just wanted to know how things went in court yesturday i hope that your ok

how are you ok hun i hope everything went good for you just know you are in my prayers and my thoughts are with you

good luck at court today i really hope u get the justice you and your mother deserve

I will be Praying hard for you sweetie!! please know you are not alone there i may not be there in person ,but in spirit. God Be with you I know he will

I know honey I want my Mama back to so very much,I feel like this is all a nightmare and hope i will wake up ,thank for everything you have told me me you dont know how you have helped me,I pray that we all get accountabilty from those who took our prescious mothers and our love ones ,and pray that God will Give us all that peace that passes all understanding , for with out it i cant make it ,i can't stand to wake up when i finally do go to sleep as you said everday it seems to get harder instead of easier, I am here if you need me to listen or be a souding board thank you again sweetie! hugs

i ment my mom's current boyfriend found then

i was so furious that i even said out of anger that she should be with her son and i no it was wrong to say be she is a horrible person and no wonder her son did the things that he did. then i found out like a couple of weeks later her other son's wife did in a car accident and i read what she put on face book and she was like"im sad about what happened to her but im glad my son and grandaughter are ok thanks to the other son watching over him" but the way she wrote it like it didnt even bother her you know what i mean she is just a really sick person

thats what makes it so hard knowing that there wont be ant justice because he was to much off a coward to face us no t just me and my brother but my intire family. i really think that if he didnt kill himself someone would have killed him because my current boyfriend found them dead and it tramatized him so bad and he says it til this day he would have killed if he was still around. but it just hurts because the guys family has no remorse not even im sorry about what happened. she disconnected my phone and my mothers phone because we were all in a family plan still with the guy and thats the only thing that still had my mothers voice in the voice mail and it erased. then she would sent texts from the guys phone saying if you recieved this message i have just killed wanda(my mom) and she sent it to my brother who was the one that was the worst because he is the closest toboth of them

im just 21 she died 11 days before my 21 birthday and my brother is 23 but i had to take charge of the situation. im the one who had to choose the funeral place if she was gonna be cremated, i took all the stuff out of her apartment, i had to tell everyone what happened to her and i only had one week off work and had to go back to work because i have a kid and i had to take care of myson so for that first month almost i couldnt even cry but i was in so much pain and i didnt know how to let it out. then finally when everything settled down i just got so depress and i couldnt stop crying i cudnt get my feelings in order i just didnt know how to fuction and i just moved out of her house when i was pregnant so i felt like i should i do where would i go if something bad happened with me and my sons father i dont have no family and it was the worst feeling ive ever felt

its unbelievable. people only care when it happens to them you know. but when it happens to someone else its like tough luck people just dont care anymore and its so sad i just dont understand why people act that way. my mom always taught me to treat others how you would like to be treated but i guess that went down the drain along time ago. thefunny thing is that the guy that killed my mom i never liked him since he came into my mothers life and i was 13 and we never got alone but for some reason when my mom broke up with him i felt really sorry for him i use to talk to him tell him to give my mom some space that maybe with time she would go back to him but he just wasnt hearing anything anyone said and i really tried to help him. and for my brother he saw the guy as a father figure and his best friendand for him after all that to betray us that way it hurt so much

i know whatu mean i think about it all the time i have all my moms stuff in my house her clothes and its so hard. my son just turned 1 and my son and my nefew were her first grand kids and they are only two months appart and i get sad because my mom didnt even get a chance to enjoy them and she was so happy and the guy that killed her his mother was like she deserved it and that im a bitch like my mother and im the one who told her, her son was dead even after everything i didnt owe her nothing but since i just became a parent i know how crazy if no one told me if something happen to my son. and on top of that all his friends trat him like he is a saint and they act like they dont care that he killed someone and thats where my angrer comes in

tHANK HUN i miss her so much but all i see is her body torn and that driver saying i didnt see her there was an is no way she couldnt see her and the fact that she wasnt going to stop just wont leave my mind i thank you for what you said so very much

thanks for your thoughts. sometimes i feel sorry for myself because i can't get the image of when i found dad out of my head, and maybe other people don't go thru stuff like that. but they do and God helps heal us all. your story with your mom is powerful. i admire your strength.

Kandi, thank you and I am sorry for the loss of your parents.

Kim, My heart feels such sadness with your sharing. Your world I know is truly empty in so many ways. Hopefully that precious little girl in the picture is yours to shed many moments of love and laughter with during this trying time. I too am so beside myself. I lost a sister to cancer long ago, my dad long ago and my mom a few years back and NOW the love of my life instantly gone is paralyzing my soul and spirit. I now have three death certificates to cry over and lots of pictures to treasure and just struggle with the desire to continue. I was always the one everyone told that I helped them get through the rough times...now I am lost and cry unrelentlessly. I guess when God closes a one ANOTHER door no matter how hard it slams, a window of hope will open...so it is said. Prayers to you friend.

unbelieveable,he was on parole when he did this..well i think even if he is dumb enough to take it to trial he is still looking at life but there is no amount of time they will give him that will bring justice to ur mom..i dont know if u belive in god or not but if u do u and ur family will have ur justice when he goes in front of god..u will be in my prayers

thank you so much,in my opinion u should take the guarentee of life in prison with no parole,my son's case is alot different..he was originally charged with 1st degree but took a plea bargain of 1st degree aggravated manslaughter,the prosecuter offered the best deal he could given the lack of evidence..a trial is like living through it all over again..if there is a guarentee of life take it,but tell me this did they say he was willing to take the offer or does he wanna take it to trial?