Hi Vasanthi - Just checking in to see how you are doing.  I understand how this event has been the most devastating experience to ever strike us as parents.  Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.  Are you familiar with the organization called AliveAlone?  It's for bereaved parents who have lost their only children.  They have a quarterly newsletter that comes out and in it they share stories of loss, upcoming events and items to view.  Let me know if you would like some more information on this organization and I will send it right away.  hugs and more hugs

Hi Vasanthi - I just viewed the photo's of your son and I must say he certainly was a "hottie".  I too lost my only child - unfathomable is all I can say.  How old was your son Vasanthi?  Please know that I am thinking of you and wishing you some peace in this dreadfully sad world we must partake in.  I see it was your birthday on the 13th.  I hope you found a way to get through the day with your son in your heart.  Take care and blessings as always.

Gale

Vasanthi, I am thinking of you especially today on your birthday. My son passed four days before my birthday, so it was a haze. I can't imagine spending birthdays without him, so I imagine this is a sad for you. It seems wrong to say happy birthday to those in our club, but I wish you some peace today. I know your son is with you too.

Oh Vasanthi, he is such a beautiful man, for sure a "hottie". Those are some very nice pictures.  I'm so very sorry for your loss. He looks like a fantastic son. I am glad you are getting your drivers license so you can get out. I understand completely about not wanting to be around the college kids.  I lost my precious Randy to drugs only 10 weeks ago and I cannot stand to drive down the street where the high school is or see any of the high school kids, or little blonde boys either.  My heart goes out to you. Hugs

So well said Vasanthi S.

So well said....

Thank you vasanthi I did reply to your message but it disappeared some how. I guess it is going to take me a while to learn how to navigate this site! I am so very sad at the moment and not really up to writing but I thank you for your welcome and I am also sorry for the loss of your beloved son

Thank you for welcoming me . And for your warm words.

I LOVE your pictures...especially the little one that shows every time you post...wonderful..

What wonderful photos...I pour over our photos of our Brandon and try to go back to those times when he was here with us...I don't want to forget ANY of the wonderful times...I want to feel my son around me through the photos, or through ANYTHING that reminds me of him and our lives together...when we play the music he loved, I can cry for him, but also I can SENSE his pleasure that we haven't stopped playing the music that breaks our hearts, but at the same time brings him closer to us again...I pray you find ways to bring your son close to you every day, every minute...in those dark times that descend upon us...with me they just pop up all of a sudden and flatten me ...a way to hold on to them...their memory...their presence even now...they CAN'T be gone....just away....