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I just want to be sad.

I don't really have any one to tell my thoughts to. They will think I was crazy if I did. Or they say something in good intentions, that really hurts my feelings. Anyone else going thru this?

Started Jul 6, 2019

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Michelle replied to Brett Bowman's discussion Are We Alone?
"I was in the exact situation. But I was the one who offered help. But everything I did was wrong to my sister. And I stopped because of that. Your post made me see her side of it. My mom died this year. My sister only cuses me out. She won't…"
Jul 9, 2019
Michelle replied to Lauren's discussion Falling in Love with Family Member or Best Friend
"My brother's wife died. Then 4 months later he married her best friend of 25 years. It didn't last. But I never understood why. Seemed too soon to marry again to me."
Jul 6, 2019
Michelle replied to Crystal Parker's discussion Always Angry
"Maybe you are feeling so much hurt inside. That anger is the easiest way to release it."
Jul 6, 2019
Michelle replied to Amanda Stout's discussion ..."At First, It May Seem Like Nothing... But, Something Seems Completely Different, That's When You Know, It Isn't Just, Nothing"...
"When I was a kid. Me and my mom would sit on the porch and she would point out the whiporwills. A couple days after she died a whiporwills stayed by my front door for two days and sang. So I can relate."
Jul 6, 2019
Michelle posted a discussion

I just want to be sad.

I don't really have any one to tell my thoughts to. They will think I was crazy if I did. Or they say something in good intentions, that really hurts my feelings. Anyone else going thru this?
Jul 6, 2019
Michelle replied to Amy's discussion How do I get unstuck?
"I am a Christian. His suffering is over. In heaven you get a new body. So he got a new healthy body. What kind I don't know. This is what I believe. So I think he is happy and healthy."
Jul 6, 2019
Michelle commented on Chris's blog post The Numbness Continues.
"My mom died this past January. I have not cried still. She was 92. She was wanting to go. She made her peace. My brother and sister hate me. I don't know why. I don't hate them. I wish I could. I understand being numb. Because it seems…"
Jul 6, 2019
Michelle commented on Lauren A Fernandez's blog post I'm trying to not blame my dad for my mom's death
"Maybe part of this is post partum depression. I had it 30 years ago when they called it baby blues. I see why you feel the way you do though."
Jul 6, 2019
Michelle is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Jul 6, 2019

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About Me:
Middle aged mom of grown kids. I am your average person I guess.
About my Loss:
My mom died at 92. My sister took over mom's care. Would not let he help or include me in any way.

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Sue M commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"im sorry Shirelle, the computer changed your name to Shirley. "
15 hours ago
Sue M commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"Hello Shirley, im so sorry for you and your family. I know how deep, sharp, and unimaginable this pain is. I know too how it breaks you up and your world too. It was like looking through a broken kaleidoscope for me. Nothing seemed whole, I trusted…"
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I love my Dad.

For everyone that has lost their Dad.
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rebecca wrobel is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
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Shirelle commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"My son came home for 3 month then died"
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Shirelle commented on Kar's group Missing my Son or Daughter
"My son pass away Nov 25 at 936am my life has not been the same I really feel lost , empty nothing to live for but I have 3 other kids I love them more than anything I just don't know what to do please can someone help me"
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Missing my Son or Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.See More
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Billy Jo Colt left a comment for Miriam Holmes
"Hi Miriam, You have my deepest admiration and empathy. I don't have any family left to speak of. For years there was no one to talk to about my daily life. Although I found it difficult to be open with people and preferred to help them rather…"
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M Adams commented on Miriam Holmes's blog post Healing Repetition
"Miriam, thanks for what you’ve said here, think it will be helpful to many other people here and I hope writing it down will help you as well.  What you say about the way you miss your uncle, the loss of rituals and of his expressions of…"
Saturday
Shirelle posted a status
"It will be 2 months since my son pass I'm feel do lost I'm don't want to work but have bills I don't want to talk to anyone just want to cry"
Friday
Miriam Holmes posted a blog post

Healing Repetition

An uncle in our family committed suicide.  For five years his wife, Aunt Alice, said the same things over and over again to anyone who would listen.  We are a loving family, so we listened and said the same hopefully comforting things back to her again and again.  And after five years she was done and could move on.  I hope it doesn't take five years, but I need to talk about my Uncle Jim and my cousin Paul and probably repeat myself a lot. It took a long time to develop my relationship with…See More
Friday
Katherine A Pericas Geersten commented on Karen's group I miss my Mom!
"Hi everyone, My name is Katherine.  I am learning how to deal with the loss of my mom, she passed away two months ago.My mom was never my best friend, but she was so much more. She made me the person that I am today and living without her has…"
Friday
Katherine A Pericas Geersten joined Karen's group
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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....
Friday
Katherine A Pericas Geersten posted a discussion

Hello, a little bit about me.

Two months ago, my mom committed suicide. As of now, this has to be one of the hardest things I have ever dealt with in my life. I hope that through this forum I may be able to just reach out to someone who can kind of understand what my situation is like.My friends try to talk to me (and I do reach out to them) but I feel that the situation I am in is a really heavy thing to talk about (basically I don't want to rope my friends into my troubles, nor do I want to be a burden to them). I talk to…See More
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Thursday
Miriam Holmes left a comment for Dona Fiedler
"Dona, I am so sorry for your pain.  A difficult relationship like yours always leaves all sorts of conflicting feelings that are hard to sort out.  I hope that the support you receive here will help you find your way to a better place."
Thursday
Miriam Holmes left a comment for Dona Fiedler
"Hi, I'm brand new, too.  I needed some place to talk out the grief that other people don't understand and don't really want to listen to.  Hopefully, this will be a helpful place for both of us.  Whatever your loss, I…"
Thursday
Miriam Holmes posted a blog post

The Little Things

This morning there was a crescent moon.  I always called it a "fingernail moon," but my cousin Paul called it a "toenail moon."  I got all choked up seeing it.  Then the Valentine cards are out at Walmart.  He loved all the holidays, and I always sent him cards.  But no more.  More tears to fight back.  Sometimes his love for you would overflow, and he would just have to give you a big hug and tell you that he loved you right then and there.  I have never had anyone else do that for me.  I knew…See More
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