"I was in the exact situation. But I was the one who offered help. But everything I did was wrong to my sister. And I stopped because of that. Your post made me see her side of it. My mom died this year. My sister only cuses me out. She won't…"
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I just want to be sad.
I don't really have any one to tell my thoughts to. They will think I was crazy if I did. Or they say something in good intentions, that really hurts my feelings. Anyone else going thru this?
Started Jul 6, 2019
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"My brother's wife died. Then 4 months later he married her best friend of 25 years. It didn't last. But I never understood why. Seemed too soon to marry again to me."
"Maybe you are feeling so much hurt inside. That anger is the easiest way to release it."
"When I was a kid. Me and my mom would sit on the porch and she would point out the whiporwills. A couple days after she died a whiporwills stayed by my front door for two days and sang. So I can relate."
I just want to be sad.
I don't really have any one to tell my thoughts to. They will think I was crazy if I did. Or they say something in good intentions, that really hurts my feelings. Anyone else going thru this?
"I am a Christian. His suffering is over. In heaven you get a new body. So he got a new healthy body. What kind I don't know. This is what I believe. So I think he is happy and healthy."
"My mom died this past January. I have not cried still. She was 92. She was wanting to go. She made her peace. My brother and sister hate me. I don't know why. I don't hate them. I wish I could. I understand being numb. Because it seems…"
"Maybe part of this is post partum depression. I had it 30 years ago when they called it baby blues. I see why you feel the way you do though."
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- About Me:
- Middle aged mom of grown kids. I am your average person I guess.
- About my Loss:
- My mom died at 92. My sister took over mom's care. Would not let he help or include me in any way.
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