Its 3 1\2 years later and lately I have been dying inside missing my mom. I know its because there are outside things going on and she was my go to person to vent to and lean on. She was always there with out her some days i feel so alone. My husband tries so hard to help me he just isn't a very emotional person and has a hard time understanding. I am trying to keep it together but lately its been very hard. I guess I just need to vent and know that grieving this long after is normal.

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I dont think there is a time limit on grieving for our loved ones. We are missing a part of us and maybe some days might be a little easier then others but we will always feel sn empty part of us. Its ok to vent here xo
Thank you, I am starting to feel a little crazy. I do feel the missing part of me and its hard to accept that void will never be filled. Thank you for replying I really appreciate it.

my dad died in 2012 i still feal so broken i do my dad wz strong 1 me mum feal so messed up pluss death on top after him 

im plesed im not god abuse iv scream at him/her evn if i met god i wud be angry at him/her

I lost my wife in August, my grandfather in 2004, my uncle in 1998, my father in 1978.  I still grieve for them all to this day.  I don't know that I will ever get to a place that I don't miss them- in the case of my wife she was the center of my universe, my sole reason for getting up in the morning and coming home at night.  I won't ever completely  "get over" losing her from my life.   This is just  my new normal.

 

There is no time limit for grief and no right or wrong way to feel.   Do not listen to anyone who says otherwise.    Though we cannot know precisely how you must feel, all of us here have lost someone we love, so we do understand how difficult any loss can be.   This is a great community of folks who are doing their best to cope while trying to help each other along this surreal path.  Keep reaching out- vent to us if you want to, and do not lost hope!

 

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